y not happy?? afterall, u married out le...i koe la, married le is still part of e family, bt then they hav to understand tat marry chicken follow chicken ma...
i guess you 2 can work out a list of 'impt' people tat u die die muz visit on e 1st day, then leave e rest for 2nd day lor...
for me, not so much headache coz mi FFIL is onli son, so no body to visit..then 1st dae, they usuali makan n go hm...so i will go mi parents place aft tat...
then 2nd dae, see whe we wan go lor..if his dad is going somewhe, then we will follow...if not, we go find frends, or go mi mum's house...simple as tat...