Hmmmm... I was looking through the archives and I realised I did post here before, when I was looking for the couple who booked the date I wanted at ACM.
Just to update, I found the couple, I explained to them (For Rachel's benefit also since you asked this question) that we ROMed on 22 Jan 2006 so it is exactly 5 years later on the same date that we wish to hold our wedding celebration on 22 Jan 2011.
And why 5 years is because my hubby and I earn worse than a SBS bus drive or chicken rice stall holder, so we had to scrimp and save for 5 years before we can afford a wedding.
The other BTB was initially touched and said she would really consider switching, but the next thing I know she calls me and says she is willing to switch if I pay her additional $4000.
I was completely stunned by this, especially when I had just poured out my heart and soul to her about my poor financial state and how much we have gone through just to finally have this wedding, I was in utter shock anyone would ask for that amount.
Nonetheless, I asked her why that amount. She said it is due to hotel charging more during the CNY period, because she has many overseas guests that of course she has to put up for not just the weekend of her wedding but has to be the whole week, and of course because Fullerton is not cheap, and of course it has to include her own bridal suite.
I was simply dumbfounded. Never in my life had someone made me feel so low, so poor, and so downtrodden before. She obviously has money to do all these wonderful things in her wedding and put guests up etc. I could only hang my head low and cry to myself at the stark difference between us.
And therefore I had to put ACM aside, because not only was the date already booked, but from this experience I realised when it comes to planning your wedding, many things are either "meant to be" or it's not.
With my wanting to have it at this particular venue was causing so much pain and hurt to myself, and what a way to start planning what's supposed to be your most joyous day. I decided to put it behind me and to go with whatever is "meant to be".
Like with Furama Riverfront, I was already sitting there almost ready to sign the contract after negotiating for 3 months, however when it came down to it, my knees started trembling, my hand became numb, my heart started palpitating, I started hyperventilating. That was probably something inside me telling me that was not meant to be. So I listened to myself and went with another choice.
Sigh. That is my full story. Hope that it was entertaining for you girls to read and not boring! OK now I can start afresh in this forum! Will need your support! Many thanks!