(2005) Brides of year 2005
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crystal,
at least they are recovering.
its also the case where 1 fall sick the other one will follow.
at least you still last person.
sometimes, when i scold inez, or she hurt herself or cry for nothing, even hb not at home, she will cry and ask for papa...
sometimes can tell me, i dun want mummy... see... more heart pain.
ting,
aiyo... can understand how tired.
wow... aldan really sleep so late hor.
he still can wake up in the morning to go ccc?
cos for inez, she KO by 9.30 and morning usually she cannot wake up.
so i usually, clean her and dress her while she sleeping and if i bring her in stroller, she can sleep all the way to school.
at least they are recovering.
its also the case where 1 fall sick the other one will follow.
at least you still last person.
sometimes, when i scold inez, or she hurt herself or cry for nothing, even hb not at home, she will cry and ask for papa...
sometimes can tell me, i dun want mummy... see... more heart pain.
ting,
aiyo... can understand how tired.
wow... aldan really sleep so late hor.
he still can wake up in the morning to go ccc?
cos for inez, she KO by 9.30 and morning usually she cannot wake up.
so i usually, clean her and dress her while she sleeping and if i bring her in stroller, she can sleep all the way to school.
Linda,
inez kept on drink water?
Haiz, ya lor, really bery upset and miss her alot lor...haiz...
crystal,
oh dear..hope ur kids recover soon..Hmm..charlotte also closer to my mil lor..worst thing is when I ask her to call Mama or mummy, she say mai..When ask her call dad or no need to ask, when she sees her dad, she willcall DAD...so sad lor..
Ting,
wow,...so fast hor...so all ready for meimei's arrival?Tot of a name yet?
inez kept on drink water?
Haiz, ya lor, really bery upset and miss her alot lor...haiz...
crystal,
oh dear..hope ur kids recover soon..Hmm..charlotte also closer to my mil lor..worst thing is when I ask her to call Mama or mummy, she say mai..When ask her call dad or no need to ask, when she sees her dad, she willcall DAD...so sad lor..
Ting,
wow,...so fast hor...so all ready for meimei's arrival?Tot of a name yet?
linda- sigh i reali duno hw to make him slp earlier. if he can slp at 11pm i super happy liao! if nt usu wil be close to midnite. depends one, smtimes he can wake up in the mornin but at times wil also slp thru to sch thn wake him up. thn he like blur blur n wil be cranky.
but ytd he darn funny. tried to pat him to slp thn he wan to follow n pat me n hb to slp instead. we pretended to slp n he wil go oei! n wake us up =_=
but ytd he darn funny. tried to pat him to slp thn he wan to follow n pat me n hb to slp instead. we pretended to slp n he wil go oei! n wake us up =_=
newbbi- no!!! hahahha.... i hvnt wash her clothes yet! n hvnt even buy cupboard to put the stuff! reali v last min this time round.
this mornin suddenly cannot wear my ring! duno isit a sigh tat i gona pop soon...
crystal- i hate it when it's middle of the nite! slpin so shiok liao gt to get up to clean the mess.
this mornin suddenly cannot wear my ring! duno isit a sigh tat i gona pop soon...
crystal- i hate it when it's middle of the nite! slpin so shiok liao gt to get up to clean the mess.
crystal,
oh.. tot my inez is bad enuf...
inez got very "xiao jie" temper, little bit only cry, direct translate "got thing no thing" also cry...
so can be very annoying.
ting/crystal,
last time inez also like dat, cough then puke, hate it too... gotta change cover and some time, pillow and all also kena.
so since then, i always put a small basin by the bed side and if she happen to cough till like wanna puke, i will faster take the basin and hold her up, just in case she puke.
hahahah....
newbbi,
ya... inez drinks a lot of water.
she will wake up at least once in the night for water. so i usually will put one bottle of water by her bedside and she will just take and drink on her own. but sometimes, she is tired and after drinking she will pass to me to cover for her.
if she wake up more than once, then i gotta to wake up and make another bottle for her loh.
oh.. tot my inez is bad enuf...
inez got very "xiao jie" temper, little bit only cry, direct translate "got thing no thing" also cry...
so can be very annoying.
ting/crystal,
last time inez also like dat, cough then puke, hate it too... gotta change cover and some time, pillow and all also kena.
so since then, i always put a small basin by the bed side and if she happen to cough till like wanna puke, i will faster take the basin and hold her up, just in case she puke.
hahahah....
newbbi,
ya... inez drinks a lot of water.
she will wake up at least once in the night for water. so i usually will put one bottle of water by her bedside and she will just take and drink on her own. but sometimes, she is tired and after drinking she will pass to me to cover for her.
if she wake up more than once, then i gotta to wake up and make another bottle for her loh.
ting,
maybe you all too used to let him sleep late bah.
for inez, when she is taken care by my aunty, she also sleep very late liek aldan like dat.
but since she started school we bring her to bed by 9pm, whether or not she wnt to sleep a not.
so now she used to it leow, latest during weekdays latest by 10pm, she KO leow.
also if she dun want to sleep, i my coll ask me to used WOLF to scare her.
its works so far and my friend whose son is also like aldan even go ccc, he also sleep like 11+ then morning 7am move him only wake up.
so i also teach he to use WOLF and for 2 weeks, it really helps. by 10pm, he sleep leow.
maybe you all too used to let him sleep late bah.
for inez, when she is taken care by my aunty, she also sleep very late liek aldan like dat.
but since she started school we bring her to bed by 9pm, whether or not she wnt to sleep a not.
so now she used to it leow, latest during weekdays latest by 10pm, she KO leow.
also if she dun want to sleep, i my coll ask me to used WOLF to scare her.
its works so far and my friend whose son is also like aldan even go ccc, he also sleep like 11+ then morning 7am move him only wake up.
so i also teach he to use WOLF and for 2 weeks, it really helps. by 10pm, he sleep leow.
crystal,
haiz... sian hor, sometimes can be very annoying.
if inez cry for nothing or cry when she is in the wrong or want things that i dun give, i will just let her cry till she is tired.
sometimes, i very angry with her, i will tell her you wnat to cry right, then cry louder and better dun stop if i never ask you to stop.
so she cry an cry loh, i just walk away. then when the volume goes down, i told her, who ask you to stop, aunty upstairs cannot hear you, keep crying and better cry till ppl down stairs can hear you. hahhahaha....
then usually for 10 mins will ignore her, so if she still cry, i will then ask her to come to me and talk to her and she will apologise, take her pacifier and pillow and go to her play mat, lay down and watch her show.
hahhhahah...
haiz... sian hor, sometimes can be very annoying.
if inez cry for nothing or cry when she is in the wrong or want things that i dun give, i will just let her cry till she is tired.
sometimes, i very angry with her, i will tell her you wnat to cry right, then cry louder and better dun stop if i never ask you to stop.
so she cry an cry loh, i just walk away. then when the volume goes down, i told her, who ask you to stop, aunty upstairs cannot hear you, keep crying and better cry till ppl down stairs can hear you. hahhahaha....
then usually for 10 mins will ignore her, so if she still cry, i will then ask her to come to me and talk to her and she will apologise, take her pacifier and pillow and go to her play mat, lay down and watch her show.
hahhhahah...
ting,
oh, i will tell him, if you dun sleep or misbehave, the wolf is just outside, i ask him to come in and bit you, you want.
or sometimes, i will pretend to go outside and tell her i gg to bring the wolf come.
so far so good and she is afraid.
my friend son also hear wolf coming only, faster take his pillow and cover his eyes and within mins sleep leow.
i suppose maybe you want to start off either the 3 little pigs or the boy who shout wolf and emphasise on what the wolf did to the pigs.
self elabourate the story lah. hee...
oh, i will tell him, if you dun sleep or misbehave, the wolf is just outside, i ask him to come in and bit you, you want.
or sometimes, i will pretend to go outside and tell her i gg to bring the wolf come.
so far so good and she is afraid.
my friend son also hear wolf coming only, faster take his pillow and cover his eyes and within mins sleep leow.
i suppose maybe you want to start off either the 3 little pigs or the boy who shout wolf and emphasise on what the wolf did to the pigs.
self elabourate the story lah. hee...
crystal,
actually most of the time, inez mouth also like got gold bar inside, refused to say sorry.
i will ask her if she can behave this way and she shook her head and understand she is in the wrong, then will ask her what must you say, sometimes will say sorry, sometimes she just look away and pretend to hug you loh.
newbbi/crystal,
my hb is anti cane one. so no cane in our house. we prefer to use the talking method.
she is only afraid of the word cane, if i mentioned my aunty name, cos there is once, we have a wake to attend and park her at my aunty house and i did mention to my aunty she is notti. so she show her the cane and told inez that if she notti she will used it to cane her.
so since than, if talking doesnt help, will bring my aunty name out with the cane.
hahahha...
actually most of the time, inez mouth also like got gold bar inside, refused to say sorry.
i will ask her if she can behave this way and she shook her head and understand she is in the wrong, then will ask her what must you say, sometimes will say sorry, sometimes she just look away and pretend to hug you loh.
newbbi/crystal,
my hb is anti cane one. so no cane in our house. we prefer to use the talking method.
she is only afraid of the word cane, if i mentioned my aunty name, cos there is once, we have a wake to attend and park her at my aunty house and i did mention to my aunty she is notti. so she show her the cane and told inez that if she notti she will used it to cane her.
so since than, if talking doesnt help, will bring my aunty name out with the cane.
hahahha...
crystal,
he got study a bit on child psychology for this course. and i also read alot on the y spare the rod article.
pros and cons on using cane.
so since day one hb already said, he dun want any cane in the house.
he dun like.
also i suppose, in his house, when young mil neve use cane on them.
i also dun really like too... prefer to use the talking method. cos my parents also dun really use cane on us. as far as i can remember, i only kena cane twice all my life.
he got study a bit on child psychology for this course. and i also read alot on the y spare the rod article.
pros and cons on using cane.
so since day one hb already said, he dun want any cane in the house.
he dun like.
also i suppose, in his house, when young mil neve use cane on them.
i also dun really like too... prefer to use the talking method. cos my parents also dun really use cane on us. as far as i can remember, i only kena cane twice all my life.
linda - oic.. hee.. so far we also havent't use.. but i dunno if will forever dun use.. but i noe my dad will say e word cane to scared isiaah when he loko after.. the bad thing abt not lookg after on own is tt the grandparents got their own way n wun listen to us sometimes.. go cc in a way good is tt parents are in ctrl ultimately.. haha
morning all!!
linda, u so funnie abt inez crying...punish her by asking her to cry louder & dun stop until u ask her to do so! hee hee
ting, aldan sleep so late?? aston use to sleep late oso ard 11+ to 12+ realli siong leh...but ever since my mom take care he hardly zz long in day time so now at nite 9+ to 10 he will zz le!
toking abt notti...tink now kids realli dunno how to describe liow...last time our parents scold we where got dare to scold back now i see my nephew oso shout back at my bro if my bro scold him lo....even my aston oso same kind....at my mom plc he notti i scold him he will eh eh back to mi mk those angry sound...if onli mi wif him he still dun dare to b so notti...i scold him he will kip quiet & sometime sai ni to mi wan mi to carry him! so young already know how to see ppl face to react!
linda, u so funnie abt inez crying...punish her by asking her to cry louder & dun stop until u ask her to do so! hee hee
ting, aldan sleep so late?? aston use to sleep late oso ard 11+ to 12+ realli siong leh...but ever since my mom take care he hardly zz long in day time so now at nite 9+ to 10 he will zz le!
toking abt notti...tink now kids realli dunno how to describe liow...last time our parents scold we where got dare to scold back now i see my nephew oso shout back at my bro if my bro scold him lo....even my aston oso same kind....at my mom plc he notti i scold him he will eh eh back to mi mk those angry sound...if onli mi wif him he still dun dare to b so notti...i scold him he will kip quiet & sometime sai ni to mi wan mi to carry him! so young already know how to see ppl face to react!
crystal,
yes, my hb gave her 2 strokes before...The very first stroke was because, she kept on wan us to carry her while we are eatign though she had finish her meal liao, then kept oh laogei with the eheheh sound, my hb took e cane warn her but she eheheh even louder, so down goes e cane with a stroke on her arm, but a light one lor..Aft that, she kept on using her the other hand to cover the arm cos i tink 1st time she feels pain..Then subsequent, when she bery naughty, when my hb take cane, imeediately she stops...I heartpain but no choice , hv to start teaching now, if not next time older more difficult to discipline le...
yes, my hb gave her 2 strokes before...The very first stroke was because, she kept on wan us to carry her while we are eatign though she had finish her meal liao, then kept oh laogei with the eheheh sound, my hb took e cane warn her but she eheheh even louder, so down goes e cane with a stroke on her arm, but a light one lor..Aft that, she kept on using her the other hand to cover the arm cos i tink 1st time she feels pain..Then subsequent, when she bery naughty, when my hb take cane, imeediately she stops...I heartpain but no choice , hv to start teaching now, if not next time older more difficult to discipline le...
crystal,
totally agree on that.
when my aunty took care of inez, she already day one todl us, i have my own method of taking care, if you dun like, then dun let me take care.
so we just have to let her have her way.
but i must say, she really took care and teaches her very well. actually during her care, inez wasnt so stubborn and pampered.
actually, at one point i told my hb, if i really cannot take it, i gg to buy cane leow. haha hh... so i also same as you loh, dunno can forever dun use cane.
totally agree on that.
when my aunty took care of inez, she already day one todl us, i have my own method of taking care, if you dun like, then dun let me take care.
so we just have to let her have her way.
but i must say, she really took care and teaches her very well. actually during her care, inez wasnt so stubborn and pampered.
actually, at one point i told my hb, if i really cannot take it, i gg to buy cane leow. haha hh... so i also same as you loh, dunno can forever dun use cane.
i tink i will use cane lo if talking doesn't help...i already started to scold & beat my boy le...of course i din beat v hard lo...got once my fren at my hse aston kip eh eh wan to drink milk give him liow still cranky drink abit & push out...i tok to him nicely he still mk noise so i angry i scold him he scared immy drink his milk...my fren say yr boy realli scare of u...hahaha...so whenever he notti hb will use say i tell mommy!! so i am the huai ren!
crystal, tink cane them 1 hard 1 & not too often maybe they will scared lo...like my nephew so use to kenna cane by my bro & sil is realli hard wan...tink he immune liow! so the most he kenna cane cry loudly & say dun wan onli...dun tink he scared the cane lo...
jam- aldan naps like 2 hrs in sch. which is the norm leh but he can tahan til 11plus thn KO. this boy can cont to play, no need slp one!
u same like me, be the bad guy! aldan wil start to cry when i raise my voice.
agree tat nwadays kids reali difficult to teach.
crystal- i cannot imagine if my dad takes care of aldan cos he reali spoils him completely!! even when he does wrong, my dad can say nvm, he's stil young, y scold him. n when he cries abit only, my dad wil quickly go n carry n pacify. i see liao buey tahan!
u same like me, be the bad guy! aldan wil start to cry when i raise my voice.
agree tat nwadays kids reali difficult to teach.
crystal- i cannot imagine if my dad takes care of aldan cos he reali spoils him completely!! even when he does wrong, my dad can say nvm, he's stil young, y scold him. n when he cries abit only, my dad wil quickly go n carry n pacify. i see liao buey tahan!
jam,
hahahha... what i call this is adverse effect.
so far it does helps.
cos for inez, i will give her 3 chances, if 4th time, i will use adverse method.
liek for instance, if she dun eat or choose her food, then i will tell her, then dun like, give to your friend.
when she touch the food, i will scold and ask her who ask you to touch, you already said you dun want.
then she will cry and tell me i want to eat. within mins, she finished up leow.
so inez is a person who must give this kind of method to "qi keat" her.
so far, how notti is inez, he still object the idea of cane. so i can forget abt buying.
also, one reason i din insisted buying cos once i use a ruler to gently beat her. not very painful, she can snatch my ruler and beat herself harder than i beat her.
so we also scare that she will take cane and cane herself and end up hurting herself.
jam,
inez only afraid of his papa when he raised his voice which he only do that when she is really out of control.
hahahha... what i call this is adverse effect.
so far it does helps.
cos for inez, i will give her 3 chances, if 4th time, i will use adverse method.
liek for instance, if she dun eat or choose her food, then i will tell her, then dun like, give to your friend.
when she touch the food, i will scold and ask her who ask you to touch, you already said you dun want.
then she will cry and tell me i want to eat. within mins, she finished up leow.
so inez is a person who must give this kind of method to "qi keat" her.
so far, how notti is inez, he still object the idea of cane. so i can forget abt buying.
also, one reason i din insisted buying cos once i use a ruler to gently beat her. not very painful, she can snatch my ruler and beat herself harder than i beat her.
so we also scare that she will take cane and cane herself and end up hurting herself.
jam,
inez only afraid of his papa when he raised his voice which he only do that when she is really out of control.
Gd morning all
Linda,
Me also used the same method, but me dun said wolf but say kaka (meaning cockroach) will come and bite u when he misbehave, usually he is scared loh.
Me also anti-cane, so far there is no cane in my house yet... i also prefer to talk. So far i only used RULER once to hit his hand, when he throw his whole thomas loader on the floor.
But Jayden will apologies and say sorry when he know that he is wrong.... but that take times.. Usually he will cry first, I talk to him, then he will say sorry and hug hug loh...
Linda,
Me also used the same method, but me dun said wolf but say kaka (meaning cockroach) will come and bite u when he misbehave, usually he is scared loh.
Me also anti-cane, so far there is no cane in my house yet... i also prefer to talk. So far i only used RULER once to hit his hand, when he throw his whole thomas loader on the floor.
But Jayden will apologies and say sorry when he know that he is wrong.... but that take times.. Usually he will cry first, I talk to him, then he will say sorry and hug hug loh...
Linda,
BTW, our kiddo now 2 1/2 year old, any more vaccine boh? So far the opinional jabs I gave are chickenpox and flu jab... anymore huh?
Me forgot to ask DR Fong ytday, BTW, his clinic will be closed on 08th mar on ward for renovation... till when i cant remember.. kee kee
BTW, our kiddo now 2 1/2 year old, any more vaccine boh? So far the opinional jabs I gave are chickenpox and flu jab... anymore huh?
Me forgot to ask DR Fong ytday, BTW, his clinic will be closed on 08th mar on ward for renovation... till when i cant remember.. kee kee
hi jenn,
hahha... i do use insect that she is afraid. so far helps when she is really notti.
i think no more jab leow bah.
until 6 year old.
oh ok ok... thanks for the info.
newbbi,
erm... partly because school does teach them bah.
cos i always see her term schedule on what is taught. this term, think got topic on manners.
hahha... i do use insect that she is afraid. so far helps when she is really notti.
i think no more jab leow bah.
until 6 year old.
oh ok ok... thanks for the info.
newbbi,
erm... partly because school does teach them bah.
cos i always see her term schedule on what is taught. this term, think got topic on manners.
Crystal,
No lah, i dun believe caning will teach the children to be guai loh... last time our parents different mah, me also not scare of cane, except my dad's belt... ha ha ha
Newbbi,
Hmm, i sort of "force" him to say out if not MUMMY DO NOT LOVE U ANYMORE..... ha ha, he is very scared when I said that sentence..... and now when we talk over the phone... when ending the conversation, i will say I LOVE U and he will reply the same to me... ha ha ha
No lah, i dun believe caning will teach the children to be guai loh... last time our parents different mah, me also not scare of cane, except my dad's belt... ha ha ha
Newbbi,
Hmm, i sort of "force" him to say out if not MUMMY DO NOT LOVE U ANYMORE..... ha ha, he is very scared when I said that sentence..... and now when we talk over the phone... when ending the conversation, i will say I LOVE U and he will reply the same to me... ha ha ha
jenn,
i have the same thinking as you.
i will also repeat myself to ask her to apologise, kinda force also.
if she dun say, i will use my aunty name again. hahaah... her name very good to use.
newbbi/jenn,
for inez, i think its gal lah.
since baby, we will say good nite and say i love you. so till now when sleeping, when we say i love you inez, she will respond i love you mummy, good night, if papa is ard, will also say i love you papa, good night.
i have the same thinking as you.
i will also repeat myself to ask her to apologise, kinda force also.
if she dun say, i will use my aunty name again. hahaah... her name very good to use.
newbbi/jenn,
for inez, i think its gal lah.
since baby, we will say good nite and say i love you. so till now when sleeping, when we say i love you inez, she will respond i love you mummy, good night, if papa is ard, will also say i love you papa, good night.
Linda,
No lah, J is also not scare of me, but he is scare to hear MUMMY DO NOT LOVE U ANYMORE... this sentense is very powerful loh... and he can cry for it and want me to sayang him back loh...
Like he fall down or injured himself, want me to sayang him loh... wa liew like very mummy boy meh
No lah, J is also not scare of me, but he is scare to hear MUMMY DO NOT LOVE U ANYMORE... this sentense is very powerful loh... and he can cry for it and want me to sayang him back loh...
Like he fall down or injured himself, want me to sayang him loh... wa liew like very mummy boy meh
jenn,
hahhah... for inez, my aunty warn us cannot say dun want them, they will feel very unsercure. also my hb will scold me if sometimes i so angry said out. so, so far, i only said that once.
but what i do that she will be frighten is i ignore her totally for at least 10 to 15 mins. she can cry, cling on me or follow behind my backside or whatever, or even keep calling me, i will just simply ignore her.
then after that i will talk to her and tell her i very upset and angry of what she did.
afterwhich, can see that she know really scared. hahahah...
oh if inez fall down or what, she will cry for her papa.. even when papa is not at home.
she is a 100% daddy's gal.
hahhah... for inez, my aunty warn us cannot say dun want them, they will feel very unsercure. also my hb will scold me if sometimes i so angry said out. so, so far, i only said that once.
but what i do that she will be frighten is i ignore her totally for at least 10 to 15 mins. she can cry, cling on me or follow behind my backside or whatever, or even keep calling me, i will just simply ignore her.
then after that i will talk to her and tell her i very upset and angry of what she did.
afterwhich, can see that she know really scared. hahahah...
oh if inez fall down or what, she will cry for her papa.. even when papa is not at home.
she is a 100% daddy's gal.