Advice on Relgion Problem

[miemie]

Hi all,

I would like to seek for some advice on this matter. Recently, had a problem with both side of parents.

My parents are catholic & my HTB side are Taoism. We are going to have a Chinese Traditional Ceremony. BUT we have a limited time to finish the whole tea ceremony.

Is there anyone do a 2-day wedding? Meaning One day for church wedding & one day for chinese ceremony & dinner. Cause i heard chinese trad ceremony can't seperate with wedding dinner?

My HTB to said isn't good to change twice of WHITE wedding gown after a tea ceremony. And My HTB's grandma won't be happy at all. As well as my grandma.

I'm in a HUGE mess!

Now my HTB wants to forgo the church wedding cause there won't be enough time to go for outdoor shoot. But i also don't wish to upset my parents. As well as his parents. As time is astrained.

I'm sandwich in between all! =\

 

[lynzie]

Hi. Would you like to give me your email and I'll communicate with you via email? I am doing a church wedding too. Probably could provide some advice

Cheers.

 

[miemie]

Hi Lynzie,

[email protected]

 

[jonathan_63024667]

Hello Jamie: How are things so far? and I had a church wedding while mine is a one day event. Everything all in KAO KAO. But fun! ok here's how it is.
1. Pick wife in am (me and bros waiting for coffee chop water to boil before eat bfast)
2. After bang door and do all things, pick wife back to parents house.
3. Have tea ceremony at my parents house.
4. Head straight for church wedding.
5. Some light food and refreshments at church
6. Head to in-law house for tea ceremony in Kua.. (traditional costume with red ball hanging in front of my chest)
7. Head to hotel and rest *wink wink power nap
8. Stand by for dinner
9. He he..
Hope it helps....

All photo shoots done before hand... not on the same days for the wedding albumn.

 

[anastasiazen]

Hi Jonathan,

very thank you for the detail flow of ur AD!!

me too having church wedding....and still thinking of the "sequence"....hahah

 

[jonathan_63024667]

did you actually discuss with hubby on their preferences? Actaually I know some people reading this might think that it's a 2 person affair. But at least respect both side parents and wishes first. Don't do it and then go and break their hearts. Just my two cents worth. Anyway for anastasiazen: Have fun and congrats again!

 

[mooremich]

Yes its too complicated to arrange both the wedding ceremony together. I think you should take the help from wedding planner they manage every thing in a perfect time