(2005) Brides of year 2005

Gd morning, all
Newbbi,
Thanks for ya concern. J had fully recovered. Today going to the ccc.

Last visit @ gynae, me took the 1st dose for the cervical cancer vaccination...within 1/2 yr cannot get preggie (was the warning)... ha ha ha.. next month going for the 2nd dose, then dec going for the 3rd dose...
 


Jenn,
Glad to hear that J recover liao =). We still can take e cervical cancer jab? Cos i tot we over e age liao dats y din take leh...the jab ex hor?
 
Newbbi,
Yap... we can still take the jab as long NOT AS OLD AS 40 bah... ha ha ha...
3 jabs cost $450 ... supposed must sign as a package, but i request to pay as per jab... think as i referred 2 friends to my gyane, he allow such flexible payment bah, if not by right, each Jab (if no package) is $200 .....
 
It protects against HPV (Human Papilloma Virus) Type 16 & 18, the 2 types that accounts for almost 75% of all cervical cancers.

Vaccinated women will still have to undergo regular pap smears to detect the other 30 per cent of cervical cancers that are caused by another estimated 30 strains of virus, but the vaccine should cut their overall risk by two-thirds,
 
Mornin all =) aldan super jealous again cos another new bb came. He was cryin non-stop for 20 mins! Til I went up n carried him n he was sobbin away. This boy!! he must be tinkin hw cm more n more bbs comin when he used to be the only one!!

Jenn- u plannin to ttc? Heheh…. I heard abt the jab too, stil tinkin if I shd go for it.
 
ting,
poor aldan...he feels too many bbs sharing his teacher's attention liao... Hows e gymbroee trial?

Me also tinking abt the jab cos was supposed to take e jab last year but I told I am too old for it, thats y i drop this idea..Now that after Jenn has mentioned, I tink I will consider to go..Ex but at least reduce the risk..
 
Newbbi- yalor. Esp when his fav teacher carried another bb, he wil scream n tug at her leg.
The trial ok lor. I feel abt the same. Hahah…

Daphne- I took fish oil thru out my preg…..
 
Daphne,
Me took fish oil thru out my preggie and breast feeding too
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BTW, have u went for your detailed scan? Know the gender of your bb oleidi?
 
Ting,
No lah, me not ttc, hence I opt for the Jap first..cos gyane warn tt cant get preggie for half year if I confirm want the jab.....hb 100% sponsor the jab, so i take lah.... ha ha ha

After taking the 3 dose of jab, i need to go for pap smear only once every 2 years... so count count, still quite worth it bah.... ha ha ha..can choose to jab at your hand, or butt !!! kee kee
 
Daphne,
will feel nausea when smell fish? hmm... cos hor, fish oil has DHA leh, good for our bb's brain development wor..I believe this cos last time our mummies, where got take fish oil de..Now kids are so clever cos when their mummy were expectign them, they took supplements =)..

Ting,
oh dear...poor aldan..feeling jealous leh..
Not going to sign aldan for any classes?

Charlotte started her 1st lesson at Kindermusik yest. When stepped into the classroom, go eheheh, when the teacher passed them instruments to play, she ok le, can crawl to the front of e teacher and sit there to listen..so cute =)..
 
jenn- wah so gd ah. ur hb sponsor the jab!

newbbi- no leh.. nt intendin to at the moment. since gona put him at ccc this oct, jus let him learn frm there. dun wan him to be loaded w too much.
hw much is the kindermusik package? our ccc offerin it to the younger kids too but response nt reali gd. tink bit too ex le. haha
 
jenn, detailed scan will be end of this month.... gynae say likely to be a girl again but she not sure also so say wait till the detailed scan and see again....
 
Ting,
ya lor, must let him learn hor...which cc u putting him? PCF? Tink its $200+ cos I onli paid for the last 2 lessons of this term b4 i decide will conti anot =)..See how charlotte is doing lor but hb feels waste of $$ ..hiaz..

DAphne,
So excited hor..Just saw andrea's blog..Its nice to see u preggi with ur tummy lor..Makes me recall that time wuite afew mummies here expecting..hehe
 
Dear all,
Caitlyn's 1st birthday celebration is on 05th July, right? Do you think might clash with Aston's bb shower boh (DOB is 10/06/09)..... hmm... we shld wait for Jam's sms bah.
 
Newbbi- stil tinkin… my plc there gt a few ccc, I only chk out pcf…. Same lah, my hb also feel waste of money to send to these classes!

Jenn- ya hor… nw tat u mention! ytd I went my fren’s bb full mth.. her 3rd child. No. 1 gal, no. 2 boy thn this one gal. all were sayin hv another one boy thn jus nice. Hahahha… but her hb was like NOOO… one more n he wil lie flat on the ground. lol
 
Ting,
ha ha... 3 very tight on finanical lei..... i cant imagine I have 3..hv to file for bankrupty meh... ha ha ha... I also think one boy one girl is just nice liew...... must close factory after that...
 
jenn- yalor.. my fren actuali wanted to close shop le since 1 gal 1 boy liao but who noes later on heard they tryin for no. 3. hahah.. their boy v notti leh, snatchin toys frm aldan n scoldin him! v cheeky also. she said gt once, he did sth wrong n this aunty was tellin him off n wanted to report to his parents. he told her 'aunty, dun lidat leh, u so pretty n nice, i am sure u wil nt wan me to be scolded rite!' faintz!!!! imagine tat comin frm a 4yo!
 
Ting,
ahyo, 4yr old speaks like that? can faintz lor...

Jenn,
saw here, thats my ideal plan..but I got a feeling my #2 will be a girl still =)...duno y lor, just got this feeling..hee
 
Ting,
Wa liew, 4 yr old can talk like that??? If is Jayden, sure sir-pa him loh.... I wouldn give him a chance to talk something like that......

Newbbi,
ha ha.... not preggie and still go such feel??? Fast fast tcc lah..and we see if your feel is accurate boh.... ha ha ha
Maybe is a boy and ur inlaw will be super happy liew
 
ya i was like ?!??!? when i heard tat. he's reali a super cheeky boy! even tell the mum, he gt a gf in sch! she buey tahan him, duno hw to handle

jenn- so if ur nxt one is a boy, wil u go for no. 3? hehe

newbbi- i also gt a feelin my no. 2 is a boy! hahahha... jus tat feelin rite... hehehe
 
Ting,
No loh..... "Close factory"... 3 cannot handle, by then must definitely get a maid meh....

Talking abt maid... last weekend Hk got a terrible maid who crop her employer into 100 over pcs..... simply crazy meh... the maid kill her employer cos the employer refused to let her go out.........
 
Jenn,
i also hesistating to ttc now..cos there are so many things to consider, my studies - if ttc now, strike, then hv to defer, by then hb graduated liao..then scarli i no mood to study liao..If ttc now,i feel i din spend enough time wit charlotte lor. I wan to give her my 100% attention...

Ting,
wow...hehe..we same same..
 
Newbbi,
Ya, cos is very difficult to study and preggie at the same time... after the NB is out, sure no mood to continue ..then waste of time, effort and $$....
 
Jenn,
nowadays maid bery scary...true lor, dats y i considering now...then I duno if my mil can handle if got #2, tink she ping san soon..soemtimes complain to me say she no rest, say char dun wan to sleep etc...I buay tahan cos got once she said charlotte stupid cos duno how to walk!!.. haiz..
 
Newbbi,
Is char sleeping with u or ur MIL huh... if sleeping with MIL, of cos is very tired...cos hv to wake up when char make any sound loh...hence I never request my mum to take care for me at night.....

But hor, cannot walk is not STUPID lei, is just slow and every baby is different mah...... Must tell her tt... NO ONE want anyone to say our kid is stupid loh...is very hurting...and she is saying her own granddaughter lei.... must tell ur MIL - MIND HER WORDS bah.... but still hv to let ur hb to talk to her... cos is his mother mah. Easier to communicate?
 
Morning ladies..

Jenn,
Ya lor, char is sleeping with my MIL lor...cos our room, if wan to put another mattress, then hv to remove the bedframe lor...so since charlotte has been sleeping with mil from young, we just keep it that way lor..But now is our sch holidays so every fri evening she will go bk and sun nite comes back =).

Ya lor, I hear liao so hurting leh. I told my hb and he said his mum is like that, bery straight forward de. But got once, he say his mum back, say every kid is different lor..If learn to walk fast, then will talk at a later stage.

Normally if I hv any comments or wat, i will tell my hb, and let him go talk to his mum lor..Its easier but sometimes I guess guys are hot tempered, end up like he talk too loud as if scoldign his mum then i feel so bad..haiz..

There was once they agrued abt keeping half of the fruits like pear in the fridge and then next day mil will cut away e top and give it to charlotte. I am very particular abt wat char eats so when I saw the half-cut pear left in the fridge without covering, without puitting in a clean plastic bag, i really jumped. Told my mil but she say nvm de, jsut cut away e top can eat liao. So i told hb i dun wan char to get tummy upset, then later we more mafan. SO he went to talk to her while I was in the room. End up they talk bery loudly, and mil was stubbon. Finally my hb has to use the word " charlotte is my daughter, I dun want her to eat the half cut fruits like that!". Hiaz..Sometimes on and off she will leave half cut fruits in the fridge but in a clean plastic bag lor..I made sure to check e fridge every evening, if got half cut ones, i will finish it myself.hiaz.
 
morning all..

been busy..

daphne - i took ZERO supplements when i was preg with caitlyn.. haha.. so unfair hor.. haha... but she's okie leh.. she can call 'mama', 'daredare' (for daddd), 'nainai', 'gorgor' by liek 10.5 mth..haha.. even faster than isaiah lor.. n she managed to walk a few steps without assistance.. so i think e fish oil din make tt big a dif?? haha.. consoling myself??
 
Mornin all =)

Jenn- hahah… I also gona close shop aft 2 thou did consider 3 but gonna be tough. My hb also say 2 is enough le!
Wah lao, the maid so crazy!!! Jus cos employer dun let her out!! Hear so many stories of maid until reali scare.

Newbbi- maybe let char slp w u at nite? No doubt is tirin but at least let ur mil take a break since she helpin in the day le. hai, sure to hv disagreements esp when cm to ILs……

Crystal- aldan stil yet to call us lor! Only word he says so clearly is BALL niah n mum mum meanin to eat, nt callin me. Everyday drill to him, call me mama n my hb papa… hahha.. stil waitin for the day!!
 
Good morning, all....
Newbbi,
I agreed with Ting, maybe you shld let Char sleep with u at night..cos is very tiring for an elder to take care of a bb for 24hours...they also need rest loh... no doubt we working also tiring, but taking care of a bb is even more tiring......

At least if u let ur MIL have enough sleep, she can also hv more energy to take care during the day time..... u take care during weekend by youself, u shld be able to feel the tiriness loh...

As for the fruits, is best not to leave it to the next day in the fridge, cos Fridge got gas and will oxident the fruit which might cause stomach upset or LS... so ur hb talked to his mum is right...sometimes as a DIL very difficult to "talk".. especially the tone might not be so good....
 
Ting,
Not to worry lah, cos Aldan is an early walker, hence he might be a slow talker...dun worry much
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Just continue to talk to him everyday....
 
crystal, hee....... my SIL also told me she never take fish oil at all.... and both her children also very smart..... the 4 year old can really talk like adult can lor.... so i tend to think that it's only the gynae wanting to push the pdts to us lor..... hee...... cos till now i'm still dreading to pop that pill into my mouth.... like this morning, i haven't took out my calcium pills but yet after breakfast i already like wanna burp and vomit ...... cannot imagine if i have to take the fish oil....

newbbi, actually hor, i think your MIL doesn't mean it when it comes to criticizing your gal.... and do remember that with a lack of sleep, they can get pretty cranky just like the baby.... and adults do more things while looking after the baby.... my mum will also tell me why my gal so short lah or so slow lah still cannot say sentences etc.... i hear already of cos not happy but then as my hb pointed out to me that it's cos my mum is concerned and that's why she voiced it out but i guess when it comes to words, different pp use it differently.....
then my gal now also sleeps with my mum so my mum every night complain to me how naughty my gal is and every morning complain to me how tired she is which i can understand cos looking after a toddler is really difficult esp when they hit the terrible 2s.... one wk of bbsitting my gal i already want to raise white flag somemore my mum.... so i think sometimes we just gotta be more understanding towards them...
as for the cut fruits, i guess it's no harm lah cos sometimes i see my maid just leave the cut fruits on a plate in the fridge and without covering and she also just cut away that first layer and let my gal eat.... i think we can't protect their stomach fully from virus and just let it be..... haha intro a bit of bacteria to them lor..... it can help build their immunity system too..... so relax ya and don't let such small issues spoil your r/s with your MIL.... afterall it's the hb that will suffer......
 
Jenn- no leh, aldan is nt walkin yet! Can only take few steps niah. He walks like a drunkard. Hahah… nt reali steady yet. Duno isit cos too heavy? Haha

Daphne- my hb did comment tat y need to take fish oil. He doesn’t reali believe in takin supplements. But I KS lah, took every single pill tat my gynae instructed.
 
Daphne,Newbbi
U know hor, from the day 1 my mum help me to take care of Jayden...she oleidi told me that at night is my duty to take care of Jayden so that she can have rest...cos she is old and do not want to tired out herself. Now I had send Jayden to ccc, I can see that my mum is more relived and she look more energetic...unlike last time...

Further we do not have a maid.. so I guess at night, no matter how tired I am, i will still take care of Jayden.... got times I also lack of sleep and keep vomit in the office...but as time they are not so cracky, I am able to get at least 7hours sleep ....
 
jenn, actually i wanted my girl to zzz with me so that my mum can have proper rest too but hor, my hb tends to throw temper when andrea scream / cry in the middle of the night and then wants to be carried.... she has this habit recently... dunno why..... and then that time hb was working in bank and 100% attention needs to be given to the financial market and given that he already sleep so late and has to wake up so early so if andrea zzz with us, it will be very tiring for him so we decide to put andrea to zzz with my mum but on fri and sat, she will zzz with us lor.... and it's really tiring....
 
Ting,Jenn,
Ya lor, i also feel that at nite we take care easier... My hb already spoken to my mil on the cut fruits liao..seems its improving lor.. hope everything will be ok..

Daphne,
agreed lor...tks ya =)... Do u feel this pregnancy diff from #1?
I guess andrea is starting to feel jealous lor, thats y keep wanting u all to carry her leh...

bluegenie,
morning =)..
 
newbbi- so u tell ur mil u take care of char at nite lah thn she can hv a gd rest n concentrate more on takin care of her in the day =) char stil wakes up for milk at nite?

daphne- andrea wil stil wake up in the nite? i wonder when aldan can slp thru.... he did a few times only. wil stil wake up cryin in the nite. v interupted slp for me =(
 
bluegenie,
ya lor, just came bk frm warehouse..how are u?

Ting,
nope, charlotte last feed is at 8pm+, latest 9pm then KO til next morning ard 7am. But sometimes throughout e nite, she will cry for her tutu cos dropped out frm her mouth. She has been sleeping on her tummy since mths ago lor, so soemtimes too tired til e tutu also dropped ;p.

But i worried if i tell her that, I scare she will tink negatively, u know older ple lor..

U still latch aldan to sleep?
 
newbbi- so gd!!! aldan's last feed at 930pm but only wil slp ard 11pm thn wake up at least once cryin n needs to be pat bk to slp. he managed to kick the habit of latchin to slp! nw jus put him on the bed n pat him n he wil slowly zzz...
oh u dun take out the pacifier once she is in deep slp? hw long does char nap in the day?
u jus tell her nicely or thru ur hb? tink she wil apprec the gd nite slp!
 
Ting,
hee..oh dear...is it he still hungry? cos last feed i give charlotte 240ml BR + FM,sometimes she can onli finish til 200ml. But still she will sleep til morning. Good lor, u got give him pacifier?

Nope, i dun take out her pacifier, i tink now she quite dependent on the pacifier liao..i also abit worried cos once she find e tutu dropped out, she will cry with her eyes closed..

Actually depending on my ger de..sometimes she nags frm 11am-1pm, sometimes 10am-11am, then after her lunch, she will nap from 3pm til 5pm or 4pm to 6pm lor...sometimes onli sleep for an hr =)..But now sun she has to attend class at 1pm, guess her morning naps are nomore, onli can nap in the car, then after lesson can nap lor...hee..

Mayb lor, need to discuss with hb also..When my sch term starts, then we will hv lesson twice a week again, haiz...
 


newbbi- i gv him 180ml for his last feed. anythg more thn tat, he cant finish leh. but smtimes if he slp real late thn wil gv him another botl to make him slp. depends de, at times he wil spit out his pacifier n cry even louder!
maybe u can try take out her tutu when she slp. if nt too dependant on it, v difficult to quit when she gets older. n heard no gd for the development of their teeth too. i'm actuali qte happy tat aldan dun wan the pacifier himself. haha
aldan can nap up to 3 hrs in the day. but wkends lesser cos he like noe both my hb n i ard n wil bring him out. haha! tink he slp little for his age. only like 8hrs at nite n 3 hrs in the day or lesser...
 

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