(2005) Brides of year 2005

hi all

how's everyone?

ting admitted already ah?

newbbi, mammogram is NOT painful lah..... i did it once when i was in uni.... cos i got a lump in breast and i insist on scan and mamo.... ok lor.... they will use 2 panels to flatten your breast.... errr... maybe i not very big so not much fats for them to flatten... hee....

ling ba i tot is lymph nodes?

newbbi, actually for your friend, as only 8 wks, i think better to terminate cos cancer which detected during pregnancy is usually aggressive one cos of the hormonal changes in our body and with almost 9 months to go, better terminate and do chemo and keep alive for #1. that time after i deliver alyssa, i found another lump in my other breast and my gynae immediately make appt for me to do scan and not mamo cos mamo cannot detect if bfeeding.... heng scan showed nothing and gynae say the "lump" i feel could actually be just the milk nodes which could have enlarge cos i'm bfeeding and indeed that side of the breast produce more milk too...
 


Linda,
oh dear...Take care ya..>Do keep us updated..

Daphne,
Hmm..hehe, hows ur lump now?

How are ur princesses?

I see, scared me when i read ur post lor..Feel glad and relief for you that its the milk nodes...
 
newbbi, gynae suspect it's milk nodes lah cos scan showed nothing so she feel it's not a big issue but i monitor myself lor..... but i noticed the lump became smaller after i pump or latch and so probably it is related to bfeeding... once i stop, i'll do another full body checkup.... then for the other lump which i got since school days, the last scan 2 yrs ago show no growth so doctor say likely to be benign so just monitor lor....

but now keep hearing pp got this cancer or that cancer so quite scary too...... now i'm cutting down on my meat intakes liao.....
 
jenn, ya coz maybe mi mum wk in med line bef so she more acceptable. even her hip replacement she oso insist do quickly otherwise affect her walking.

daphne, luckily urs just the milk nodes.
 
hi gals! me finally popped! haha.. 2nd one reali much faster. managed to push correctly n bb was out v fast! tink the walkin for past week reali helps! haha... nw begins the life of bfg again.... wil post my birth story soon =)
 
congrats ting!
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Morning ladies..

Daphne,
I see...Do continue to monitor ya..Ya lor, i mean cancer can happen to anyone at any age lor.>Ever since my bro's case, I feel life is so short and sudden, anything can happen anytime...

Ting,
Congrats!..So how does aldan react to his meimei? ;p

All,
My AF been late for almost 1wk+ liao...scare to test le...scarli gana then I think I will faint lor...
 
Gd morning, all
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Newbbi,
wa... late for almost 1 week, then dun delay lah, fast fast go and test yo.... maybe is good news?

Ya meh, nowadays cancer is really very scary, just ytday sin ming reported that YAN LI NA died of womb cancer on sat night... sudden news in the entertainment field.
 
Ting,
Congrat!! what a gd news on a Mon morning
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Ger,
aiyo no nid to scare lah.. go test.. dun faint if u r just another ting lah.. we give moral support to u uhere
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Jenn,
But can't be good news unless really accident lor..hiaz..Tink i wait til wed before I test lor..mayb its was delayed due to stressed? ;p.

Really?? Ahyo, but so far din hear that she has this hor...hiaz...makes me more scare lor..Tink I hv to be like you, hv to go for checkups, take e necessary jabs to protect myself so that I can see charlotte grow up and settle down =).

Snowy,
hihi..tks for ur support..haha...i hope won't be so zun! cvos hor, if preggi now, i hv to defer my studies til 1 year leh, i dun wan lor, I wan to finish my studise so that i can devote my time and attention to my #2 and not like for charlotte's case, want to pei her but all the sickening assignments in e way lor..At times I felt so guilty towards her cos imagine at nite, she wants me to stay with her til she sleeps but sometimes i hv to rush my assignments and can't, when i leave e room, she will be screaming like wat lor and crying til bery cham lor...I was so heartache lor, hb say hv to be hard hearted le..But i say how to?I am her mother le..hiaz...Its really not easy to ignore her cryings....
 
Newbbi,
maybe bah, cos now u study + working + taking care of kiddo really not easy. Nowadays not easy to be parents....

Yap, was rather sudden when i read the newspaper ytday... but still I think we women must buy insurance to protect ourself and at least have $$ to prolong life to see our kiddo grow up.
 
morning ladies,

me will be on leave next 2 days.
inez cfm chicken pox.
but lucky not much. starting to dry up leow.

newbbi/daphne,
i also agree that any sign of discomfy or any lumps better faster go see doc.
me also very scare of cancer, cos my gpa (bone cancer), mum (lung cancer), aunty (stomach cancer), so i very scare. that's the reason y, i very guai go for my full body check up and do my pap smear yearly.
no kids, still ok, but with a child i think better take good care of ourselves.

jenn,
on the train, i happen to see the headline when a lady is flipping her papers, but din catch the whole sentence.
so still thinking what happen?

newbbi,
wow... maybe good news leh, faster go test and let us know.
 
jenn,
ya loh, i agree with you.
i bot the woman policy too to protect myself or rather in case chow chow, at least something to laid back on.

newbbi,
no choice lah, cos you still need to study.
at least you still get to see char, my hb if whole week study 3 times, plus he working 24 hour shift, one week, inez only see him for that 10 mins when he fetch her to school.
 
Linda,
So how is inez? She very cranky due to the chicken pox? That is very good that is starting to dry up.....

Yap meh, was rather surprised
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life is short and we can only live once...so must treasure ourself.
 
jenn,
inez is still ok, erm... cranky a bit, but still ok. cos maybe alot not much pox lah. so not that itchy loh. she is still as active. just that once in awhile when she suddenly feel the itch she will fuss a bit here and there.
other than that she is as per normal.

newbbi,
thanks, inez appetite reduced a bit but she is still eating well. she still behave as per normal and as active lah. jus that if while playing, she feel the itch, she will fuss a bit loh.
doc gave her antibiotic and calamine lotion. i ask for itch medicine also. gave her nap and bedtime, so that she can sleep thro. and on aircon for her. so far, she is able to sleep thro.
 
Ger,
oh ya lor mother cn hardly ignore the cry of our children...
bt if u hv protection.. than i dun tik accident wil occurred ba.
test n let us noe lah..

Linda,
oh inez hv chicken pox ah.. she take chicken pox vaccine?
actually my gal oso hv not take yet.. wonder to take or not..
 
snowy,
nope, i did not let her take the chicken pox jab.
my aunty objected. tell me that chicken pox are heaty virus, let it come out better. no good to suppress inside. dunno true or not lah.
and since she said that, so i din bring inez loh.

actually i after gg to ccc, i still hestitate lah. but now since she kena leow, also good lah. no worries leow. hee..
 
Linda,
true lah.. bt chicken pox veri difficult to say 1 leh.. some even adult liao stil hv nt kena..

Jenn & Ger,
did your child take chicken pox vaccine?
 
linda, aiyo poor inez so young kenna chicken pox! lucky u say she is now getting beter!

snowy, do u tink if chicken pox vaccine done sure won't kenna ma??
 
Snowy Casper,
yes, Jayden took the vaccine when he was 18mths old... although is not 100% coverage, but if really kenna, is very mild only... not really that xin ku wan.
 
snowy,
true loh, my hb haven kena before although his bro and sister kena and he still sleep in the same room with them.

jam,
ya loh, lucky after 3 days the pox drying up.

the vaccine is not 100% one. will still have abt 20% according to the doc. but will be mild lah. like what jenn said.
 
Linda,
Now Inez sleeping huh? Cos u now chatting with us... luckily your boss is very understanding and let u take the urgent leave and take care of Inez
 
jenn,
no lah. me at work.
today all heads go meeting with Head office ppl.
today hb 2nd off, so he take care of inez today.

tml and wed, i take care. thur my hb 2nd off again, so he take care. then friday pending to see if his leave is approved a not.

ya loh, my boss is very understanding. and that's one of the reason y, i am still working here for so many years.
i dun think go other company bosses will be so understanding loh.
especially i have no one to help. gota depends on ourselves.
 
snowy,
yes, my ger took the vacine lor...Know its not 100% prevention but at least can minimise the pain i hope..

Linda,
true lor..most important is we hv understanding bosses leh...
 
Ya, only with understanding boss around, then we will remain loyalty in the company, same for me too... I find boss with children can be very understanding loh.... better not have boss who are unmarried at older age. Attitude got problem wan
 
jenn,
my boss is married. but no kids.
so lucky she is very understandable loh.
otherwise also difficult lah.

newbbi,
inez eat porridge loh.
i prepare the leow for lunch and dinner. so hb just dump all in and cook in rice cooker. very easy de.
hb, i suppose maggie noodle loh.
we usually eat anything we can find i the house. if only one of us at home with inez.
hahhah...
kids more impt.
 
Linda,
ha ha, we also the same as u...sometimes I will cook a small portion for Jayden's dinner...and me/hb will just eat maggie mee.... fast and simple...
 
Just last week, me just cook a new dish for Jayden - Fries with hotdog with tomato sauce (1st attempt) and J eat finished the whole plate... so accomplishment feeling
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And he also done one thing that make me touching-
I was trying to reach my top shelf (tip-toe) and Jayden saw and tell me mummy you cannot reach, use chair and he immediately go inside the study room and take a chair for me... after I am done, he also helped me to put back the chair.... me damn so touching and told my hb that ur son grown up liew....

Deep in my heart, me really felt very touched loh.
 
jenn,
ya loh, easier...

wow... Jayden is a big boy now.
so sweet of him.

i also felt that inez is a grown up gal leow.
just ytd, after i bath her, put her in the playpen, then will on her show for her, usually if i am alone with her, after settling her, i will go bath. but ytd, i went to kitchen to prepare the leow for today. then after which i went to ask her if she is really to sleep, cos hb in the room. then she look at me and ask me "mummy, you haven go bath?" i told her ya, cos papa is gg to make you sleep, so i haven bath. then next thing she do, really make me laugh, you not gg to bath yet, mummy ah... then she go haiz... and shake her head.... hahhahahah...

really can see that all our kids are growing up each day and surprise us with a lot of new things.
 
Linda,
true lor..hee..kids more important lor.. =).
Clever inez but how coem she shake head when u say u haven bath leh?so cute...hee

Jenn,
wow, J is so sweet le..next time he will be bery fillal to you de =)... Can share e receipe with me?tks
 
Newbbi,
Aiyo, me dun have any receipe lah, just tomato sauce, add abit of lemon sauce and cook liew... but first must fried the pototo into fried fries and cut the hotdog into small slices and just mix all the leoew together and served.

Me dun know whether in future he will be filal to me boh, but on last sat me really very happy when he done such 贴心 action.
 
newbbi,
hahhahah... cos usually after i settle her, i will tell her to wait for me, i go bath.
some time i tell her anther 2 times to make sure she understand, she will tell me, mummy faster go bath, go go go...

then i think because she waited for a while thinking that i went to bath, so went i went to her and she see me not changed, she signed loh...

jenn,
Jayden also very "dong shi" mah..
sometimes, i just feel that inez like a big gal like dat.
i can talk to her now. like talking to friend like dat. hahaah...
sometimes, when gg to make her sleep, will talk to her on her activities and misc of the day.
sometimes, what she tell me, also dunno true a not, so gotta verfied with the teachers the next day. most of the time quite true... hahahah..
 
Linda,
ha ha, if I am alone with Jayden, he will sit outside the bathroom till i finish bathing bah.....

Ya meh, sometime can start conversation and talk and talk ....me also sometimes doubt whether true or not.... but me didnt ask teacher lah, cos I didnt bring him to ccc mah.
 
Linda,
U able to read my chinese input words ???? Cos my PC is window vista and I can just input chinese word once I changed the command keys.
 
Linda,Jenn,
so cute hor...I hope to be able to communicate with char this way soon =)..hehe..cos now ask her to call my mummy, she shake head but will kiss me..faintz...Yest just call me "baba"..almost fainted..
 
jenn,
oic... cos i think inez is used to be in the play pen. till now her afternoon nap is still in the playpen.
so long as i on her show. she can be in there till i come out.

ya... in fact, every time when i fetch her home, i will talk to her on her daily activities then she will tell me this and that and all... hahhah...
 
jenn,
can see if i link on the spore brides link. but on my email cant see.
dunno y also.

newbbi,
very fast one lah.
btw, char go to ccc already?
 
Linda,
ha ha, think boys are more active bah, even though i can on his favourite thomas show, he will rather just sit outside the bathroom with his thomas toy on hand then sit on the sofa... weird hor....

But at least inez is a good girl, can sit till till u are out from bathroom loh... that shld be the way loh
 
newbbi,
oic...
aiyo... dun need feel du she de...
when they go school they will learn a lot and very fast they can talk a lot leow.

my neighbour when his son abt 2.5 yo, haven go school also she worried that he cant talk cos before gg to ccc, he only know baby lingo.
after gg to school this feb, he can talk quite a lot leow.
 
jenn,
i think if inez din get used to her playpen, she will be like J also waiting outside bath room. hee...

yup, dr lily said that if all her pox are gone by this week, can bring her back, then she will give letter to go back school. if not wait till 1st april when mc expire, gotta bring her back to get the letter to return to school.
 
jenn,
my neighbour put her son at her mum place in hougang, so his ccc is there. from birth till now, she only bring her son back home on friday then sunday evening go back.

she is moving out of her house by this mth end leow.
sold to a china nation at 340k, valuation only 308K.
she haven found a house. cos expecting no 2 and she will stay at her mum place till pop then slowly find a house at hougang there.
 
Linda,
Oh that is good... she got 32K cash lei........ but her electrical appliances how? All give away huh?

Wa, seem that nowadays CHINA NATION are really rich, can afford so much cash?

Me will be looking for flat in SK in Aug'2010, i dun have so much cash to pay above revaluation lei.

Cos I took the near to parents grant, must stay for full 5years before can sell away...
 


jenn,
all her big items like fridge, mattress, tv, electricity item all goes to warehouse.
every mth $100 rental.

ya... i also told my neighbour that the one who bot her house is super rich loh.
she is a sole owner, not married and she is only 25 yo. she will be living with her parents loh.

my neighbour house also not full 5 years. she said that they went to HDB office to ask then dunno how then they approve them to move out before the 5 years.
 
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