(2005) Brides of year 2005
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The dresses here nice lor..
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ting,
actually hor, i read before that 2nd one is easier to strike cos you are still very fertitle after your 1st one especially only 1 year apart.
not trying for no 2 leow. most prob stopping at one. cos of financial and also no one to help take care also my hb work 24 hr shift, now only inez still can cope and do everything myself when hb not ard. but if he not ard, then without a helper, i dun think i can managed loh.
so newbbi, understand you also tried for quite some time b4 kena right, if want to strike easily, maybe next year can try again.
oh... if you are at your fertitle period when strike, most prob is a boy leh.
actually hor, i read before that 2nd one is easier to strike cos you are still very fertitle after your 1st one especially only 1 year apart.
not trying for no 2 leow. most prob stopping at one. cos of financial and also no one to help take care also my hb work 24 hr shift, now only inez still can cope and do everything myself when hb not ard. but if he not ard, then without a helper, i dun think i can managed loh.
so newbbi, understand you also tried for quite some time b4 kena right, if want to strike easily, maybe next year can try again.
oh... if you are at your fertitle period when strike, most prob is a boy leh.
Linda,
that time i tried for the 2nd mth and strike le...now huh? i tink have to wait til we graduate first before trying cos i really dun wan history to repeat itself. meaning dun wan to neglect my #2 and i wan to give them my 100% of attention not like now, i am tryign bery hard to balance my studies and charlotte. But it seems like charlotte is 80% and studies onli 20%..hiaz...it is really tough lor...At times i feel like giving up lor..really..can't take it lor..
that time i tried for the 2nd mth and strike le...now huh? i tink have to wait til we graduate first before trying cos i really dun wan history to repeat itself. meaning dun wan to neglect my #2 and i wan to give them my 100% of attention not like now, i am tryign bery hard to balance my studies and charlotte. But it seems like charlotte is 80% and studies onli 20%..hiaz...it is really tough lor...At times i feel like giving up lor..really..can't take it lor..
newbbi,
oh ya... you mentioned before. hee..
actually, because of study, work and child stress, quarreling is very common between couple de.
like myself and hb. at time when i really so stress and tired taking care of inez, doing all the housework, and work. i do nag and complaint to my hb and he usually keep quiet cos he knows that he only "give" 30% of his time and effort while i give more than 100%.
oh ya... you mentioned before. hee..
actually, because of study, work and child stress, quarreling is very common between couple de.
like myself and hb. at time when i really so stress and tired taking care of inez, doing all the housework, and work. i do nag and complaint to my hb and he usually keep quiet cos he knows that he only "give" 30% of his time and effort while i give more than 100%.
Linda,
hee...
Ya lor, really not easy for you to work, hsework and take care of inez lor...But inez is a clever ger lor...Tell u hor, now hor, charlotte bery bad temper, if she dun get wat she wants esp when my PIL are ard, she cry and scream cos she knows they will give it to her de..haiz...
hee...
Ya lor, really not easy for you to work, hsework and take care of inez lor...But inez is a clever ger lor...Tell u hor, now hor, charlotte bery bad temper, if she dun get wat she wants esp when my PIL are ard, she cry and scream cos she knows they will give it to her de..haiz...
newbbi,
inez is very notti too.
she is also lazy and selective learning.
at this age, they behavior is like dat one. inez was like dat also.
now that she can talk more, at times she will "agrue" with me.
hahahhah...
actually since 2nd mth of inez in ccc, almost everday after fetching her, i rush home cook dinner for her, then if hb not ard, i gotta do housework and wash her clothing only after making her sleep ard 9.30pm. then usually my dinner will be ard 10+. and this is the reason also for me to put on wt.
some more for the past 3 mths, inez had been waking up at least 2x in the night for water. cos i am a light sleeper, a bit of movement i will wake up, so really really very tired and shag.
inez is very notti too.
she is also lazy and selective learning.
at this age, they behavior is like dat one. inez was like dat also.
now that she can talk more, at times she will "agrue" with me.
hahahhah...
actually since 2nd mth of inez in ccc, almost everday after fetching her, i rush home cook dinner for her, then if hb not ard, i gotta do housework and wash her clothing only after making her sleep ard 9.30pm. then usually my dinner will be ard 10+. and this is the reason also for me to put on wt.
some more for the past 3 mths, inez had been waking up at least 2x in the night for water. cos i am a light sleeper, a bit of movement i will wake up, so really really very tired and shag.
Linda,
hehe...i bery happy cos that day i taught charlotte to point her face, now when i say face, she point to her face..hee..
oh dear...really bery tired leh cos still hv to rush home to cook le...xinku ni le..U are really a good mummy and wife..
all,
more cheap clothings..
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hehe...i bery happy cos that day i taught charlotte to point her face, now when i say face, she point to her face..hee..
oh dear...really bery tired leh cos still hv to rush home to cook le...xinku ni le..U are really a good mummy and wife..
all,
more cheap clothings..
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linda- i understand hw u feel cos nw at nite i hv to handle aldan alone. v tirin as he's super active nw n hv to keep an eye at him at all times.
newbbi- my af haywired liao so i duno when i O also. my last af was end may leh so i tot i shd b 8wks alrdy but dr khi said cos my af nt regular so cannot count frm there.
u shd noe when u takin part time studies tat it's nt gonna be easy le esp w a toddler in hand. nw tat u hv started, dun gv up! jia you k!!
newbbi- my af haywired liao so i duno when i O also. my last af was end may leh so i tot i shd b 8wks alrdy but dr khi said cos my af nt regular so cannot count frm there.
u shd noe when u takin part time studies tat it's nt gonna be easy le esp w a toddler in hand. nw tat u hv started, dun gv up! jia you k!!
newbbi,
that's good. but you dun teach too many at a time, repeat this for at least a week to let char get into her brain. hee..
ya.. really very tired.
no lah, not a very good mummy and wife lah. all of you also very good mummy and wife too.
ting,
ya loh, really can be very tiring when kids is so active and have to keep eye on them always.
that's good. but you dun teach too many at a time, repeat this for at least a week to let char get into her brain. hee..
ya.. really very tired.
no lah, not a very good mummy and wife lah. all of you also very good mummy and wife too.
ting,
ya loh, really can be very tiring when kids is so active and have to keep eye on them always.
newbbi,
there is a lot of things to teach.
but do it slowly.
for inez, she learn more when she goes to ccc. and kinda glad that i send her in early.
despite the fact that she keep fall sick for the past 5 mths, now that she is better and i think also all the virus she contacted helps to "build" up her immuse system also.
also she learn very fast in ccc now she can speak a bit of chinese leow.
changing diaper, inez so big gal leow, she also flip and turn and run away most of the time when we changing her.
there is a lot of things to teach.
but do it slowly.
for inez, she learn more when she goes to ccc. and kinda glad that i send her in early.
despite the fact that she keep fall sick for the past 5 mths, now that she is better and i think also all the virus she contacted helps to "build" up her immuse system also.
also she learn very fast in ccc now she can speak a bit of chinese leow.
changing diaper, inez so big gal leow, she also flip and turn and run away most of the time when we changing her.
Linda,
ya lor, lots of things to teach..Now i started letting her touch those lift-the flap books, she likelor, thats where she learnt face =)..
Ya lor, haiz, sometimes wan to clena her poo, she turn or sometimes she puts her hand in..faintz..but sometimes i so fedup of battlign with her, i smack her on her tigh, she cry , then i quickly clean and wrap her..hee..bo bianz..
Jenn,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO JAYDEN!
ya lor, lots of things to teach..Now i started letting her touch those lift-the flap books, she likelor, thats where she learnt face =)..
Ya lor, haiz, sometimes wan to clena her poo, she turn or sometimes she puts her hand in..faintz..but sometimes i so fedup of battlign with her, i smack her on her tigh, she cry , then i quickly clean and wrap her..hee..bo bianz..
Jenn,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO JAYDEN!
morning ladies,
newbbi,
how i discipline... hahahaha.... i cant tame inez very well.
she has been very mischievious and notti in ccc.
teachers has been complainting to me since 2nd mth of her ccc till now.
she will either scratch, beat, snatch toys from her friend, or pinch teacher or when everyone is sitting down for lesson, she will stand up after a while walk to the back and smack or hit the friend head or face.
or she will walk to her bag and open the zip.
recently, teacher was scolding one of the school mate, inez walk over and give the classmate a tight slap on the face.
see... this is how notti she is.
i so desprate till i ask my aunty who take care of her and whom inez is quite afraid of to lecture her. but still no use.
i resort in surfing the net to find way to discpline a toddler, how to handle a toddler and also buy books to read.
last week just check with her form teacher, she mentioned that inez got improvement leow, not so much of beating her friends leow.
so at least all the method that i read and use paid off a bit by a bit loh.
newbbi,
how i discipline... hahahaha.... i cant tame inez very well.
she has been very mischievious and notti in ccc.
teachers has been complainting to me since 2nd mth of her ccc till now.
she will either scratch, beat, snatch toys from her friend, or pinch teacher or when everyone is sitting down for lesson, she will stand up after a while walk to the back and smack or hit the friend head or face.
or she will walk to her bag and open the zip.
recently, teacher was scolding one of the school mate, inez walk over and give the classmate a tight slap on the face.
see... this is how notti she is.
i so desprate till i ask my aunty who take care of her and whom inez is quite afraid of to lecture her. but still no use.
i resort in surfing the net to find way to discpline a toddler, how to handle a toddler and also buy books to read.
last week just check with her form teacher, she mentioned that inez got improvement leow, not so much of beating her friends leow.
so at least all the method that i read and use paid off a bit by a bit loh.
Good noon everyone.
This morning come back to office, 1st thing is to update my photos on the blog and on FB...kee kee, hence delay posting here....
Newbbi,
So do you want the HK toys? Maybe i can help you too, I do eat happy meal at times and get toys for Jayden too...
Ting,
Were outside the whole day, damn tired meh... and Jayden only nap for 50min for the whole day, ytday at 9.30pm knock off till 8am this morning. kee kee... Overall ok lah, just a simple and small celebration... the only interesting part was the dinner.... I was distributing the cakes, tot of sharing my cake with Jayden..then Jayden realise that he has no cake... he shouted his name loud and clear and pat his hand on his chest (asking for his cake)... everyone was laughing out loud when they all saw him doing that.
This morning come back to office, 1st thing is to update my photos on the blog and on FB...kee kee, hence delay posting here....
Newbbi,
So do you want the HK toys? Maybe i can help you too, I do eat happy meal at times and get toys for Jayden too...
Ting,
Were outside the whole day, damn tired meh... and Jayden only nap for 50min for the whole day, ytday at 9.30pm knock off till 8am this morning. kee kee... Overall ok lah, just a simple and small celebration... the only interesting part was the dinner.... I was distributing the cakes, tot of sharing my cake with Jayden..then Jayden realise that he has no cake... he shouted his name loud and clear and pat his hand on his chest (asking for his cake)... everyone was laughing out loud when they all saw him doing that.
Linda,
at CCC, the teachers and principal told me that in the playgroup class, Jayden is the most obedient and behaved in the class.... me SO PUZZLED meh... and told them that Jayden is a BIG BULLY at home... super notti loh and resort bitting me too.... I always gena bites from him and will slap him meh..... definitely will cry and go around looking for shelter from whoever meh...... the terrible two stage so jialat meh.
Ting,
ha ha ha, dun think kena accident will expect a gal lah, my Jayden also accident baby mah and is A BOY.... kee kee...is just another old grandmother myth lah.
at CCC, the teachers and principal told me that in the playgroup class, Jayden is the most obedient and behaved in the class.... me SO PUZZLED meh... and told them that Jayden is a BIG BULLY at home... super notti loh and resort bitting me too.... I always gena bites from him and will slap him meh..... definitely will cry and go around looking for shelter from whoever meh...... the terrible two stage so jialat meh.
Ting,
ha ha ha, dun think kena accident will expect a gal lah, my Jayden also accident baby mah and is A BOY.... kee kee...is just another old grandmother myth lah.
linda- wah sounds like terrible twos!! cannot imagine aldan lidat n i gt to manage the younger one.
jenn- usu lidat bring them out to play, no need slp one. hahah... last sat i brot aldan to da vinci exhibition n thn to sci ctr. he was enjoyin himself n refused to nap too. only late afternn cannot tahan thn KO.
haha, he must be tinkin hw cm bday boy gt no cake!
aiya, i hoping mah. hehe.... i wan a gal! hahahah
jenn- usu lidat bring them out to play, no need slp one. hahah... last sat i brot aldan to da vinci exhibition n thn to sci ctr. he was enjoyin himself n refused to nap too. only late afternn cannot tahan thn KO.
haha, he must be tinkin hw cm bday boy gt no cake!
aiya, i hoping mah. hehe.... i wan a gal! hahahah
jenn,
wow... that's good.
inez either home or school also very notti, i should said she is very self centered than notti lah. then she is the type of gal that when she wnt or do something, she must get it right, otherwise she will throw trantum and start to cry and whin.
hahah... Jayden must be think how can you forget giving me the cake.... so cute...
crystal,
the book i am reading is called "How to talk so kids will listen & Listen so kids will talk"
i just started reading. recommended by my friend who study child psycology.
good if only you practice and i personally think that you really must have the kind of time and patience to see long term result.
i read and practise their method now.
newbbi/ting,
dunno leh. but i read in mag and internet, they said that actually how the terrible 2 comes abt is because at this stage kids are trying to tell you something and start to explore everything and anything. then when they want something they cant express or when we dun understand, we just brush them off, that's where they are disappointed and start to throw trantrum.
so after i read the article, i slowly realised its true and realised actually there is no such things as terrible 2 if we try to understand our kids needs and feeling.
also, for beating/bitting and scratching another person is because they are defending themselves or because they are angry with something.
this theory i am still trying very hard to digest cos i dunno if inez is under this condition.
wow... that's good.
inez either home or school also very notti, i should said she is very self centered than notti lah. then she is the type of gal that when she wnt or do something, she must get it right, otherwise she will throw trantum and start to cry and whin.
hahah... Jayden must be think how can you forget giving me the cake.... so cute...
crystal,
the book i am reading is called "How to talk so kids will listen & Listen so kids will talk"
i just started reading. recommended by my friend who study child psycology.
good if only you practice and i personally think that you really must have the kind of time and patience to see long term result.
i read and practise their method now.
newbbi/ting,
dunno leh. but i read in mag and internet, they said that actually how the terrible 2 comes abt is because at this stage kids are trying to tell you something and start to explore everything and anything. then when they want something they cant express or when we dun understand, we just brush them off, that's where they are disappointed and start to throw trantrum.
so after i read the article, i slowly realised its true and realised actually there is no such things as terrible 2 if we try to understand our kids needs and feeling.
also, for beating/bitting and scratching another person is because they are defending themselves or because they are angry with something.
this theory i am still trying very hard to digest cos i dunno if inez is under this condition.
pierced,
i see..no wonder lor..poor you..hows megan? missed her lots..hee
I just bot 2 toys, hmm, quite big lor, but its nice cos its the collection of 35 designs =)..hee
All,
anyone wants to bring their toddlers to mygym for FOC trial this coming sat at 9.55am at Marina square? Cos i book a place for charlotte but I am still coughing so wan to give it a miss. Anyone wants to take over?
i see..no wonder lor..poor you..hows megan? missed her lots..hee
I just bot 2 toys, hmm, quite big lor, but its nice cos its the collection of 35 designs =)..hee
All,
anyone wants to bring their toddlers to mygym for FOC trial this coming sat at 9.55am at Marina square? Cos i book a place for charlotte but I am still coughing so wan to give it a miss. Anyone wants to take over?
hello hello...
me these few days work from home but hor it also mean no time to log in cos i gotta manage Andrea who is hovering around me like a busy bee..... haha...
talking about terrible 2s.... Andrea is already in that stage. What Linda say about them expressing themselves and when we don't understand they throw tantrums is correct... Andrea will scratch me or bite her daddy when we disturb her or when we refuse her requests.... other than that, she is ok....
me these few days work from home but hor it also mean no time to log in cos i gotta manage Andrea who is hovering around me like a busy bee..... haha...
talking about terrible 2s.... Andrea is already in that stage. What Linda say about them expressing themselves and when we don't understand they throw tantrums is correct... Andrea will scratch me or bite her daddy when we disturb her or when we refuse her requests.... other than that, she is ok....
Morning ladies..
Jenn,
oh dear...is it becos of the weather?
Now alot of ple coughing away, I am one of them lor..hiaz...1wk liao still like that, more phelgm, like getting worst. Just listen to radio this morning, they said now out of 10, 9 hv h1n1 virus cos of the common flu..
Daphne,
really?Haiz, I tink soon charlotte will be like that...When is ur EdD?
Jenn,
oh dear...is it becos of the weather?
Now alot of ple coughing away, I am one of them lor..hiaz...1wk liao still like that, more phelgm, like getting worst. Just listen to radio this morning, they said now out of 10, 9 hv h1n1 virus cos of the common flu..
Daphne,
really?Haiz, I tink soon charlotte will be like that...When is ur EdD?
morning ladies,
daphne,
agree loh, at home = no time. worst then in office right?
jenn,
its very common for cough/phlegm and flu especially now with the H1N1 then also the fact that gg to ccc also one of the factor.
btw, Jayden ok likes the gift. just a small token.
newbbi/jenn,
ya loh, very scary hor, the H1N1 is spreading everywhere. so scare to bring inez out.
so now we really minimize gg to crowded places.
also i so scare till when with inez i will avoid walking near to any clinic.
who knows, this ppl just out of the clinic can be of the H1N1 carrier. hahahah...
daphne,
agree loh, at home = no time. worst then in office right?
jenn,
its very common for cough/phlegm and flu especially now with the H1N1 then also the fact that gg to ccc also one of the factor.
btw, Jayden ok likes the gift. just a small token.
newbbi/jenn,
ya loh, very scary hor, the H1N1 is spreading everywhere. so scare to bring inez out.
so now we really minimize gg to crowded places.
also i so scare till when with inez i will avoid walking near to any clinic.
who knows, this ppl just out of the clinic can be of the H1N1 carrier. hahahah...
Linda,
Ya loh... i know... his cough is so stubborn to go away... i want J to recover faster so that I can switch to TCM for him to have a healthier body.
Think this round just go to PD for their medicine cos hv been seeing dr lee and dr lily for quite some times, the cough keep come and go until me also very peck jetz
Ya loh... i know... his cough is so stubborn to go away... i want J to recover faster so that I can switch to TCM for him to have a healthier body.
Think this round just go to PD for their medicine cos hv been seeing dr lee and dr lily for quite some times, the cough keep come and go until me also very peck jetz
newbbi,
adult still can said out if not well. but toddler will be the ones suffering loh.cos they cant express themselves.
jenn,
ya... if go GP for 2 to 3 times never recover i usually goes to PD leow. inez the other time since day 4 sick for almost 5 mths, cough/phlegm/fever and running nose.finally kena pneumonial, after x-ray results. then on anti-biotic, then slowly recover. all in, she takes abt 6 mths to so call fully recover.
took her go TMC, just finished the medicine. might go next week again.
i also avoid giving her fish, egg, chicken and all the heaty stuff, biscuit and cereal inclusive. only this mth then slowly giving back all these food to her.
adult still can said out if not well. but toddler will be the ones suffering loh.cos they cant express themselves.
jenn,
ya... if go GP for 2 to 3 times never recover i usually goes to PD leow. inez the other time since day 4 sick for almost 5 mths, cough/phlegm/fever and running nose.finally kena pneumonial, after x-ray results. then on anti-biotic, then slowly recover. all in, she takes abt 6 mths to so call fully recover.
took her go TMC, just finished the medicine. might go next week again.
i also avoid giving her fish, egg, chicken and all the heaty stuff, biscuit and cereal inclusive. only this mth then slowly giving back all these food to her.