(2005) Brides of year 2005

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Jam,
The website u posted, most of the dress are from either CCT or JE551 lei... u want to buy meh ????

My hb oso dun give me any jia yong lah... me working, what for need jia yong..further each mth, we are putting $$ into 2 joint acct , 1 for our house expense, another is for Jayden... where got extra $$ for my jia yong lei ????
 


caitlyn, my PIL oso hv ask $$ fm hb apart fm the mthly jia yong to them...my PIL oso same as yr PIL no working so no income...but lucky my hb still hv sis to help up abit loh...so yr hb is eldest huh??
 
jam - the best part is my FIL is still working and they got rental income ffrom their own flat.. in total maybe they got 1k disposable income (totally for themselves to spend on)a month which to me is quite a lot n yet they eating into their savings?! they dun ask for money but sometimes my hb will ask them and they'll say they eating into their savings.. yup my hb is e eldest.. his bro will be graduating from SIM this yr.. but another long story there.. scared i bore u gals with all my complaints! haha
 
jenn, izzit those dresses fm there huh...i din know wo...tot the prc quite ok de...hehe

tink nowadays bth hb & wife working i oso dun c the nid to give jia yong loh...if hb earn more & want to give mi i don mind...but hardly hv more $$...everything increase but salary no increase!! can onli wait f him to strike TOTO or 4D then can give mi extra!
 
jam- my hb pays for almost all the things in the hse even the car also so i dun expect him to gv me jia yong. i only trf sm money to him every mth n tats it! he says i v shiok, can stay 5rm flat, got car but dun hv to pay much! haha

caitlyn- my ILs are self-sufficient but nt my parents. i gv them more allowance thn wat my hb gv to his parents.
ya tink u shd! ofce job thn gv tuition lor. reali nao fang le? i dun mind if u wan send to me. haha!
 
caitlyn, since they stay in yr hse liow do u increase their allowance as in they help to look aft yr boi?? or u reduce their allowance?? do u think nx time when yr bil start work will u get some allowance fm him as he stay at yr plc??
 
ting, same lor, mi hb oso complain i dun need to pay for his car, plus flat comin oso he will pay, most bills he oso pay. say i very shiok too!

mi ILs are the ones that need to be dependent on him. i worry that nx time when they sick or older got heavier burden on him coz they dun have sense of $$ one. always spend wadever they have and take more fr him.
 
ting, so aft u not working u got to ctrl yr spending...tink yr hb got to pay f so many things dun tink the jia yong f u will b as much as wat u earn de...like my sis she say she njoy working & dun like to ask $$ fm hb loh..she can spent wat she earn!
 
jam- of cos i dun expect him to pay me wat i'm earnin nw lor. we figured if we put bb in other forms of care, it's another form of exps n since i dun earn tat much. wil be beta tat i quit n take care lor. i wil take up part time job also to earn sm income. but after wrkin for so long, it wil be nice to take a long break n stay at home! hahha
 
Jam,
Aiyo, my hb always buy toto but never strike lei, so me oso have to wait for many many years so that i can get some jia yong huh ????
 
jam - we din increase n also din decrease.. coz they have rental income.. n we pay for EVERYTHING in e hse.. we give them $500 a month purely to buy food coz MIL cooks.. everything else we bao ka liao.. as for my BIL.. my PIL v funny one.. they say when he start work, dun want to take money from him as he wun have much money?! PUI lor.. tt time once my hb started work, they also take e $$ he gave them n he was also paying off his own tut loan.. his bro owes us abt $15k for school fees and when my MIL heard it was a LOAN, she was DISAPPOINTED in my hb n said why must pay him back when THEY paid for my hb's NUS.. PUI again.. hb took loan n paid them back watever they paid for lor.. then my BIL not keen to stay with us i think so he n my PILs feel tt once myBIL starts work, they'll move back to their own place.. with e loss of e rental income, i dun see how we can survive.. but i told hb liao if they really want to move back, we WUN increase our jia yong n my BIL shall shoulder the burden of the other house.. let him learn lor.. always think it's so easy for us to yang a hse!! sorry i v lor sor hor
 
Ting,
Maybe after staying at home for too long, u want to go out to work asap and spend ur $$ as u wish... need not ask $$ from hb for everything....
 
caitlyn, how come yr PIL like dat wan huh?? they dote yr BIL huh?? of course if he start to work he shd oso contribute some $$$ how can everything rely on u'll...yr hb shd tell his parents loh...his oso hv $$ burden leh...on flat, car & kids leh...how can they b so selfish..i understand yr situation oso...my hb dun earn much but hv to pay f my PIL medicals fees so i tell him if u realli not enought of $$ shd juz tell them loh..cos during dat few mths i oso dao tia my $$ to hb cos he say v siong...i tell hb since yr parents hv $$ to loan us f us to reno our hse so they shd hv $$ wat...lucky we din take a singly cents fm them when we reno our hse!
 
caitlyn,
Yap, HB finally agreed to hold in chalet, So we will hire 1 BBQ chef (for 3 hours) to do all the BBQ work and oso some catering.....

Right now, still cant book the chalet as the date is only open until April'08

How abt u ? Where u gotta to hold for isaiah's 1 year party ?
 
jam - i also dunno y they like tt.. but i find they dote on my BIL more.. maybe he's like e baby of e family since he's younger?? i also find they v selfish..n tt time FIL said sth like 'ni men ye bu shi hen hui shen qian de ren' i was so angreeee coz how to shen qian when all my $$ goes to u.. my hb noes i not happy abt e situation but i also noe he can't do anything abt it.. he says his parents are e yang er fang lao type then when they were younger his parents everything also give their children type so now he must repay lor.. but he angree abt their lack of budgetting skills also..
 
jenn, wow i nv heard b4 to hire BBQ chef but gd idea oso as in yr guest won't nid to do it themself...so juz njoy & eat...izzit ex to hire BBQ chef??
 
jenn- i nt the career minded kind, wan to climb up the corporate ladder. i even tot of takin up sm childcare cos n take care of other bbs at home! hahah
of cos got own money to spend is the best liao. tats y i tinkin to take up sm flexi part time job n earn sm income.
 
ting - nowadays not easy to take care of other ppl's children.. i thot of tt too but if the child get 1 scratch only ah, the parents will scream bloody murder lor!
 
Caitlyn,
Most probably either Down Town east or aloha... will book once the date is available online.

Jam,
Ya lor, the chief cost $20.00 per hour. Minimum must engage for 3 hours. I think is ok lor, cos everyone will feel comfty as they dun have to do the BBQ themselves and can enjoy more
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caitlyn- ya i tot of tat too. sm more i nt those experienced kind, who wil fang xin leave to me n take care? haha. but i am so sick of ofce jobs alrdy. wan to do sth diff leh...
 
Ting,
Emm, taking care of other bb at home is quite good lei... the current mkt price is $500 (bb not staying overnight), for bb staying overnight will be $800...

Oso quite a good income , kee kee
 
oh no, mi mil juz pop in to look at megan. *stress* she's always disturbing her when sleeping.. i darn scared she wakes up den i got prob patting her to slp again.
 
Pierced,
Yap... me start to think and plan liew... hope i am able to make it a mickey mouse theme cos Jayden love mickey mouse, whenver we on the TV to let him see the disney clubhouse, he will laugh/smile when he saw mickey mouse... kee kee
 
jenn - i will be trying to book aloha.. if cannot think i will just hold at my hse.. downtown east e chalet v small.. hee.. but i can't imagine e amt of things i gotta lug there n lug back.. most likely will ask for red packets as gifts! haha..

ting - hee.. for me i i wanna go do office job! thot of being a childcare teacher n work e 7-2 shift but my hb thinks it's madness as the pay is so pathetic
 
ting, hee...not that easy to take care of other bbs... mi auntie kana forced to take care of mi 2 cousins bbs, both diff in 1 mth only. wah lau, i pity her leh.. somemore the 2nd daugther insist cant hire maid to help out.
i look aft 1 bb already super tired out, further more with mi mum's help.
 
pierced,
ha ha, me have not set that requirement lah... but i think no need lah... just that the cake has to be a mickey mouse bah......

Shld see how lor, priority is to book the chalet first...
 
jenn, hee...can, i only wear mickey mouse ears... i got the one fr disneyland. megan can be minnie mouse. keke...

den nx time mine can be Hello kitty theme
 
pierced - wah if u have HK theme n force jenn n family to go in HK uniform, they must find some way to "erase" their mouth liao! haha..

jenn - i no mickey mouse ears but got shrek ears.. can anot?
 
caitlyn,
so urs will be Pooh theme..

Jenn,
Yours will be mickey mouse theme

so when its my bb's birthday, will be Hello Kitty theme, yeah! =D.
 
hallo ladies.. long time no chat here liao.
how's everyone?

caitlyn, when u wanna collect your love letters?

newbbi, how's r u? recovered frm flu already?

Will we be having a CNY gathering? long time no meet ler.
 

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