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Ggal, me and u must me ard same age, coz those are my fovorites too....

Ceci, may go MOS next weekend, will look out for the new dance.
 
oh G~gal, just rem sth. I might be able to own a Picnic sooner than I think!! This morning we saw a gorgeous PINK picnic on the road. Haha it's manual transmission, does not require a COE and has the word 'PICNIC' right across the body! So my bf says he will go and find out where we can get this 2-wheeled sweetie for me.
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me rabbit lah.

Infact my hubby is now same state as AL, is just atleast AL come here and may be someone will knock him up. My tat hubby .... sien.. the parent support him all the way to divorce with me..... btw my case nothing to talk liao, submitting to paper court.
 
walking out a marriage is not the end of the world. Who knows....you maybe happier w/o him...

Be a happy hopping rabbit...

'Doi Doi Doi'

hahahaha...I am oso a 'Doi Doi'
 
*puke blood* Someone call an ambulance for me.

Oi... dun so sexist leh. Lying is a natural-born talent to some. Both males & females are capable of it.
 
wrong simpleman....if i ever wan to lie...i tink i can be so good tat unless i speak the truth....no one can find out de....juz a matter of ai mai nia....
 
what i mean is that people can tell lies and lies.. until they themselves believe that the lies are true.. and these truths become undeniable truths.

And whatever we say then are lies.
 
ya I agree with Diana. ai mai nia. Just like I wrote that thread that girls can be really good liars if they want to.
 
woh lao eh... wat the AL wrote is exactly wat my husband said when i try to get him to talk abt our thing, he busy, need to work... i thought only my hubby so selfish and stupid and inmature... now i know have people same as him ... should intro them and let them live in their cocoon. Hope AL still do not have kids.
 
Exactly. But that's the epitome of lying.

When you manage to convince yourself that whatever lies you've sprouted are justifiable, and then soon you will be so sure of yourself that the lies would eventually become the 'truths'. And regardless of what others say when the cat's out of the bag, you will defend your stance... your 'truths'...

That is the scary part.
 
actually he is the one who lead the wife to be wary abt ce since he dun even noe if he like her bo....somehow, i can sense tat he hv a soft spot for ce
 
rara & diana,

I don't know about woman. But to me telling lies is not a matter of ai mia nia.

For me, I won't be able to have a clear conscience if I have lied through my teeth.

So woman (for eg you two) can lie (all sorts of lie) without any feelings?

So please, educate me what is ai mai nia in this context.
 
I think what the ladies meant isn't that they (ie women) can lie through their teeth with a clear conscience.

I think what they're saying is if, and only if, they wanted, females can resort to lying, and do as good a job, if not better, at it compared to men.
 
simpleman, wat we meant is tat if we really wan to lie, we can be beri good wif it....juz tat we prefer not to lie and hv a truthful r/s wif our partner....coz we believe tat we shld treat the others how we wan them to treat us....got it?
 
I feel so wronged. *checks myself* I'm still a woman leh. I can't lie thru my teeth. I can soften the blow (no lah, u're not fat. still slimmer than moses lim) but not say the exact opposite. My conscience will prick me to death & I will live in fear of being exposed.
 
machiavelli,

Yes, that is what I understand and I want them to confirm first if they really can lie through their teeth with a clear conscience (ai nia ma)
 
simpleman, ai mai nia means you have a choice to lie or not to lie. if one is determined to lie, the lie can be so well designed and executed that not a trace of untruth can be detected.

But lying, other than will, takes skill. Some people lie because they are good at it. Some people don't lie because they can't live with having told a lie. Some people want to lie but can't because they get exposed the very next minute.

For me, most of the time I choose not to lie. Even in situations where everybody lies to get that hot job, I naively tell the truth and reveal my lack of confidence. *sigh* What's worse, I can't lie very well. My conscience will keep bugging me and given my super kiasi character, I do not want to be faced with the consequences when I get exposed.
 
laundry, YOu are definitely a woman. I just thought that human (not just man and woman), if we have a conscience, then we could not possibly lie at will.
 
rara, "ai mai nia" - yes you got a choice or that is what you think.

It is now how you lie. But the important question you have not answered is, if you have chosen to lie (lie through your teeth) for eg, would you be able to live with your lie and have your conscience intact?
 
Haha I see. Well I doubt anyone could have the capacity to do that (lie with a clear conscience afterwards) unless he/she is one with very little morals as a result of abysmal upbringing coupled with growing up in an amoral sort of environment. Either that or he/she lies so often that it becomes second nature, and slips in and out of 'lying mode' comfortably.

Incidentally, my wife-to-be's not very good at telling lies. I could tell right away whenever she's lying. *chuckles*
 
of coz nt...tat is also y i dun lie to my bf or husband de....in fact, some of my frenz say i am too straightforward and frank liao....

juz quote an example, one of my ex ever say tat he will buy a car for me to drive if i pass my driving, then i can go fetch him off work (he is a hairsytlist) but guess wat i replied. i say siao huh, if i go car i will go out wif my frenz liao, y go wait for u to knock off wen ur working hrs is so elastic (i ever waited an hr or more after his knock off time for him)....see....if i hv chosen to lie and submissively say yes, i will hv a car liao....but hor i still nv go get my licence lah....hohoho

my frenz was telling me, y u so frank....shld hv get the car then say...
 
machiavelli, I guess so too.. but the ladies seem to think that we can do it (lying) - ai mai nia..

I really doubt it is easy for most people. For some I guess they have this capability.
 
diana & rara, you two are funny lah. You 2 prefer to tell the truth type and yet think and believe that we can lie through the teeth?
 
eeerrrr.....i oso did lie when i was in my previous co....

whenever my operators made a mistake / delay my client's project....I had to tell lies to cover their ass....

Does it mean I have little moral?
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hallo.. talking about lying? I won't lie unless absolutely necessary eg to save that person's face. OK, I do "gloss over" my shopping expenditure to my hb :P He doesn't need to know exactly how much i spend on shoes, does he?? ;) My money what... But I draw the line at lying about r/s matters. Re AL, think he's really immature for a 30+ yo guy in mgt somemore
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Dunno what company... wld be sucky to have a boss that lies...

RaRa, what pink Picnic?? With 2 wheels somemore!! Bicycle version ah.... kekeke...
 
simpleman, for one, i wasn't speaking for myself when I said girls can lie very well when they choose to, because I can't. I WILL definitely feel uneasy and guilty after that.

If one chooses or thinks he has to lie esp. in desperate situations where lying seems to be the only (short-term) solution, he will still go ahead with it even if it may be conscience-pricking.

I have seen lah. in my own family, sad to say.
 
Hehe Salsa... you're the mamasan of this Singles thread hor... ;) Welcoming all the newbies here... No membership fee meh?? I thot ah siao suppose to collect?? ;)
 


"welcome to the thread that is not for singles only...."

It's not?

Dang, I was just strategising ways to lie about my status to hang out over here... Haha...
 
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