Actual Day queries

Cefryy

New Member
Hi BTBs or those that have completed their ceremonies...

I am quite confused about the actual day process and when to wear what. Would appreciate some advice on what is the standard practice, especially for the customary part earlier in the day. I found the below steps via chat, if someone can advise if my red text is correct, would be great. Thanks in advance!

Groom's fetch bride (white dress)
Bride goes groom's house with her dowry (white dress or kua?)
Offer tea to groom's family - acknowledge and respect (kua?)
Then return to bride's house (white dress or kua?)
Offer tea to bride's family (white dress or kua?)
ROM solemnisation (if any) (white dress)
Banquet - first march in (white dress)
Banquet - second march in (is a white dress in different design still ok, or need to be an evening dress?)
 

nrrst

New Member
Groom's fetch bride (white dress) correct
Bride goes groom's house with her dowry (white dress or kua?) white dress
Offer tea to groom's family - acknowledge and respect (kua?) white dress
Then return to bride's house (white dress or kua?) kua/qipao (to be changed at groom's place)
Offer tea to bride's family (white dress or kua?) kua/qipao
ROM solemnisation (if any) (white dress) correct
Banquet - first march in (white dress) correct
Banquet - second march in (is a white dress in different design still ok, or need to be an evening dress?) there is no correct answer for this. it's up to what you'd like to wear. i'll be wearing pants haha
 

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