(2005) Brides of year 2005


Linda,
Same same for amazing star... BTW do you know that blk 183 - behind our block... there is a ccc named the child discovery ....

Their fee for full time after subsidary is only $300 .00 !!!! OMG ! We simply missed that ccc meh. That ccc is so damn near to your house loh... Is at the block opp to the entrance to block 156B carpark..
 
hi all! ytd went for gynae visit. heng i only put 500g. n baby is alrdy 1.6kg! my gynae says cont to ctrl my diet else she might becm too big.

crystal- yup he's stil doin adjunct teaching. v tiring lor but bo bian lah. actuali i also duno hw much he saves! haha.. but he pays for everythg in the hsehold. he wil leave his wkends afternn free so we stil can go out n shop n eat. wkdays wil nt hv much time for us.
does ur ILs contribute to the hsehold exps? nw tat u on NPL no fixed income, i guess more tough. we stil can get by w me earnin nw so at least i jus pay for my own exps, nt so shiong on my hb.

jenn- u eat slimmin pills gt use? any side effects?

wah linda, u so she de ah! spend so much. i also tinkin hw to lose all the wt aft birth. reali envy those who slimmed dwn naturally. gv birth liao tummy flat flat de!! i stil gt 4kg frm 1st preg. if this one another 4kg thn total 8kg to shed!!
 
Morning ladies...

Linda,
U dun look fat to me leh? U still look meimei mah cos i rem that time the 1st time me and sdl and joey went to your place for lunch hor, saw ur photo in a bridal mag , u and ur hb took part in some contest hor? But good lor, at least ur hb can take care of ur ger and let u enjoy afew hrs lor..

Recently charlotte been stickign to me like glue lor...justleave her alone for 1min also cannot, kept on holding my hands and either asking me to watch barney with her or play jiajia ju with her leh... Wonder if kids of her age is like that leh...

Ting,
jia you ya...when is ur edd? hows aldan?
ya lor, I envy janf and pierced cos they look slim slim de...
 
ting - i tihnk he can save lor.. sld be making quite a bit.. n i see e 2 of u not e spendthrift type.. u also able to save some every mth? my ILs ah, dun contribute to hsehold exps... but the money we give mil is all to pay for groveries, if not enuff then i guess they top up lor.. they also no money mah...usaully hor will slim v fast after #2.. everyone i noe the same! i still had 5 kg leftover frm isaiah but after caitlyn i lost everything!coz with 2 will b v v busy.. esp coz ur kids age gap is small..
 
Hello mummies,
its been a while since i last came in..
Anyone keen on cny goodies?
My BP is up.
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morning ladies,

jenn,
i think i did come accross this ccc leh. but because if you can remember, not for my sister, telling me that she want to put her gal in infant care at happy campers, i would have enrol inez at Amazing star leow or other ccc without infant care one.

crystal/newbbi,
actually a lot of ppl also say i dun look plump or fat. but my weight is scarly loh, now my wt piling up, now weighting almost 60kg leow leh.
after gave birth to inez, wt was ard 55kg, 5 kg from pre-preg. in a short 2 years time, pile another 5 kg. very jia lat loh.
and also my tummy is simply too stubborn. its looks like i am 3 to 4 mths preg leh. haiz.. so usually wear clothing that could cover my tummy or minimised it.

newbbi,
actually 2 weeks ago, when gg out, i took 30 mins to run through my warerode to find clothing to wear, wear and change wear and change. wearing pants or bermudas is really a no no for me unless i got the correct cuting or got correct top to match. that's y, i also in skirt.

ting,
i actually very bu she de. and also to be very frank to you gals, me quite tied up in my financial also, but i feel very demoralised loh, everyone ard me telling me that i getting fatter and never loss weight. the other time went back to my bridal shop cos my sis wanna see gown, my make up artist nearly cannot recognised me loh. see how bad was that.
haiz.... hopeful this time round so much money spent can see result bah. wish me all the best bah... hee..
 
linda - hugz.. all e best to ur weight loss! i can understand tt u feel demoralised.. alot of ppl comment in just 2 yrs i become v haggard n look v auntie.. so i also v sianz.. as for tummy, i think it's normal coz we all gave birth liao mah! my tummy also v big for my size n i have ppl asking me wehtehr i am preggers also.. so well..
 
crystal,
thanks.
for tummy, way before i preg, already got problem leow. all along got bludging tummy problem. so after birth worst loh.
also a lot of ppl telling me i very auntie. even my coll.

newbbi,
thanks.
before giving birth to inez, my weight was never hit 50kg one. 2 year after, 60kg. that's very big "da3 ji1" to me loh.
 
Linda,
ya lor..but nvm lor, aft e program, u be meimei liao =)..

Ask u hor, hv u ever come across that inez stick to u like honey? Cos now i can't even get out of char's sight for 1min leh...when bathing time, she n hb had to wait outside e bathroom for me leh...haiz..
 
newbbi,

yup... ever... think its normal for kids ard this age, cos they are starting to know what is happening and they are afraid that you dun want them bah. so they will cry when you are of sight.
think can call it as anxiety bah.

but if my hb is ard, she is ok. if i need to bath and hb working or got class, she is ok in her playpen. till now she is ok, there is only once, dunno what happen, even ask her to sit outside the toilet with the door open she also cry and cry...
other than that, after bath in the evening, i will put inez in the playpen and i tell her i gg to bath, ask her to stay in playpen watch her barney and wait for me.

maybe you ask your hb to play with her or distract her loh.
my hb is able to distract inez and so much so, now that inez is older, she is more sticky to the papa then myself.
 
Linda,
he did lor, he played with her lor, but after awhile she seems to know i gone missing, then will go and look for me in e bathroom leh... cos when play time, she will look for my hb lor..Yest she bery cute, she holds her daddy's hands and my hands, then put together lor, so we hold her hands and form a circle and walk lor, she laughing there...haha..
 
afternn all...

newbbi- my edd is 25 mar... aldan's adaptin v well in cc nw. i more fang xin =)

crystal- i cant save w my pathetic pay nw. regretted overcommitin on my insurance. every mth jus enough to cover my exps n bills. smtimes nt enough thn ask frm hb =P
u gv me hope! hahahha... i reali hope i can shed all the extra wt. my old clothes all stil my cupboard, in the hope i can stil wear them sm day! hahah

linda- tink u also gt to watch diet n exercise rite. mus be v disciplined kind. i noe wat u mean w the stubborn tummy! i see my tummy aft birth, darn sad. me aft 1 yr plus stil like preg thn found out preg again. n this time round tummy like bigger cos alrdy stretched b4 =(
 
newbbi,
sometimes kiddos can be so cute. hee..

ting,
i did exercise.
every sunday go for my cardio class excepts day when hb working then cannot attend.
walk a lot also and those rushing type.
rush from home to bring inez to ccc then rush (walk and run type) to LRT station then from SK NEL to DG MRT to Cityhall then suntec.2 years leow, also never loss weight.
i also go swim during lunch twice or more per mth.
diet also kinda watched. hahaha...
still like dat... haiz.... damn sad and demolalised.
 
TIng,
wow, 2 more mths u be delivering liao..fast fast wor...so got paint a room pink for ur ger? Have u tot of a name for ur #2 yet?

Linda,
dun say that lor, u have made a good sacrifice for inez rite?
 
newbbi,
haiz.... big sacrifice...
very envy mummy who finished their confinement leow can wear back their clothing and with no or little tummy.
i also ask my hb the Qn, how come your wife can never loss those fat away...
i ask hb do you think i can loss weight to my pre preg, which is abt 46 to 48kg, he gave me a straight and firm answer, "NOT POSSIBLE"... sad loh...
then i ask again, if loss till abt 50kg leh, he hesitate and reply, maybe loh.

but one thing he told me, can loss weight is good for you lah, if cannot, you also not very fat type, still can lah. healthy is more impt, better dun diet.
at least, a bit of consolation loh.
 
newbbi,
my hb used to ask me straight in my face to exercise. but when i finally sign up for my exercise class, then unable to go cos either he got class or working. then he realised that not i giving execuse of keep saying no time, etc...
cos i always told him no time to exercise he will sacastic say i giving excuse not to exercise.
so now he finally understand and realised i really got no chance and no time to exercise. so now he never bug at me leow.
so i can only sign up for weekends classes.
which i am doing now, every sunday 11.15 to 12.15 class at sk cc.
 
linda- looks like me same plight as u. i also v difficult to lose wt.doubt i can go bk to my pre-preg wt too. heng my hb also put on wt so he cant say me. hahah... he kept sayin i 'hai' him. we both agreed we shall try to lose wt aft my confinemt. but he gt say i dun lose too much cos he like me plump plump =_=

newbbi- aldan n her sharin a room 1st so cant paint pink. hehe... but for the time being, both of them shall slp w us in the mbr 1st. stil tryin to train aldan to slp in his cot but he dun wan leh. hai! he stil prefers to slp w us.
 
Linda,
hehe, at least he understands now that u are not making excuses lor =)..

Ting,
hehe, oh dear, then #2 also wan to sleep u all then how?all squeeze onto ur bed?hehe
 
ting,
haha... at least both of you put on weight together
for my hb, he is those keep fit type. so i will feel pressuried at times loh.
then last sat, he was packing his wardrode, took out those clothing which he wore in his poly days. still can fit in well loh. so you see, i pressure a not.
 
ting,
so fast hor, mei mei coming out leow.
so this CNY, you better enjoy all the food you can. after that, one mth of confinment food leow. hee..
 
newbbi- our bed only queen sized cannot squeeze leh. nw alrdy no space cos aldan tends to take up more space! my hb says worse cm to worse, he slp on the mattress on the flr lor

linda- i noe wat u mean! my hb used to be the fit kind too n tat time our wt so close to each other i was super stressed cos i tend to put on wt v fast!!
i cant leh, goten ctrl my diet cos if nt bb may becm too big.
 
ting,
hahah... last time wt was abt 20 kg different.
now i think less than 10kg diff from hb niah...

hb still retain his weight but me piling very fast loh.
just 2 years, i put on 10kg leh.

maybe mei mei, let her sleep on the cot from start, so that she can used to it.

like for inez, day one we let her sleep on the playpen, then after confinment, we let her sleep on her mattress next to us. till now she still prefer to sleep on her mattress. only at times, during weekends when she wake up early in the morning, she would ask to sleep in the between us. sometime, she would just crawl over me to squeeze in between.
 
linda- my hb n i were once like 5kg apart!! imagine hw slim he was last time. thn aft married, he put on like 20kg. scary rite
i used to let aldan slp in his cot too but cos i was latchin him at nite, i wil trf him to our bed thn smtimes so tired til doze off so i tink he becm used to slpin w us liao.
 
morning all...

ting - keke.. but i guess insurance is a form of savings! me no savings at all.. insurance also v minimal.. yup, a lot of ppl i noe lose much more wt when #2 came along esp when #2 is v close in age to #1.. tired mah.. keke.. u remind me abt a time when i was actually HEAVIER than hb by 1 kg i think.. haha.. coz with isaiah, i put on 20kg mah!

linda + newbbi - dun be too bothered abt ur weights... all of u gals look ok!!!
 
morning ladies,

ting,
wow... your feed your hb well...
oic... so i think aldan is so used to it leow bah.

crystal,
hee.. thanks.

ting/crystal,
my insurance still ok, used to have a lot, then when my bil became agent, he help me plan and i cancelled a lot policy that i actually dun need.
so save a bit here and there.
 
Hi gals!!

aiyo toking abt wt gain...mk mi sad lo...even how fat i m i din hit 60+ wan leh...now aft birth i m 62kg & my hb onli like 63 to 65kg lo! i hv been eating bee hoon for the past 2 wk for lunch & oso started to do jogging last sat...now every monring i push my boy to my mom plc walk in fast pace hope can treat is a form of exercise...realli wan to slim down b4 cny....if not every now & then ppl comments i put on wt...so sad!!
 
jam,
hahhaha... i never hit 50kg before i gave birth... now hit 60kg... more sad.
hopefully you can slim down a bit before the new year.
next week, will try to go twice a week for my slimming treatment...hopefully by CNY can see visible result... hahahaha...
 
linda, realli envy those can slim down immediate aft birth...my bro fren within 3 mth back to her normal figure le even my fren oso back to her normal figure within 4mth...realli envy them lo..realli leh is so easy to gain & v difficult to shed off extra kg...so the previous time u go slimming treatment any progress ma??
 
ting, my boy oso zz wif mi at queen size bed...hb already zz at mattress le...cos my boy dunno how to zzz at 1 plc will turn turn & zz near mi sometime oso kick mi v hard leh...tink the whole queen side bed f him oso not enough f him!
 
jam,
i went for the trial then abt 1 mth later went for the offical 1st treatment, i loss 2.5kg.
then last week went, loss abt 9inch overall, so total loss of inches from trial till last week was abt 20.

hopefully if i continue to go at least once or twice a week, i can see more results.
 
jam,
if you are consistant, its quite effective.
no staving. you still can eat, but of cos the amt is lesser like say, usually eat one bowl now eat half a bowl.
they will give you a list of how to eat healtily.
but for me, i din really follow leh. some i follow, some i din.
impt is must bring a lot of water.
 
hi all...

crystal- tats diff mah cos u preg =D last time when pator w hb, he was so slim. make me so stressed!! ya insurance is a form of savings but i over commit liao. every mth payin $300+! n got to wait til 10 yrs later thn can get sm pay out.

linda- ya his ah ma v happy! hahahha... cos last time she kept commentin he too skinny liao thn sm more he's tall.
wow looks like the treatment reali got effect! jia you!

jam- same lor! aldan also lidat. likes to kick here n there til my hb cannot take it thn he wil go to the other room n slp! funny thing is he likes to kick the daddy but nt me. haha
ur boy slp thru the nite nw?
 
linda, tink like dat quite difficult f mi...cos i dun eat alot but my stubborn fat refuse to go away! hope aft the slimming session u'll ru yuan yi chang! do let mi know if u appear on tv leh!

ting, got 1 we bth sleep on bed 2gether wif aston...my hb sleep on his hand so now i dun let him sleep wif us...cos my boy nid alot of space lo he turn 360 wan so i miserable onli can sleep 1 corner yet he still wan to kick mi! er sometime he still wake up f milk at nite.
 
ting,
hahahah...
actually when i put on weight, the most happy person is my mil loh.
cos when pator time and before i gave birth, i quite slim @ 46kg niah.

effective but result is very slow. cos i still cannot control my diet very well, still very greedy. hahaha..

when hb make inez sleep usually, she want to sleep on my pillow so end up she will be sleeping on my bed with hb and hb always ask me to carry her to her mattress. cos inez also very difficult to sleep, can sleep from my pillow to my hb side till hb always squeeze till very ke lian. she will kick either of us too... ahahha...
 
crystal/jam,
i totally agree.
i still remember when inez just born discharged go home.
put her in the playpen, at night put her vertical, next morning wake up she is at horizontal position. hahahah..
 
hi gals,
Happy New Year!!
it been a long time since i last log-in hws every1?

linda,
wah u lost quite alot of inches leh...
but u dun look fat to me at all.. could it be your muscle weight incurred after the exercise??
me too got stubborn fat at the tummy area..
signed up slimming pkg.. but not discipline.. tats y still fat.. waste $$$
 


hi snowy,
long time no see you post in the thread leow.
how are you?
how shannon? attend school already?
hahahh... a lot of ppl said i dun look fat, but my wt is 60kg which is abt 2 kg overweight loh.
and to loss that 2 kg is so difficult loh.

you sign up with which slimming centre?
 

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