COME Share: Carat/Clarity/Colour of Ur Diamond Ring

honeybunny

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Dear All,

Have been shopping around with my FH for proposal ring. Come and share what type of ring was presented during the PROPOSAL... Size, Clarity & Colour....
 


Hi Apple,

Mine is 0.48carat, F color & VS1 ( Destinee - Lee Hwa )

We actually source around since last june, and finally settle for this one last Dec as FH & me find that the shine of the diamond is really brilliant!
 
I got mine is 0.6 carat, D colour & VS1 (Celetial - GoldHeart)

I suggest u buy a nice ring during their sales time, cause more worth to buy. Presentl due to valentine, gold heart and lee hwa have 50% + 10% (member)discount.
 
Hi Apple,

I will having my ROM on 5th May 2006.
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Hi Apple,

Thanks. We are purposely look on this date cause easier to remember. We log on ROM website at 1200am sharp but too bad still unable to get morning session and only manage to get at 2.05pm. Headache, don't know where to go after that cause not much place for high tea on weekday as it's fall on friday.

I will be having my simple ceremony at ROM Building cause don't want spend too much on this.

How abt you?
 
My bf proposed wif a 0.5 carat, E colour, VS1 diamond ring (Zen series frm Goldheart). It was a pleasant surprise. =)
 
Hi Seafaith,

wow... log in at 120am still cant get date. me actually thinking of going hotel, might change to ROM at ROM instead. Are you taking their Love That Binds Package?
 
Hi Apple,

Ya lor, but i still can get the date, just the timing very odd loh...

How much the Love That Blind Package?? We just want a simple solemnisation. If the package is worth, will consider it also. Do u have any idea??
 
hi seafaith, not too bad,at least u got the date. Love that binds is a company in the ROM premises that is in charge of the nicer rooms for couples to hold their rom. The charges ranges from 108 onwards to 200 plus, depending on the room & timing. They will they only allow you usage of room for 15 mins for the rental. you can be more info on ROM website.
 
Hi Apple, thanks for your info.... wow! just 15min then i will feel that is wasted money. But then, if they include the buffet like high tea, will it be more expensive?
 
Hi Seafaith, I think if you want to cater for buffet high tea, then you can only book the outdoor venue call the Garden. That will be at an added cost. Otherwise they do have this restaurant call Manosonic Club where they can cater for event. You may want to call them to enquiry about the catering charges.

I have confirm my ROM at Grand Corpthorne Waterfront, Paradiso Room. It's a nice & cosy room that you can check it out
 
Hi Apple,

How much it's cost for your ROM at Grand Corpthorne Waterfront? My ROM on 5th May, just abt 6-7 weeks left. Will it be too rush to arrange?

I had checked Manosonic Club, quite expensive and also feel not worth to spend the money there.

What's your comment?
 
hi, my htb proposed with a 0.43carat, E, VS1 diamond solitaire. (passion from citigems). Couldn't help smiling when i saw ring. :-)
 
Hi Seafaith... my is a customised package at Paradiso Room cos I wanted all to be in one room rather than doing a ceremony in one room & the meal in another. The events manager cater a tea menu of $42 +++, inclusive of soft drinks, They will provide the setup, table, reception & signing table floral & invitation cards. All my guests will be seated at the round tables during the signing ceremony then proceed for the buffet high tea. The events manager has nice to provide me some chair sashs for add decor.

Personally I prefer to hold it at a hotel coming from the industry. There are many nice rest & options that you can explore. Maybe you can advise me your range of budget then I can help you brainstorm on ideas?

Dear Anomaly,
Congrats to you! I always belive that it's the tots that counts & not the other factors lor. So have you decide on an ROM date?
 
Hi ladies, see that some of you go shopping for the proposal ring with ur FH. I also wanted to go & choose myself leh, last week my bf say he went a few shops to take a look, so i told him this weekend bring mi go & choose lor...
but in the end juz now he say he bought a ring liao, can change design but latest by this sat...

he bought from lee hwa jewellery...but me prefer soo kee jewellery BR leh...how?? if there are really no designs which i like at lee hwa, can change to wedding bands??
 
i looked up magazines and shops for designs for ring. chose a design similar to trinity but with the central diamond larger. total 0.65 ct, custom made from a shop in ang mo kio at less than 2k. all E colour, VVS.
 
Apple i just saw ur post...lol ur ROM date is my bday lol...and i havent got proposed but planned to rom in 14 months time...me and my bf just decided so no proposal at all...
 
Hi ladies,

Mine's a 0.5; VVS1; D color ( Destinee )

Didn't know so much research had to be done on this darn stone man.. so many things to note eh? hahha~
 
Mine's a 0.46, E, VS 1, from SooKee. We went shopping for it together and am very happy with the buy cos it's very value for money.
 
I think mine the smallest here.... Mine a 0.31, VS2, G, brillant Rose from Soo Kee. He choose the ring himself. But the price is not worth the size of the diamond.... so those who wa BR better choose carfully... but it shine like nobody business u know...
 
Mine is a 0.47, E color brillant rose. Clarity, i think its VVS1. He brought me to choose the ring. Agree that it shine better than normal GIA diamond. But nwadays, he kept telling me his colleagues are buying bigger diamond like 0.6 (GIA grdae) as proposal ring and it's not even 2k. Did we made the wrong choice? Cos he claimed that no one will really go near n see hw shiny my ring is. it's the size that matters?
 
The diamond is just an item accompanying the proposal. Some gals do not have a proposal ring. I don't think size matters as much as the proposal. I would trade in my diamond ring for a committed husband and a happy marriage. Some pple say diamond must be at least 2 to 3 times the guy's monthly salary. I think that's not necessary.

However, pple do compare sizes. If you can stand up to peer pressure and comments, then size doesn't matter to you. Cos only the heart of your fiance/husband should matter to you.
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By the way, my diamond ring is only 30% of my fiance's gross monthly salary. I could have chosen something bigger and nicer cos he can afford it, but I chose something suitable for my small hands and slim fingers instead.
 
Oh... I agree. I see got cheaper one which is much bigger. But since my FH bought it, I cant say it small. Anyway, the size is just nice for my finger cos I got skinny hand. Sometime I do feel abit not worth for the BR, 0.3 can cost more than 2K compare to others. But I guess the price is measure for it quality.
 
I agree, jus that my HB is comparing his purchase with his other colleagues..sigh~~But we could've gotten bigger diamond ring but it does not suit my finger too!
 
It's hard not to compare with other pple but what's most important is it's precious where it counts right? Like, your HB's love for you than the stone on your finger.
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When your wedding preps get underway, and you both realise there's so much in terms of expenses to foot, the issue of getting a bigger diamond ring will fade into the background.
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hey cherryapple, brilliant rose is definitely worth buying becoz the design emphasises on the cut, not the size.

U have to c among the 4Cs, which C do u put as priority.

For me, Cut is the most important so I don't really care about the Carat, Colour or Clarity.
 
agree with cactus,wedg incurs many expenses. anyw most impt is the sincere proposal.
its the heart tt counts, n how he treats u during evry 365 days tt bth is tght.

haha yah, HB's love for wife then is the real thing that shines beautifully
 
Be enlightened. Get informed.

Worth-less
About 130 million carats (26,000 kg) are mined annually, with a total value of nearly USD $9 billion. Now if you do the math - that works out to be US$69.20 per carat! The prices of diamond is artificially controlled and inflated. Mined diamonds are bought by cartels and kept in vaults to control supply and keep prices high, in truth there is nothing rare or precious about the stones.

For a detailed exposé of the De Beers cartel, read this article by Edward Jay Epstein in the February 1982 issue of The Atlantic Monthly - www.theatlantic.com/doc/print/198202/diamond

Have you heard of conflict diamonds?
Roughly 49% of diamonds originate from central and southern Africa - that's the majority of diamonds in retail. But this is the same region where conflict diamonds get worked into the system.

A conflict diamond (also called a blood diamond or a war diamond) is a diamond mined in a war zone and sold, usually clandestinely, in order to finance an insurgent or invading army's war efforts - http://www.amnestyusa.org/diamonds/index.do

In some cases, the United Nations has prohibited the export of conflict diamonds, arguing that their trade finances armies in fighting against legitimate governments and perpetrating human rights abuses, and prolongs devastating wars. It points to the UNITA rebels in Angola and to the Revolutionary United Front rebels in Sierra Leone (who it states were financed by the government of Liberia, also through diamond sales) as purveyors of conflict diamonds.

The UN is attempting to implement certification procedures to decrease the number of illicit diamonds on the world market. On July 19, 2000, the World Diamond Council adopted at Antwerp a resolution to strengthen the diamond industry's ability to block sales of conflict diamonds.

In 2002, the UN approved the Kimberley Process scheme aimed at preventing conflict diamonds entering the market.
See - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kimberley_Process

Still there is no guarantee the Kimberly Process can enforce 100% that no conflict diamonds make it to the market - see National Geogrpahic interview with reporter Dominic Cunningham - http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2003/02/0212_030212_diamonds.html

Natural mined diamonds have been coming under a lot of heat recently. Award-winning journalist Cecil Adams sums it up the best in a recent article: “diamonds are a scam, pure and simple.†Most people in the new millennium understand that between the DeBeers diamond cartel, the issue of child labor in Third World diamond processing operations, and “blood diamonds†used to finance oppression and genocide in Third World African countries, not to mention your snooty and pretentious local jeweler, diamonds are just not worth the hassle, guilt, and let’s not forget thousands and thousands of questionably spent dollars.


7 Reasons Why You Should NEVER Buy a Diamond:

1. The price of diamonds has been artificially inflated since the 1880's via the De Beers diamond cartel. Read this article by Edward Jay Epstein in the February 1982 issue of The Atlantic Monthly - www.theatlantic.com/doc/print/198202/diamond

2. Current public perception of diamonds is the direct result of a masterfully executed marketing campaign by De Beers that began in 1938, not inherent scarcity or value. If you've read the article by Edward Epstein (you really should), you know all of the gory details. Isn't it amazing (and scary) how brainwashed people are about the "value" of diamonds, even though they're not actually worth that much?

3. A diamond is an illiquid asset, not an "investment". Try to sell a second-hand diamond ring on eBay or at a pawn shop. Do you really think you'll get anything close to what you paid for it? Do you really think the price of any diamond you purchase today is going to go up significantly over time? Why do you think a diamond is forever? Because once you buy it, it's a 'lost' investment and you have no choice but to hold on to it. LOVE is forever but a diamond is for NEVER (if you know better).

4. The diamond industry funds warfare, genocide, and terrorism. A conflict diamond (also called a blood diamond or a war diamond) is a diamond mined in a war zone and sold, usually clandestinely, in order to finance an insurgent or invading army's war efforts. Profits from conflict diamonds are used to finance warlords in Angola, Sierra Leone, and Liberia, who use their weapons to kill and maim innocent people. You won't be able to tell if your diamond is a conflict diamond or not?
Read BBC reports
- http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/correspondent/1604165.stm
- http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/3581799.stm

5. A diamond is - by nature - just a pretty rock. Think of the oft-quoted "rule" of diamond ring buying: the ring should cost a minimum of two month's salary (pre-tax), and you should spend as much on a ring as you can afford. Let's put this rule in its proper context: according to the people who sell pretty rocks, you're supposed to trade a full two months of your time and effort for one of their pretty rocks. Does that seem wise?

6. People notice the setting more than the diamond itself. To the naked human eye, most decent quality diamonds look the same. Unless the stone is yellow, has major inclusions, or has a distinctly lopsided cut, no one will be able to distinguish an ideal cut, E color, VS-1 stone from a lesser-quality diamond just by looking at it. What people do notice is the setting - how the stone is featured or placed, side stones, and the craftsmanship and artistry of the band. Knowing this - does it make more sense to focus your attention and dollars on a better stone, or on a better setting?

7. The opportunity cost of buying a diamond is huge. Opportunity cost is what you give up by spending your scarce resources on a single option. In other words, if you drop ten grand on a diamond ring, you have $10,000 less to spend on other things, like a fantastic honeymoon, a car, furniture, a down payment on a house, investing for the future, or further education. Are all of these options worth giving up for a little piece of colorless carbon?

More readings...

Not Forever
The death of South African diamond magnate Harry Oppenheimer might mark the end of global domination for one of the world's most infamous cartels.
By Susan Emerling
http://www.salon.com/business/feature/2000/09/27/diamonds/index.html

Nice ice
Lab-made diamonds are as dazzling as those mined by third-world labor. This bling may be easier on your conscience -- and your wallet.
By Corrie Pikul
http://www.salon.com/mwt/the_big_idea/2004/12/24/diamonds/index.html

What you can do?
http://www.globalwitness.org/pages/en/what_you_can_do.html
 
lara,

destinee comes with 8 hearts and 8 arrows whereas destinee 10 comes with 10 hearts and 10 arrows.
 
erhh.... i don't know how to answer your question leh. i didn't compare between the both. at the time, i wanted the best in all the Cs. so happen that the one that i like is destinee 10, didn't mean to choose destinee 10. i just told them what i want, and that was given. cos for IF diamond are hard to find.

you can ask them to show you both with the same Cs to compare. maybe that will be a better for you to tell the difference.
 
hi Diamond No More
I 've watched Blood Diamond Movie with my FH. He proposed to me on 1 Jan 07. He suan me that the diamond he got for mi could potentially be blood diamonds. I've since dropped the idea of getting 4 Dian Juan in place of 4 Dian Jin.

Mine's a 0.85 carat; VVS2 clarity; F color, 105-facets Gabrielle by Charlotte Atelier. It comes with 3 small diamonds on each side of the casing.
 

I have no idea why but my FH's mum told me that goldsmith shops are better for getting diamond rings, she told me not to buy from places like Goldheart, SK, etc. So, we went to several goldsmith shops today and i saw a nice diamond ring, around 0.3 carats. The diamonds are really nice but they were much more expensive! Heard from the owner that their diamonds have no black dots, unlike those u see on cheaper diamonds.

We went to this shop called On Cheong, http://www.oncheong.com/aboutus.htm. I am in a dilemma right now... Is there really a difference? Should i really get my ring from such goldsmiths?
 

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