A friend of mine asked me recently how I think of this guy. I named him "A". "A" has been dating my friend for a few mths. Nothing progresses btw them as my friend still haven gotten over her ex after their break up not long ago. Then my friend told me that "A" had previously invited a net friend from oversea (gal whom he know for barely a mth) to stay over at his hse. When asked by my friend, he says nothing happens btw them. 3 mths later, this gal went to his hse to stay over again.
There was another incident when “A†was watching movie with my friend, he accidentally sent a sms to my friend. The sms was intended to be sent to that net friend. The message in the sms was “dear dear, I am having tea with my friend now, will be home late tonight, tomorrow then call youâ€. When ask by my friend, he says it’s nothing wat…juz flirting with her only.
Wat I told my friend was that this guy cannot be trusted. Her friend also tells her the same thing. She knows that but somehow still not firm herself as she chose not to believe that he is this kind of guy. She thinks that it’s not really that bad as she is not his gf so he is free to do wat he wants. She feels that this guy is devoted and she is touched by his willingness to wait for her to be ready to get over her ex.
I dunno wat else I can advise her…guess love is really blind bah.
There was another incident when “A†was watching movie with my friend, he accidentally sent a sms to my friend. The sms was intended to be sent to that net friend. The message in the sms was “dear dear, I am having tea with my friend now, will be home late tonight, tomorrow then call youâ€. When ask by my friend, he says it’s nothing wat…juz flirting with her only.
Wat I told my friend was that this guy cannot be trusted. Her friend also tells her the same thing. She knows that but somehow still not firm herself as she chose not to believe that he is this kind of guy. She thinks that it’s not really that bad as she is not his gf so he is free to do wat he wants. She feels that this guy is devoted and she is touched by his willingness to wait for her to be ready to get over her ex.
I dunno wat else I can advise her…guess love is really blind bah.