(2005) Brides of year 2005

newbbi,
have been drinking a lot of water.
keep gg to toilet.

watashi,
me no super mummy lah.
just that i cannot depend on my hb de... he cannot make it one...

he only take instruction on what to do. he will not do anything further than that.

maybe because she had chicken pox, then plus go back ccc 1 week only kena viral fever, then i gotta take care of her day and night and rushing everyday to go home cook for her, so i support mine is not only got the virus from her also i think not enuf of rest, so immunse system also break down leow.

you staying at your mum's place because no maid or other reason??
 


Watashi,
So ur new company, u also in the same position? Or managerial position? kee kee

Me too lazy to go for interview meh, have been in the same co for the past 6 years....

Hmm, so now u chatting with us via iphone as well?
 
jenn/watashi,
me one reason is lazy to go interview, 2nd reason is i need to find one job that i can leave by 5.30pm. otherwise i cant make it to fetch inez.
i have been in this bank for 9 years, aug will be my 10th year leow.
 
All,
Ask u hor, do u all still rem how to make ur kids go into the cc willingly?Cos hor, these few days, mil was tellingme, she bring char to the cc, once inside, char keep on sticking to her, and wan her to carry, then most of the time, my mil ask the teacher to pull char away...Hb and I dun want it to be like that lor, worried that char might hv phobia of going to sch like that...Any recommendations?
 
Linda, u r a super mum in my eyes.. Dunno if I can tk it if I m in yr shoes. Initially stay wif mum cos my buangkok house was not ready yet, also need my mum ard to keep an eye on my maid. Now we r used to staying liao n Ryan loves his school so no intention to move at the moment.

Jenn, ya, using my colick's iPhone now. it's a chg of job scope. Supervisory post, leading a team of 6.
 
newbbi,
char is still new to the cc environment. it take times for them to go to cc willingly de.
its very common, i think there is no solution to it one.

for inez, she took almost a mth to adapt.
but once, fall sick or din go to school for 2 to 3 days or after weekends, she will be clingy and crying leow.
till now sometimes she is still like dat. worst is if her papa bring her, she will cry and brush all everyone away except her papa and teacher just have to pull her in.

some more i thik char was absence from school for awhile, so its very normal she behave this way. give her time, when they get used to the environment, teachers and friends, she will not be like dat leow.
 
Newbbi, B4 Ryan start school , I hv been telling him he is big boy liao. Then tell him my maid will send him to school & will b waiting for him outside n bring him home after school. Assure him tat we will not leave him there.. Will def bring him home. ... Keep repeating tis, in a way, brain wash them.
 
Linda,
Really huh? Meaning at first when u send inez to cc, she also stick to u, dun let u go?

Really huh?Cos yest i called the cc teacher, she said char so happy there lor, playing a sweet wrapper with her frenz and laughing away...Also singing song and clapping hands before she takes her nap lor...I tink she needs time to adapt to it lor...But her appetite there not bery good leh..>Din eat much wor...
 
watashi,
hahahah... thanks for "seeing me so up"...
i think if i have my mum ard, i will be like you all lah.
just that since younger days, my mum passed on early, i gotta take the job of sister and mother job to look after my 3 younger sisters, that make me more independent bah.
that is also the reason y, my hb or even my mil dare not challenge my independance. hahhahah...
also, in a way, so used to take care of sister and family, end up, hb also being spoilt in a way. so everything also dun have to bother much.
even his coll also commented when inez just born, how come he not tired and no panda eyes, cos most of them goes to work with sleepless night when they have a newborn at home.
 
watashi,
tks ger...hmm, cos its my mil who bring her there, so i told my mil before, must tell char that after sch ah ma will bring u home de to re-assure her lor...
 
Charlotte says Hi to all aunties.. =)

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watashi/newbbi,
i also do as what watashi do.
keep telling and assure her that mummy will sure come fetch her and not leave her in school.

now that she is older and 1 year in school, in order to make her happy when gg school, i will give her bf that she like. usually will ask what she want to bring to school for bf the next day, then i will prepare and give it to her when reached school.
this trick helps most of the time.
 
newbbi,
yup, till today, inez at times still cling to me and cry when reached school.
she will want me to carry her to the music room where all children will goes in the morning.
give her more times to adapt lah. the crying is 5 to 10 mins only.
gotta be hard hearted de. no choice.

slowly lah, she still trying to adapt to the food also.
 
Most of the time it's my maid who send to school. So when I on leave and send him to school, he will also cry at the door and wan me to go in wif him. His teacher will jus carry him in, once he see his frens inside he ok liao. Teacher say it's like tat de, some kids juz wan to manja when parents ard.
Newbbi jus hv char sometime to adapt to the routine.
 
Newbbi,
For Jayden, if my mum bring him to ccc, he wouldnt cry at all. If change to me to bring him to school, before reaching the gate, he will hug me real tight and start to tear lao.. recently, he keep telling my mum that he does not want mummy to work, must stay with him... faintz !
 
Newbbi,
Rest assured that you are doing the right thing, cos kiddo just go to ccc will have the mentality that adult do not want them.... so must keep assured that we will fetch them and of cos, u can ask ur MIL to bring along her favourite snack,sweet when fetching her home..... this will slowly let her feel that 'when popo come again, have my favourite food, and now go home to see papa and mama.'
 
jenn,
hahha... so you can be SAHM loh.

for my case, if i bring, at times, inez will want me to carry her in to the music room. then she will just sit one corner and eat her bf.
sometimes, will be clingy still and cry.

if hb and myself fetch, she will most of the time want the papa and cry loh.
 
Jenn, My maid will also bring a snack for Ryan when she go pick him. Usually it's Wang Wang, pocky biscuit, crackers..etc. Sometime Ryan will also bring snacks to share wif his classmates in the morning.. He will be eager to go school if I hv him snacks to bring n share wif his frens.
Newbbi, maybe u can try tis trick once in awhile.
 
watashi,
i also give inez bf or snack when she goes to school.
then in the evening, if i fetch her, i will have cut fruits for her when on the way home, so that can fill her stomach for awhile while i cook her dinner.
 
Jenn,
tks ger.. So meaning its ok for the teacher to pull char away frm my mil? haiz, feel so heartpain lor..

mayb tonite i ask my mil to bring her favourite biscuits when she go pick her lor =)...
 
watashi,
Good idea wor..mayb I shd get some small biscuits so that she can distribute in the center tmr lor..Tonite will go buy ..hmm..tinking wat shd i buy now..Wat do u buy for ryan normally?

Linda,
u will buy cut fruits from outside and then give her?
 
Newbbi, usually Ryan will bring 1 box of pocky, or those sticks biscuits.. His teacher will open n let him share wif his classmates. No need to specially buy small packs of snacks for each kids..
 
newbbi,
i usually buy whole fruits then bring from home or put in office. then i will but put in container then when go fetch inez, will give her to eat.
one thing is i usually bring her in stroller,so she will sit in her stroller with her fruits.

i agree with watashi, dun have to purposely buy for the kids in her class or school.
i usually give inez things like cocktail sauage/fish ball(i will boil it in the morning and put in plastic bag for her), bread with butter/jam, biscuit/cornflask or if its pocky i will not give her whole box, usually will give her a few sticks in a plastic. cos i afraid she dun share then it will be too much for her.
 
Linda,
i see...char bery funny de, she dun like the cocktail sauage lor..but she likes canned mushrooms..faintz..

Just called e cc, teacher told me, after my mil left, she cried for 10mins then ok liao, then bery happy playing with those kids le..But just that she still doesn't eat much lor..onli
eat less than 1/4 of the macaroni soup...
 
hihi.. tryin to type as i bf avril. this gal darn jialat, hv to be carried ard in the day! once i sit dwn or put her in rocker, she cries like wat! kana spoiled by pils who kept carryin her durin confinemt. i super pissed!!

jenn- ur hb's new job sounds interestin leh!

linda- u reali 1 super mummy. no wonder u kept sayin 1 kid is enough. gt 1 more, 1 person handle is reali no joke.
 
ting,
no lah, i think a lot of mummy also can do what i doing only never mentioned bah.

ya loh, that's the reason for me to stop at one.

aiyo... like dat, very jia lat leh, no rest for you.
 
Linda,
Same same, Jayden like hotdog, saugage and fishball... finger food, easy to satify their stomach...

Ting,
Yap, the job sound interesting but he has to work shift....but the salary is about $500 more than current wan... so is still worth while if want to save for better future.
 
linda- i v angry lor!! they dun realise wil be tough on the person takin care. last sat mornin my hb went tuition n asked his mum to come over n help n guess wat. she sat on the sofa the whole mornin readin papers!! apart frm getin up to play w aldan for a while, goin toilet n makin coffee, she din help at all. i was like so busy doin the hsehold chores, bathe both kids, feed them,pack their stuff. my hb came bk saw her stil on the sofa n asked if she helped avril bathe, she said i did it thn he asked wat she did, she said read papers lor.wah lao! i was darn pissed!!

jenn- usu shift wrk pay beta. 500 is alot le!
 
linda- my hb retorted 'thn i ask u come for wat? read papers?!' she kept quiet. i told my hb nxt time no need ask her help. i can handle on my own!
 
Morning ladies...

Ting,
poor you ...Haiz..but luckily aldan goes to e cc so at least morning til noon u can concentrate on ur ger lor..who brings aldan bk frm cc?
 
Newbbi,
Partial bah, the auditors are in, all the finance staff are on schedule to stay back until 10plus till auditors left..

Tomor also have to work late due to closing... so sad, when I reach home, Jayden oleidi sound asleep.
 
Linda,
Do take care lei.....
Me also about to fall sick again.. but cannot cos new ang mo boss reporting on next monday, busy again.... sigh, where got time to rest lei
 

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