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XKA,

As a man, I advise ur bf to wake up his idea.
This time round I cant side him coz its his frens tat screw this up...
If its me, I'll blow up BIG time.

BTW, juz curious...
Did ur In-laws support you two in terms of ($$) for the wedding??
 
i'm not buying new bed. my hb tot of buying 1 but he said when we got our house the bed also shift. then when i come back once in a while where i sleep? so not buying liao.. we bought new bedsheet instead.

i think i'll get my GDL things in chinatown
 
So if we ask the MUA to stay back, where is she going around? Need to prepare a seat for her in the banquet? I not comfortable to leave her in the bridal suite as there where i keep all my ang pows
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But for sure, i am getting my MUA to stay liao. Since wedding is once in a life time, its the only time i can be in the limelight, haha!
 
yesterday i ask htb show his mum the new black & white bedsheet we bot for wedding.. test her reaction.. surprisingly she say ok.. no need for us to source for those red / pink wedding ones.
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ooh... the xin niang fang is actually my room, coz his room is full of rubbish( his mum's). buay tahan. and my mum ask me to renovate but no money, then she ask me to knock down my study table and 1 shelf. ask me to paint my room. really lazy man
 
Akino: I did that in May this yr.. Throw away my old study and computer table to accommodate the wedding bed, my HB's new wardrobe, my dressing table and display cupboard.
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Left painting to go..
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akino> We going to paint my room (xin niang fang) this sat... it going to be painful for me lor cos it weekend & my room will be messy...
 
littlewoman> my hb always sort of hinting to me to have our wedding room at his place cos sometimes he say that he like abandon kid, no space to put his clothes, blah blah....

As I've MTM wardrobe and no place to put another one. I will faint if i move over to his place. No bkfast from dad, can't see mummy everyday.. Think i will be upset everyday with blackie face
 
Ling: you and HB will be staying at your place after AD ya?
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haha.. You have no choice but to clear your clothes to leave some space for him le.. For me, I need my wardrobe, though I am doing my monthly clearance, hence, decide to get one more wardrobe for my HB..
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Ling> you are right! agree!

well actually just like now, somedays in his house, somedays he come to mine. so i also lazy to paint the room
 
chocolate,
for me, i will be asking my brother to take care of the ang pows, not leave it in hotel room. i felt unsafe.

how much does ur MUA charge for staying?
i also think that it is once in a life time event, so i must make use of this chance... where everyone will be looking at me... =)
 
Ling: I agree.. For me, I am glad that I am staying at my own place after my AD till I get my lovenest. I think it is a matter of living habits; moreover, my Mum dotes on my HB more than me lor.. (small "complaint").. keke..
 
akino> yup, i got alot of reasons to state my stand.

Actually it not easy for him & I really appreciate him for that. As u know there tend to be arguments over at his end..
 
i guess so. as my hb's mind very "da nan ren" and old fashion, outdated. square! but i dont care. once i get preg i wont go to his house to stay over. so dusty...

oncew i told my friend how i sleep or living condition there, they told me to move back home and even scolded me.
 
in his room, from the <2>cupboard, display shelves, dbl deck bed all things which i mention are his mother's things. so actually we are sleeping on the floor. with very thin ti lam. once i asked his mum whether can we throw those things because she didnt touch for years and those things are my hb's pri sch till poly books! and some others... she say dont touch her things! that rubbish are all in the upper deck. the lower deck base( where we put our ti lam) wire came out, so we move to the floor.
 
Ling -> get ready your massager and make appt for a full body massage after painting!! hahaha... i have a room full of massaging equipments when we were painting... paint half way go in for u squeeze and back massage.. then come out to paint again..
 
my hb is the 2nd son. his elder brother n sister married already. they got their own houses.

so his room is quite small. no need to walk. just 2 steps from the door reach our ti lam already. and very hot because they stay in lvl 1. ground floor. they afraid of mosquitoes so they close the window in our room. n can u imagine the dust which is from dunno when until now...
 
nope not at all. she say go her elder son's house for tea ceremony. haiz.. this is why my mother in law and me cannot get along. after my rom i stayed there for few months, so i brought a few shoes there. and its only 3. 1 slipper, 1 heels snd another sandles. she said "wah you open shoe shop here huh" DUH!!!!

Even haven ROM yet, there is this incident that she spoke to me quite rudely. my hb asked her why. she replied why cannot? she going to be my daughter in law what....
 
chocolate > u are so cute.. "its the only time i can be in the limelight" lol...

but if that needs 20-25 mins to change a hairstyle, won't it be very rush for the banquet event? coz everyone needs to wait for you to get ready for the 2nd march in and will this drag the whole dinner time? I'm afraid some guest will feel annoy if the dinner takes a very long time.. or what if some guest leave earlier?
 
my hb got asthma and she still dont want to pack up her room and clear the dust. haiz.... really cannot get along. everytime i wanna learn how to love her but something just happen. sometimes at night talkin over the phone complaining to her daughter about me. wah lau how her daughter see me?

sorry ah... let u all see my complains.....
 
akino: glad that you have your own house afterall. She seems to be rather hard to get along arh? Hmm.. sounds like those traditional MIL? For me, as my HB shares room with my sis-in-law, he and I stay separately after ROM, things take for a change only this yr; staying over at my place from Thursday to Sunday.. Glad to have it this way.. more privacy in a way..
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Akino -> no problem you and your hb will have to hold on together... sometimes it would be better for your hb to talk to her. if she is not clearing up the room, you clear lo.. no choice..
 
wahaha..
FIL, nothing much. old already 74 yrs old. urine incontinent and hearing impairment. seldom speak to him. his mother said before bathing must ask him to go toilet first. so sometimes i forgot also tio scolding....
 
Akino: how old is your MIL? hmm.. Marriage is about 2 families in a way.. try to give in as much as possible and sharing your woes with us or your friends thereafter.. Sometimes, I do complain to my HB too.. but wun do that openly.. didn't want to put him in a difficult position too..
 
i told my hb last time to speak to her, he did try but unsuccessful. and quarrelled in the end. so i better not ask him to talk to her in future i scare to spoil relationship. my hb's temper very bad. i even ask him to go for anger management but he refused.
 
she is 10 years younger than her hb. she is 64. actually currently now got better with her already. but i cannot forget the words she said.
 
Nikiko,
shld b ok for the timing like tat. u can get out after 2nd dish then go bk ard 4th to 5th dish. depends on hw many tables u hv lar.

but dun tink need 20-25mins ba. u c when PS, mua change 1 hairstyle n plus touch up also nt tat long. so i tink no prob if u wan to hv her stay for the 2nd march in.

u can request the mua to go dwn to the dinner area for a drink or wat lor. becoz very fast after u march in, u have to go change liao.

Jo,
u can put ur ang pows in the safe. becoz if ur brother wan to bring it ard, it will b difficult for him also. actually also nt safe...
 
akino: oh.. hmm.. since you all wun be staying there for long, why not leave it and just move back to your place when you are pregnant..
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It is better for the baby too.. not good for the Mother to be to keep sleeping on the floor.
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Von: sounds familiar.. hmm.. I think she is also in my FB?
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Akino: watiting to off work.. please take care, take panadole and rest early ya.. U are staying at your own place today??
 

thanks so much alexaphy, shuyen and peaberry! very touched
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shall get down to contacting them soon. Thanks again!

how's prepn for u all? still quite slow on my side here...been chasing my BS for my 1st album artwork, still not out yet. hai
 

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