(2005) Brides of year 2005

[caitlyn]

ting - keke.. i gotta ask my hb.. but i dun mind opening mine.. he sld be okies lah.. just tt my hse v messy lah.. with a bb very hard to pack!! haha.. best is one of us with bb open hse i guess.. at least got all e diapers etc! keke

 

[ting0502]

caitlyn- yalor! keke... thn can gather all the bbs tog on tat day =D

 

[caitlyn]

ting - yuppers.. all e bb and all e preggies and all e soon to be preggies! n if come my hse, think u gals will be amazed at how many things i bot but nvr used!! wahahaha.. =)

 

[caitlyn]

everyone busy ah? hee.. doubt i can chat much later.. tody i alone with isaiah.. now he sleeping.. hee..

 

[ting0502]

caitlyn- haha... maybe u can auction off those things? =D i called up my gynae le, she's only available nxt tue earliest. gonna be a long wait!

 

[pierced22]

newbbi, no prob, anyway, we stay so close to one another.

caitlyn, good idea! i dun mind mess la, hee..at least then got all the supplies for the bbs.
i saw ur SMO picts on lyn's blog. so cute! all the bbs gathered tog to take photo.

 

[pierced22]

ting, wah, gotta wait so long till nx wk to see ur gynae.

 

[ting0502]

pierced- yalor! i cant help tinkin if everything's ok anot... wil only fang xin when i hear the heartbeat =D

 

[caitlyn]

ting - dun be too worried! am sure everything will be fine!

pierced - keke.. cute hor.. but it was quite chaotic coz bb started to cry one by one! haha

 

[lingling2]

Ting,
dun be worry, just dunt ake liang things ya...But hor, how many wks then can hear bb's heartbeat?

Ur hb neo hs has to be a monk for 3mths? ;p

Pierced,
hee... =)

 

[jam75]

morning gals, was busy juz now..last nite super tired...sleep ard 9 yet dis mornin still so tired..

 

[jam75]

caityln, gd idea to hv a gathering 1 person hse since got to bring bb along beter to hv gathering at hse loh..

 

[jam75]

newbbi, u so cute leh...u scared ting's hb cannot tahan f 3 mths so got to remind him..kee kee...

 

[ting0502]

caitlyn- cant help but worry... sighz

newbbi- duno leh, tink 6-8 wks bah.. sm say stil can BD leh as long as no spottin lor. wil chk w my gynae again. hehe

 

[jam75]

ting, hee hee.. so dunno is u or yr hb can't tahan hor..but heard ppls say 1st 3 mths beter not leh..wonder u or yr hb will ask yr gynae " Can still bond??" kee kee...if mi i pai say to ask..

 

[ting0502]

jam- haha... unless got spottin or unusual discharge thn cannot. if not, it's fine bah... if i dun ask, tink my hb wil! hahah

 

[watashi]

Hi Hi.. hows everyone?

Ting, CONGRATS!!!!... SO HAPPY FOR U!
do take good care of yourself and enjoy your pregnancy.

Newbbi & Jam, now tat ting has strike, next will be your turn liao. JIA YOU!

 

[jam75]

ting, hmm mayb bah..but tink beter to seek gynae advice beter loh..

 

[ting0502]

thks watashi! i finally made it! keke... such a long wait lor! hee.. yess, nxt wil be newbbi, jam n janf liao!

 

[jam75]

watashi, yesterday my hb say like now most of yr forum fren preggie liow & we r the oldest among u'll yet not yet preggie so getting more stress liow...even another couple dat when HM wif us oso preggie now...

 

[jam75]

watashi, so can handle wif yr boi without CL help boh??

 

[jam75]

ting, btw how's yr MIL & mom reacation when she noes u hv bb huh??

 

[blue_genie]

ting, congrats!!!!

jam, dun stress. let nature take its course la. will come at ur least expected...cheer up!

 

[lingling2]

TIng,
ya lor, I saw..but alot of ple say 1st trim must be careful one lor

jam,
hi ya...wat tiem u reach home yest?

 

[jam75]

newbbi, in the end we tok a cab to my mom plc reach there ard 3pm...cos 2 lazy to take bus..kee kee..dunno izzit bcos fri to cleaning & sat & sun got rush here & there so super tired loh..

 

[lingling2]

jam,
I understand lor..me also feel streesed lor, was abit sad cos only left 3 of us lor...hee...But dun worry, we can make it de...Just jiayou lor..But hor, cannot be stressed...Just leave it to fate actually... =)..We just do our best and thats it...=)..

But ur hb really loves kids lor =).

Watashi,
hee...tks ger...We will JIAYOU one =)...Hopefully our dreams come true...

 

[ting0502]

jam/newbbi- i understand hw u both feel... u both can make it one! rem i took so long thn make it. got to keep perseverin on!
i told my mum this mornin, she shaked my hand n said gong xi! hahaha... n said dun announce 1st, wait til bb is stablised.. hvnt told ILs yet. my hb says wait til 3mths...

 

[ting0502]

thks blue genie =)

 

[lingling2]

jam,
ya lor, can see u bery tired yest lor...Everytime aft hsework is like that one lor...Haiz, my MIl came over to my plc to do hsework yest afternoon before I left for Jenns place leh...said she too bored at home so come over help us do hsework...haiz...

 

[watashi]

Jam, dun be stressed up over the preggie issue... stress will affect your chance of conceiving.
I dun have a CL, my mum did confinement for me. Now my mum is staying with me and with the help of my maid, i actually quite relax and 'eng'.

Yesterday was my maid's first off-day. so i frist time bath my boy and wash his backside.
he normally poo at nite one, dunno y yesterday he poo big time in the afternoon.. so i got to clean and wash his pipi... he seems to know auntie not ard so bully mummy.

ting, yr hb must be very happy also lor?.. for the safety of bb, i think yr hb will ren for 3 mths bah..

 

[blue_genie]

ger2, ur MIL so gd? come and help u do hsework...

 

[jam75]

ting, ya some older ppl say can't announce until the bb is 3 mths loh...but u'll not going to tell yr IL until 3mth time huh?? will they b unhappi bo??

 

[jam75]

newbbi, ya loh...yr IL so gd still help u to do hsework...so yr IL got yr hse key boh?? will she juz come over yr hse as when she feel like??

 

[ting0502]

watashi- my hb like hvnt let the truth sink in lidat! hahah... ytd stil tell me he wan to change bike! tian ah...

jam- tats wat my hb says lah so i jus follow lor...

 

[jam75]

watashi, oic...so yr maid realli in gd help huh?? aft u start work will yr mom still stay at yr plc or u will bring yr boi & maid over yr mom plc...

 

[jam75]

ting, ya loh since dis is wat yr hb say so juz follow loh...yr hb still wanna to change bike?? now got bb liow beter to save loh..everything is $$$ actualli since yr hb got car & wif bb coming soon car is more convenient..he got tink of juz to hv car onli instead to hv bth car & bike??

 

[ting0502]

jam- he's crazy liao... suddenly tell me wan to change bike so his family wil not spot him so easily on the roads! he stil likes to ride but i told him we wun be ridin so often liao esp when my tummy gets bigger... duno him lah!

 

[jam75]

ting, yr hb so funni leh..y he scared his family spot him on e road?? ya loh is true dat u won't take the bike often as now preggie liow..

 

[watashi]

ting, i think guys r like tat. tat time my hb also not very excited and invloved in the beginning. its only until after the 3rd mth, when can see the shape of bb forming up and my tummy start bulging then he starts the wake up his idea...hehe..

jam, my maid is ok... i never give her a to-do list. she set her own routine for the household chores. but i make sure she nap 1-2hrs in the afternoon so tat she wun be so tired when doing nite feed. my mum will still stay with me, but will go over to her house for dinner in the evening.
but now my sis in-law also preg liao.. so dunno wats the arrangement will b after she give birth

 

[ting0502]

jam- cos they duno he bot bk his bike n stil ridin! so everytime pass his parents' plc there by bike, wil be on lookout for his dad's car! haha

watashi- i tot so lor... tink he's scared tat nw goten do everything liao. haha

 

[jam75]

watashi, some how i agreed wif wat u said loh..when stomach start showing tink all hb will b more concern liow.

so when yr SIL bb due?? hmm u mean yr mom got to go back & cook in the evening & aft dat back to yr hse again huh??

 

[jam75]

ting, oic...tink his parents oso worry f him lah..my mom oso dun my niece to take bike loh...cos her bf ride a bike so my mom oso dun like...even my sis oso dun like...say v dangerous loh...actualli i oso feel no secure to take bike..

 

[jam75]

ting, i remember during my vacation job a guy interested in mi but he ride a bike but i dun dare to take so whenever we do on the same shift he wanna to acc hm he will not ride his bike loh...my hb oso know dis guy but till 2dae my hb still don believe i nv take ride on his bike b4...hee hee

 

[ting0502]

jam- ya.. bike reali dangerous but fang bian lor esp when car sent for servicin or wat, got alternative transport n prkg is so much easier n cheaper! he got accident b4 so his dad is dead agst him ridin again. cannot imagine wat wil hapen if he's reali spotted on the road!! my mum also worry for him lor

 

[watashi]

jam, man are visual animal..
current plan is she will go back in the evening together wif my boy and maid so tat my maid can help her wash up after she cooks. then go back home after i finsish dinner. my mum's house is only 1 block away..
sil due in april, but she's not working (china woman). by then ryan will be abt 10mths liao.

 

[jam75]

ting, no wonder his parents against him fm riding a bike loh...

 

[lingling2]

jam,bluegenie,
they have the keys to our hse lor but if she wans come over, she will call one cos I have a inside lock at the back of my main door =)... I feel safer with that lor...hee

Ting,
hee...ur hb scare to do hsework for the next 3mths? heehee...but bo bianz one lor...

 

[jam75]

watashi, oic...since yr sil is not working tink the prob not so big loh..yr boi & maid can go yr mom plc in the morning so at least yr mom can help to keep an eye on yr maid at the same time can oso help yr SIL to take care her bb...

 

[jam75]

newbbi, gd thing dat at least they will give u a call b4 they come if not realli no privacy loh..

 

[lingling2]

ya lor. there was once my FIL,MIL and BIL came over to watch world cup, then hb and I was having steaboat, suddenly got ple open the door, we got shocked lor...after dat I told hb, next time ask them call us 1st b4 coming lor..in case we doing someting else mah...hee...But nw they se,ldom come over liao...Cos sometimes I wan private time with hb on sats, if they come over, I feel so intruded lor...