(2005) Brides of year 2005

jenn,
i same as you want to see inez grow up. so will want to take good care of myself then can take care of her.

crystal,
me 90% will close factory leow.
cos i dun think i can cope with 2 kids without help and also financial is quite tight now. cos hb still only finished his study next year end.

by then, i will be 34 and say want to save up needs at least half a year. by then 35, think no energy also 35, high risk leow.
 


Jenn,
agree lor..i also wan to live long to see charlotte grown up, succed in life and get married..hehe...Hv u tot whther next time u wan help J to take care of his kids?hehee..

Linda,
hehe...got it le..mayb shd go arrange an appt soon..

haha, agreed with Jenn that still have chance lor... hee
 
jenn,

you evil leh... haahahah...

i wanted to put 100% one but i dare not... so put 90%..

cos for me, i seriously dun want no 2. cos i dun want to stress on my health. heart a bit weak.
then told my hb abt it. initially hb hestitate and said see how. then last year, he suddenly tell me, think stop at one lah, very tired!
kena scolding from me, cos i told him, 90% of the time is i take care of inez and take care of everything. he only help a bit here and there, tell me tired.
then this year cny, his relative ask him, now inez 3 year old leow, can go try one more. he without thinking and tell them, dun want leow. one is enuf and no money.
hahhaha... last year mil still keep indirectly telling inez to ask mummy to give her one didi... since that time i directly tell right in her face, your son hardly help to take care and he studying and no money. and no one help to take care. how to give birth to no 2.
since then, she never prompt us again.... hahahhah...
 
newbbi,

hahahah... no no no.... dun want leow.
cfm, told my hb no accident shd happen, otherwise, he can forget abt his study leow.

so each time after bond, i will sure ask if he got careful a not. hahhha...

there is once, my mense late by 3 days, i worried, he more worried... so can tell he will really be careful loh... hahahaha
 
Newbbi,
No loh, i never tot of TAKING CARE of Jayden's kiddo in future.... he better hire a maid while I only monitor bah... i old oleidi, retire lao, must enjoy life lei....

Wat a question, ha ha ha................
 
jenn,

hahahah... you so sure??
i also have the same thinking as you, but if really when they have no help, sure the mummy will step in one loh....
 
Linda,
Aiyo, like that me evil meh?
Cos you do not take precaution mah.... ha ha ha
My hb wouldnt never let accident happen again, me same as u lah, hb hardly help out... except driving us out bah....
 
Linda,
ha ha ha, maybe can ask my daughter-in-law mummy to help instead of me lei... or I might not live that long lei.... aiyo ... so long thing, i also dun dare to think so far far away.
 
jenn,
hahahah....
ya loh, no precaution. so hb gotta be super careful. i did tell him that since dun want leow, i go and insert the dunno what. hahah...cant remember what its called.
he dun want loh... so on his part, he gotta be extreme careful..
 
jenn,
hahhha.... also idea...
agre loh, newbbi, you asking a question which will only happen in another 25 to 30 years time.
by then i am already at least 55 to 60 year old leow... my god!
 
Linda,
hehe..dats a gd one..but sometimes hor, scarli they forgot lor..actually i also bery scare cos we also no precaution de..... hope no accidient lor..But if accidient, then fated to hv #2.. At times, I see charlotte so lonely, really wan to give her a sibling to play with lor..BUt on e other hand, i dread confinement days..hee
 
Linda,
Oh, i also cant remember the name but the ring have to be replace every 5 years, right? Hmm, if hb not precaution, really have to be extra careful... my colleague also miscount her dates and was preggie, hence hv to bring forward her wedding date....

Newbbi,
ha ha, ur thinking is the same of my another colleague, she and hb just bond and she said if fate to have #02, then let it be, and after 1 mth she was preggie.... ha ha ha.
 
newbbi,
usually if i am at cruical period, i will warn him to be super extra careful.

i can also see that inez is lonely and boring at times, but i tell myself, if my health is no good and no help and tight financial, i rather be selfish and get to see inez grow up and get married, rather than poor health, she got slibing and i cannot live to see them grow... hee.. cos my mum died early, due to over work just to provide a better living for the 4 of us till got lung cancer at the age of 38.
so i am not taking any chance. i rather be a bit selfish but get to see inez grow. this is also one reason y i go for my annual medical check up since hte age of 24. hee...see i very kia si right!!
 
Linda,
Me also same tot as u.... i rather see myself selfish but I must provide enough $, protection for Jayden and my family to go on... i also see that Jayden is lonely at times but hb and me are not earning big bucks and oleidi everything are so financial tight....

So sad to hear about your mum. Can understand ur fear as well.
 
Linda,
Sad to hear about that lor..But this makes u stronger lor..=). The ring or rather its shaped like an umbrella leh...My coll was telling me need to replace every 5yrs..Either that or cut the tube away lor...

Jenn,
hehe...just curious lor..cos i also dun wan to help char look aft her kids next time lor..but if really bo bian, i dun mind lor..if I dun help, who else help =)..hee
 
jenn,

ya loh... if hb not studying, maybe still can consider no 2. but with him studying, its a total no no...

and ya... i always remind myself of my mum's hardship and tell myself better be selfish than suffer.
my aunty they all initially keep asking me to have no 2 also. till i tell them my heart a bit weak and i dun want to end up like my mum, then now they kinda agree and said that some more your hb dun really help. better stop at one lah. hahhah...
 
newbbi,
ya loh.. think if my mum still ard, all 4 of us wont be so independent.
a blessing in disguse bah..hee..

oh thanks for the info. but think got side effect is it?
my coll was telling me her friend got side effect.
 
newbbi,
dunno leh.
think side effect like headache, nausea, gain wt.
some thing like dat. or maybe its very individual??
maybe next monday, i go for my womb scan and pap smear cheak with my gynae.
 
hi gals!, me super long din log in liao! but juz wana wish evryone Happy New Year good health good wealth!

talking abt #2.. i oso scared to hv another one.. gotta go thru evrythg again.. but come to think of it, adele is coming 18mo liao.. time really flies..
 
morning all...

going to submit my resignation today.. scary.. coz haven't sign contract for e other side

n i think e contract gonna be delayed coz i lost my nie cert.. sighz
 
Jenn,
woww, so happening leh..hehe..

crystal,
I see..hmm... scarli ur principal going to ask u to stay...

U rec my sms? Can sms me the contact no of the part time cleaner u using cos my fren who is staying at SK needs domestic help lor..tks
 
newbbi - i fwd u e no earlier liao.. i doubt e P will.. he's new n he doesn't noe me
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hi gals! cant reali login often nw cos the boy wil be using my pc to do wrk n all i can do is to stare at him do wrk! haha..

linda/newbbi- the ring isit known as iud too? i tot of doin tat cos i reali dun wan to hv no. 3 liao. cannot afford to hv accidents!
 
Crystal
Ha ha, since the P is new, he wouldnt make u stay, then fast go lah......... kee kee

Ting,
Last time u used the ovaluation strips , right? Can u still recall how much and where can I buy huh? My friend tried one year for bb lao but still no news, so i tot of getting that for her.
 
morning ladies,

wow... today got more ppl leow.

me recently very free, so can post and reply very fast... hahahaha....

crystal,
any chance to get nie to give you a certified true copy of your cert?

janf,
long time no see...
 
Linda,
Aiyo, Janf usually log in at night where all of us go home lao.... kee kee

She cant log in here during her office hour as her office also blocked this website.
 
Crystal,
But abit disappointed, right?
Hmm, maybe u can ask ur school HRM to retrieve ur NIE cert ? And u fast fast make a copy to pass to your new employer?
 
jenn - ok lah.. coz hor i honestly dunno him.. n when he asked me y i leaving i said i fd a new job.. my VP was shocked n asked me to reconsider..
 
jenn/linda,

Isaac is fine. Recently teacher asked us whether wanna transfer him to N1 instead cos he can't sit down long enough in class, kept walking ard lor...I feel that the teacher there is too impatient, 3 yo kid is like that lor, cant force him wat and i feel like asking the teacher if i transfer him to N1, can you guarantee he will sit down and listen to your teaching?

jenn,
Isaac is fine. AB for isaac shrink a little as compared to last yr..keke.we din change car recently lah...think almost 1/2 yr liew..

ger2,
hmm, we changed car almost 1/2 yr liew..the last time u waved at us at car park we already changed..keke.
 
linda,

yes, he is in N2.

think he is not the only 1. other kids got other set of problems which i heard frm my mil..

one thing i dun like about the teacher is she kept saying he is the youngest in the class and he got the CHOICE to choose..give me the impression that she wants to siam lor. of cos if my boy got problem in learning, the principal or teacher should call up wat, dun ask to rely msg via my mil lor..

but i feel my boy is learning and improving (thru verbal) although he is not sitting still in class leh..
 


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