Hi Pinko.. can't advise on the dowry as of now, bcos our parents have not met to discuss on this. But usually how much of dowry also depends on how many "tables" the guy side is giving to the bride's parents.
Bcos my hubby is not exactly those super rich people, so we're splitting cost of 50-50 for all the cost of the banquet. But his parents actually offer to give us a sum of $$ to aid us in the whole wedding. Which also ease our pocket a little.
