Hi von, Oh, i read about your MIL's comment. Hai, damn disappointing for an elderly to say out such remark to a junior. Yah, von, i agree that its a 360 degree change for staying together with the IL while guys still in their own comfort zone. and yet they are unable to make an effort to help the new members to slowly blend into their family culture.
I also hate the old old rules why woman must be the one doing housework. sometime i do housework until so pek chak. Basin is dirty and the other party dun even bother to help the cleaning. time has change, we women are working and yet has to take care of the family, their stomach, the household chores etc and end up what did we get?
Mei, previously you are looking for condo or? Why don't you hunt for flat that is more affordable and allow you to shift out soon w/o have to wait for some time?