CNY Resolutions?


All the best, scope.

For me, I hope my career is smooth-sailing and that my hubby and I will continue to be lovey dovey. :p
 
The dictionary states the meaning of resolution as "a resolve or determination: to make a firm resolution to do something."

But you stated your wishes. So what do you resolve to do so that they are fulfilled??
 
Yea, a resolution means being determined about doing something...

Career wise, I hope to quickly learn new ropes in my new role and do my best for the school and students

Marriage wise, I hope to be able to bring little surprises to my hubby now and then despite our hectic work schedule
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How about yours?
 
You do know my love is already married, and the husband is not me... LOL~

All the best lah...

年年难过年年过.
 
Scope, your love is already married..but u can always look for another one! It's a new year..need to be optimistic!
 
Denise80,

You think this is choosing apples in wet market shopping? LOL~

Thanks.

Don't know why, I just have such feelings for her. So... Is it fair for the other women I have... Sometimes I wonder.

Luckily, I am not stingy with my love.
 
Hmm...sometimes if you try meeting women u usually wouldn't might bring you surprises...

I'm speaking of course from my personal humble experience having had a list of criteria of what I would like my partner to be..only in the end to realise that my hubby who doesn't meet most of the criteria I used to set is most suitable match for me. Interestingly, this happened to him too.
 
Acquiring one more property for year 2012....and sticking to my stance of not getting married no matter how good a girl come along...><"

And to have the courage to tell the girl right from the very start i am not going to get married if she goes into a rs with me.
 
Scope, since when r u so self-deprecating??

Anyway, I don't think looks matter to many ppl these days...it's other qualities I believe
 
Whatever...

I am not a vege myself. Fate is not a basket of fruits you can choose... and discard, even given adultery.

Love is a special feeling. That's why many people don't understand, and once another appears they just cut.

I know who I love, she chose someone else... LOL~

I am not a robot, I don't think she is a robot. What qualities? It's always when we met, I feel, I know. That's all. It's the same the other way round of a woman sees a man.

Especially if there is a someone else... I don't want her to be another robot looking for 'qualities'. It's the feel. It always is.
 
I can guarantee u that Scope one day u are going to be exploited by woman if u fall in love with someone who is out to cheat u.....

The way u believe in love.....i dunno...hope one day u see this world as it is....face the reality...Good Luck....
 
That depends if the girl will cheat me or not. This kind of things we can't decide for anybody. But it's definitely better than to treat girls as sex machines.
 
Eh...u need to understand one thing leh....even if want to treat girl as sex machine hor...u need to have the financial muscle in the first place...Girls are kinda smart nowadays u know....no free lunch....

And i think u can't say tat one is treating them as sex machine....the amount of money u must throw in the first place....i see it more as a trade off for both parties...><"

Each party get wat they want in the end..simple as tat...><"
 
I remember quite a few friends of mine...quite pretty one told me tat...they dun mind being other ppl mistress when they are in their 20s woh....but must got enough money each month la..

They prefer to get married after 30s when their youth is gone.....soooooooo.......wat can i say....

Materialistic???...i dun think so...i just feels they are smart and practical....><"
 
Yesno,

they just try to harvest their youth for branded handbag and accs.

after its gone, they will put in display on the shelf. nobody want it anymore.

it is their choices, everything is always double edge swords.
 
Eh...even 2nd hand branded bags can sell off for $$$ in some shops.....

And not forgetting that this guy is probably going to give the gal 5k-8k a month on top of their existing salary.....some i know even bought their young mistress a house....><"

Anyway....like u say double edged sword...not forgetting there is a price to pay for everything.....><"
 
it is ok, when i was young i always like all expensive stuffs. but after i reach 30 plus. that items is not required anymore. but how to spent my life is more important.

i don't see wearing that expensive items will make you special or better than another. just like a watch i wear, a Seiko sports. i like it until now because i bought it when i got my first salary.

my boss want to buy me expensive watch like Panerai or etc, i just put it at home. well i will wear that watch if there is number 13 on the analog circle. give me extra one hours. that i would love to have. if not, all watch are all the same functionally.
 
yesno333, are most women you met or know like that?

I led a humble life when young and only started to spend more on myself when I begin to earn a living. I don't really know what kind of women they are but for 8k a month, they simply can do anything the man desires and accept that the man's married? I have more dignity and could earn my 8k myself. I rather work hard but with dignity than to work hard in bed. No difference from 'prostitution' for the kept mistresses/women I guess but that's their choice. One sells, another 'buys'. It's a fair world.
 
Eh...denise80 u mean all the women i know are like tat not most la.....><"

Erm 8k is more like savings for them to keep mah....sometimes dun forget on top of that will bring them out shopping pay for all their stuffs leh....dinners at nice places...blah blah

I dun really view it as "prostitution" but more like a bizness transaction...each one get both wat they want mah....

The guy might be married and might not be married...but usually u will make it very clear to the girl that u wun marry them la.... hmmm..let me see...we should term it as companionship...

When i was young i use to believe in love mah...i mean everyone is the same mah....we read fairy tales toking abt love eternity blah blah.....i mean i use to have a gf that told me that the best gift she receive was from a ex-bf which is a hand drawn potrait of her mah.....so when her bday arrives...i thought that i would do something similar by drawing up a bday card..with a small gift.

I have to admit i was a sucker to believe in love back then mah...upon receiving the gift...she told me that in my case different mah....since i can afford it...i should be buying her the latest prada bag....the next thing i know....we are marching off to prada....i wonder if the card end up in the rubbish bin..lol...

So the moral is ... this is a practical world....fairy tales are best kept in written format mah...
 
yesno333, I think you just met the wrong gals all the time...maybe you have a soft spot for a certain type of personality and they happen to also be materialistic?
 
Yesno333,

Said many times already... The girls you like and the girls I prefer are not the same.

And our approaches to relationship differ.

Besides... I already am ready to spend this life alone. If... there is a girl who will love me and I will love her, fine. If not, then forget it.

Not all women go for money... at least none of my women really were with me for money.

Not everyone love prostitutes... no matter tha label is mistress or whatever.
 
lol vios, I can't live each day like its last cos this will mean I'll never work. The last thing on my mind is to work if this is my last day on earth. But I know what you mean...

Anyway if this is really the last day on earth, I'll spend my time with my family and hubby and enjoy as much food and fun as I could.
 
Dear Denise, of course it includes my career at the same time. Well, Life is too unpredictable. I do not want to have regrets.
 
Yesno, while you can afford to buy prada for her, and make sure you will have sex with her. if not it will be a waste.

you will have to enjoy as much as she is happy with the bag. after you are bored, it is time to change.

this is the trade. she get what she wants, you must also get what you want. because women can offer nothing except her body.

sound rude isn't ? ask all the misstress if anyone feel offended.
 
denise80 i am sure i bear little interest in women going after money..coz there is tons of them out there.....but tat is no longer impt since marriage is the last thing in my mind....><"

Eh mirrorcelcius....sex is not that impt la ...but if really want getting it is easy...putting tat aside, u eventually reach a pt in life tat sex start to get dull....the women are there more for companionship when u get bored....><"

Sometimes what ppl want is a listening ear woh....not everything has to be x-rated...><"
 
What is the point of a resolution... 2012 just started and we are talking about CNY resolutions?

For me it is always the same, stay healthy and spend time with your loved ones.. don't give excuses like work ..

If there is something you want to learn, some books you want to read, some places you want to visit - just go do it.. don't put it off..
 
I have to strongly agree with this last sentence... "If there is something you want to learn, some books you want to read, some places you want to visit - just go do it.. don't put it off.."

Life is so short....do wat u want to do..before it is gone in a blink...><"
 
my CNY resolution :

I hope US Government is able to settle their USD 55 trillion debt.

and for those in america does not have a house and they live in tent. i hope they have a better life than now.

END ALL POVERTY !!!
 
Are you stupid? It's about your resolution as in what you'd resolve to do in the new year. Not asking you to be a bimbo in a beauty pageant wishing away the myriad of ills afflicting the world. And even so when people do that they typically think of war torn places in Africa. Not the citizenry of the worlds only superpower.
 
And I still waiting to find out definitively what's ><"? Is it like "lol" yesno? If so you need to go get a refund from moe. They've failed you.
 
Is there a need to discount others' views or misinterpretation of the word 'resolution' as stupid?

I created this post for harmonious and more positive discussions. You could have guided the person nicely. There must be something really flawed in both of your personalities. Do you speak like that in real life? I pity your family members, your kids or wives. Or perhaps your family members are the smartest people on earth so you didn't have chance to label them as stupid.
 
denise,

why? why do u wanna involve yourself again?

pls note that as much as u try to sound 'harmonious', your need to involve my family members reflects Alot abt You.

u may have started this thread, but u've messed around as much in other pple's thread.

1) mirror's new year resolution is Stupid
2) he came into the forum picking up a fight with me without engaging me in the first place.

Denise, u are not cultured yourself, i really dun understand why u need to mention my kids n wife (not wives) in this. and how u pity them. this is highly unprovoked.

u are so mudderfarking biased against me.

pls dun ever talk to me again. u are damn mudderfarking biased and prejudiced against me and jump at every chance to engage me.

pls just stop talking to me. Really.

just mudderfarking STOP.
 
You 'stupidly' (now using back on you) thought I have some sort of prejudice against you and said it should be 'wife' and not 'wives'. I'm being objectively by telling You AND Toma not be so nasty to point out mirror's post as stupid. Who cares about whether he picked u a fight with you in another forum thread. As far as this thread is concerned, I think he did nothing wrong except to think of resolutions as 'wishes' and instead of adding to what are your cny resolutions or politely correct him, you chose to dirty my thread here by calling people stupid. How smart can you two be, I wonder? Do you treat people around you like that in real life?
 
The very fact that you thought my post was out to get you only showed how prejudiced you can be in your thinking. I'm targeting at both of your ridiculous behaviour in calling people stupid when they post something that showed their misunderstanding.
 
denise,

for heaven sake, this is NOT your thread. It is just a thread started by you. If it is your thread, you would be able to ban detractors from posting.
 


errr.....

i wish for better for all of us. It is nice that most of you living in the illusion and comfort world. i am so envy.

the prices is rising and so do commodities prices.

i am so stupid just because i want to make sure all of us when work have enough money to put food on your table. i pray for it.

oh i forgot about it. my bad. Singapore is immune to this problem. silly me....
 
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