hi folks, i'm back. seems like forever since i've last been here.
jaq> you are a OH btb?
diane> if i were u, i wld go. cos i'm kaypo ;P
but seriously i wld want to see how she's like. i'm guessing that maybe u r not sure of A's "intention" (since she's suddenly appearing everywhere ard YOUR fh), so seeing her help u "confirm" as well as correct any misperception on her part. And you can move on from A.
Another thing is if u don't go, ur mil and sil will prob wonder/ guess why you didn't turn up. it'll be worse if any misunderstanding arise from their guessings.
just act normal and take heart in the fact that he is YOUR fh
and i think ur FH will appreciate that you are going attending with him in spite of ur discomfort =)
it might not be as bad as you think. who knows, maybe A is also kaypo about her ex's fw. heh...