(2005) Brides of year 2005

morning all..

ytday whole day staff seminar.. cannot log in.. wah, our thread getting quiet le.. miss e "busy" chatting days! hee

jenn - nice mtg u the other day! so qiao lor! hee

newbbi - have a nice trip! i can only envy lor!!
 


crystal,
tks ger...Ahyo..dun envy lah, wait til ur kisd abit older, can go as a family le..I envy u can form a Hap word lor..hee

Ask u hor, is meimei still with kindermusik?
 
Hi Crystal,
Really very qiao to meet u in MS... so in the end, did you buy anything for isaiah? Cos Jayden love to eat the toast bread from Hans, so usually we will go to MS, after bf, can go around shopping.... kee kee

Newbbi,
Enjoy your holiday and yes I received ur sms.
 
just back from PD and 255 bucks poorere.. sigh.. every month my bank acct les than 500 at end of the mth.. v scary.. sigh.. thinking hard if sld sell e car..

newbbi - yup, mei mei is still with kindermusik.. but i switched her to family time so isaiah n her are in class together.. but v broke liao prob wun be able to continue after this term.. charlotte?

jenn - yup.. bot him that bus he was holding onto lor.. he was quite cute.. i said it was exp so he put it back. then keep gg to touch it.. so in e end since we were using vouchers ppl gave e kids decide to let him get it.. then he was like 'expe' then thinkn v v long then buy..
 
crystal,
wat happen? spend so much at PD there?

me thinking of signing inez for gymnastics at Hwa Chong Institions there.
Still considering cos too far to travel and hb said that ppl who do gymnastics dun grow tall.

btw, crystal, have you heard of Helen O Glady Speech & Drama school?
Inez ccc is having it as an optional enrichment Course for the kids.
not very ex., $150 for 12 weeks.
 
Crystal,
What happened to isaiah or caitlyn? Both see PD again? If have to top up alot of $$ for selling the car, then might as well hold on to it....
 
linda + jenn - caitlyn went to take MMR+chix pox jab (which itself is like 130 bucks liao).. then isaiah been having runny nose n eyes a bit puffy n red which we suspect is allergy so let him see e PD also lor.. to cfm so can get e rite med rather than feed him e runny nose med...

linda - i not heard before.. but i think since e sch chose it sld be not bad.. good to expose kids to sppech n drama..
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jenn - but e car suck a lot of our money.. but yup if i need to top up $$ i will jst hold onto it.. just tt our finacnes v jialat esp since i dun wanna teach anymore.. now lookng for frelance job.. any lobang?
 
Crystal,
wat happen? who sick leh?

Last sun just brought charlotte to My Time after a break of 3wks cos i was having my exams. She dun like anymore leh, as in, ask her to walk she keeps on wan me to carry, then sotry time she also dun wan to sit down, just wan to walk ard le..So i din let her continue with it. Tinking of tryign out zoophonics at Tampines leh..u heard of them b4? so will stop aft this term?
 
Crystal,
ha ha, frankly, me really do not have any lobang for free lance, maybe u can ask Ting's hb for such good lobang since he is teaching freelance.....
 
newbbi - i heard my time is v diff frm village rite? i will see my finances how.. hee.. coz she likes shauna a lot.. i think zoophonics got a lot of branches.. the one at bukit timah supposedly not bad.. i dunno abt tampines coz so far i never enquire! hee

jenn - me looking for tut assignments.. so if u noe anyone or colleague got kids need tut in EL or Math, let me noe! hee
 
crystal,
oic.
inez recently also down with running nose which lead to cough due to her mucus that flow back to her throat.

thanks. signing her up for 1 term (12 weeks) then see if got any improvement a not.

me also no lobang. my sis, gg to get married next june then will start to plan to conceive then now she is studying her part time degree.
so she said that after she gave birth, take the 4 mth ML then prolong unpaid leave to complete for degree at he same time take care of the baby.
after which, she is considering can do part time teaching a not too...
 
crystal,
which area will you consider gg to give tuition and how much you wanna charge?
teaching Pri or sec?

i can help you ask around then ask my friend and sister they all to help ask ard for you too.
 
hi all! me back last fri.. enjoyed ourselves v much! missed the weather there! aldan like noe we on hol, barely napped n ate n jus wan to play only. every mornin woke up, took his shoes n wan to go out liao! ytd bk to cc, he not used again, haiz!
my stupid pc was dwn ytd... of all times when i'm bk! so ytd no pc to use at all. today thn i got a laptop to use 1st if nt i tink i reali bored to tears doin all the filin n paperwrk!!
n cfm no. 2 is gal! heheh.... bot a few sets of clothngs for her in genting. cldnt resist all the pinkish stuff. so pretty n cute! n got sale sm more =P
 
ting,
congrat congrat.... must very happy to hear that its a mei mei loh...
hahha.... you gg to burn big hole in your pocket leow.
you will buy more than what you bot for aldan.

glad that you enjoyed your holiday.
so before that you mentioned on the sitting arrangement in the car with in laws... everything went well in the end?
 
Ting,
Congrats ur no.2 is a gal... Can understand ur excitement when seeing those cutie pink/purple gal stuff..... be prepared to burn pockets as u will definitely buy more.... kee kee
 
linda - i can give tut in e west side and town area.. hee.. i can teach pri, sec english n sec math!thanks!

ting - congrats! n great tt u enjoyed ur hols!
 
hahah.. my hb alrdy warned me not to spend so much liao =PP gals' things reali so much nicer leh!

linda- in the end, aldan n me in the car w my parents thn my hb w his. heheh... the best arrangement liao =P
 
crystal,
ok, will ask ard for you. charges?

they will be playing toys in their respective classroom.
cos for inez, she is in playgroup next year. so her slot is 4.30 to 5pm, which is usually play time.

ting,
oic... so everyone also happy.
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ya... gals got so many things to buy.
everything you see also nice one loh and want to buy and buy and buy... hahhahh...
cannot resist one.
 
linda - charges is abt 50 per hr.. depends on location and level also..
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can negotiate bah..

ting - gals got a lot alot of things to buy.. dun worry.. hahaha
 
crystal,
i also no promise lah. can just try to help ask ard to see if got kids want to tuition then ask them to call you. hee..
 
crystal,
I will help u keep alookout also ya =)..
Ya lor, kindermusik my time is bery different, thats y i tink char dun like aft the break le...

Bukit timah that branch is near to my mum's hse =)..

Ting,
Congrats!! Happy for u..
 
crystal,
hmm, will hv a round of dance, music, then will hv story telling, quite nice actually, ending part, shauna gave e kids a chop on their hands...so sweet...
 
newbbi - oic.. i think my caitlyn also cannot sit for story telling one.. haha.. till nw i not successful at telling her any story.. for family time also got stamp on the hands one! hee
 
morning all

newbbi - yup!

my 2 kids are always fighting n crying.. v headache.. esp this gor gor always hit e mei mei.. v sad leh.. dunno y he so selfish n aggressive
 
crystal,
mine is another way round.
she is a "da jie da" aka big bully in her class.

recently just 3 weeks ago, her form teacher just called and tell me that she had been pushing and beating and snatching toys from the younger ones in her class.

there is also one where, the teacher is scolding one of the bigger kids in the centre, my kapo inez, walk over and "help" the teacher give the gor gor or jie jie one slap over the face.

she is demure and quiet from the outside, but inside is a dare devil.
see, 1 kid i also have headache with her behaviour leow, if another one come, (which i more or less decided to close my factory already), i think i can die loh. hee..
 
linda - n isaiah is v jue jiang.. cannot use hard method one..but sometimes where got so much patience.. then i pity mei mei lor.. for nothing always kena hit.. n every toy she takes he snatches.. sigh
 
crystal,
hahha.... same for inez.
cannot use hard way to discipline.
most of the time, i try to talk sense to her loh.
but like you said, where to have so much patience.

i desprate till go ask my friend who studied child pychology what to do, and he recommend me this book called, How to talk so child listen and how to listen when child talk. something like dat, cant remember the actual title.
so i will try to use the method. sometimes work, some times dont.
 
hello every1!!

ting, congrat to u lo...gal things alot to buy leh!! everytime i wanna to shop f my boy end up still looking at gals things cos too many le compare to boy boy wan!!

linda, u wanna to stop at 1???

crystal, tink isaiah jealous of mei mei leh...cos my nephew oso treat her sis dat way...everytime wat her sis take he will refuse to let her play or snatch fm mei mei...sometime f nothing he will juz beat or scold her mei mei wan!!
 
crystal,Linda,
ahyo, i tink my char also starting to be in terrible 2 behaviour leh...something she dun get wat she wants, she start wailing, then keikei cry somemore will squat down...scream somemore...Really difficult to discipline lor..Somemore when i wan to teach her, my mil always coem by to carry her so i told my hb if another time like that, I will bring char into the room, close door to "discipline" her lor..hiaz...Nowadays kids really headache leh..
 
newbbi, u going holiday?? where?? wif yr gal too?? aiyo dis year i no more holiday nx wk hv to take 3 days CCL to take care my boy cos my mom going m'sia!
 
Jam,
long time no see you here leow.

hahah... yup, most prob stopping at one. few reason lah, 1st, financially very tight, cos hb studying his PT degree, which he will complete only in 2011 if everything goes well.
2nd, hb work 24 hour shift work, so if got no 2 and with inez in hand, me alone with no help, i dun think can managed.some more got to do house work and all. i think i will die loh.
3rd, due to my age also lah. not young leow, energy also not as good as before. hee...

newbbi,
grandparents are all the same lah.
usually when i discipline inez, at home, i will bring her to her room close the door. hb will be outside.
if at my mil house, if she notti, i will also bring her aside to "lecture" her.
my mil know both our character and the way we teach inez, so usually she dun interfer. cos my hb will tell her off.
 
jam - i guess so lor.. but to be honest we expected hinm to be jealous so he gets umuch more attn than mei mei lor.. which is so unfair hor.. hw u coping with ur boy n work?? hee.. planning for #2 soon?
 
newbbi - i think u gotta tell ur mil straight she canot interfere when u disciplinign charlotte.. but grandparents are like tt one lah
 
linda, ya lo lOng time liow...so once a while when free hv to catch up wif u gals!! ya ya i oso tink alone to take care reali cannot mk it! I agree is v siong financialli leh...my boy quite big eater leH...FM & diapers run out v fast!!

caitlyn, they tend to get jealous & wan to mk something to get attention! i oso find dat my niece v ke lian oso kenna bully by his kor kor...so my mom complaint if bth at home then she will hv headache NO PEACFUL at all! hmm so far still ok coping wif my boy & tks to my family lo...cos everytime i at my mom plc every1 wanna to carry & play wif him & dis is the onli time i feel relax...hahaha!! hmm i no plan f no. 2 yet...i already no time f myself le!!
 
jam - yah lor.. i got no peace when at home.. both are sticky to me nw.. last time i complain tt isaiah choose my mil over me.. but wah, when both choose me it's v jialat.. then whole day is like yelling at them, separating them coz they fighting or one is crying coz i carrying the other.. really feel like some crazy woman.. dun have proper type of bonding.. kinda miss e times i only had 1 or when mei mei was just a bb n din need tt much attn! haha.. so bad hor.. but i guess ur hb is v hands on type rite?
 
jam,
hi ya! Ya lor, go ing tokyo tonite lor =)...
How aer u? any pics of ur boy to share?

crystal,
After reading wat u mentioned, me abit scare to have #2 lor..cos not you alone, i hv afew frenz, their kids also fighting for attention lor..Now char already try to get our attention when we watch tv..Wan us to draw for her, wan us to read to her leh..hiaz...
 
caitlyn, actuali when i see my niece & nephew i oso scared to hv 2 leh! cos now hb reservist i'm staying at my mom plc every nite i oso NO Peace leh...either bth fighting f things or quarrel and ended up parents join in scolding & yelling even canning so end up realli v v Nosiy !!

hmm lucky my hb do help up if not realli cannot leh...he volunteer to ask mi to teach how to bath f my boy so now he will bath f him...so if my boy poo i tired i oso ask him to clean up!
 
newbbi, so gd still go tokyo! ENVY ENVY! u gOt facebook account rite?? you can go in my facebook i hv uploaded my boy pic there....last nite he dance f us...i even record & upload in facebook le u can chk it out!!

so njoy yr trip leh & share yr photo to us!!
 
newbbi + jam - i think for my case my kids are v close imn age also lah.. i think now is e tough part.. but also got sweet moments like when isaiah hugz and kisses her.. n also when other ppl ard, he will protect his sister (though he may do it a bit too rough).. haha.. n honestly it is also quite funny when soemtimes u see meimei defending herself not noeing how small she is.. haha.. so got ups and downs.. but one thing for sure is it is V V TIRING! n in terms of hb/wife r/ship sometimes is a bit more strained coz both r tired mah.. so we no patience tend to snap at each other more lor..
 

jam,
okie, will go see later ya...wow, time flies, ur boy is 5mths le hor?
No need to envy lah, cos hor, we studied so hard, so xinku lor so wan to go relax and then build our r/s lor cos during the study time, hb and i really had lots of agruments so much that there was once I even tot I duno how come will marry him and duno him anymore..hiaz...But its over liao so we feel we are under too much stress liao so wan just go overseas for afew days lor... =).

crystal,
can understand the ku yu le of ur kids lor...When they are older, i believe things will be better de...so hang on ya..
 

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