crystal,
not that you are bad, just that you have help at home i suppose your mil cook for them?
also cos your kids din go ccc, so they are not prone to sickness.
for me, initially, for the 1st mth that inez goes to ccc, i dun cook also. then she start to fall sick very often, so from the 2nd mth onwards i started to cook for her everyday, even weekends.
nowadays, inez seem to reject outside food, so if times permit, i will cook and bring out for her to eat. even fro the past 2 reunion with in laws, usually in restaurant, i cook and bring to the restaurant for inez also.
this year, still thinking i shd cook a not?