(2005) Brides of year 2005

caitltyn- hv to ah! no way we can cm up w so much cash! hee

jam- u mean u pay 6k thru 6tmhs instalmts? (1k per mth??) we def hv to pay the package thru instalmts!
looks ur hb is reali ready to be a daddy leh! hee... nxt time u can count on him to take care! keke
 


ting, my hb say nx time we hv bb he can help to take care loh ask mi not to worry...not sure if really hv bb he will help or not...can't trust men 100% loh...

yaloh sure got to pay by instalments if not really heart pain to c 6K gone so fast...deposit is 500/pax so dat we din take up instalment we take up instalement f the bal 5k loh...i don wish to pay debts f too long so usually f tour instalment we opt 6 six mths...
 
ting, yr hb will pay f trip package huh? or individual pay their package?? if yr hb got to pay all than he v siong leh...
 
jam- no lah. of cos i pay for mine! usu wil sign thru his card thn i pay him bk lor..
yalor we also dun like to be in debt for too long. but if we got to pay too much per mth, wil be v siong lor..
 
ting, we got our joint a/c to pay f those things that we sign up f instalement loh..onli tour expense depend who got more $$ than fork up more loh...every mth we got to pay instl loh even my home appliance oso thr instl leh...

ting, tink joey is yr entertinament person rite that newbbi introduce to u..
 
hello gals, mi back from school liao. no one ard liao? hee...

winnie, yup at least know gender can easily buy stuff buy act i didnt really buy much stuff yet. i have some new clothes passed down from a friend coz the sis is working as those supplier so hopefully can have more...heh... so early u look at cot and stuff. i havent start sourcing. waiting for ppl to maybe hand down
 
Dear all,
Me back !!!! Just returned from the clinic, i had my stitches removed... and was given some vitamins and painkillers....
 
jam,
ya lor, he say own bb diff lor...

Pierced,
hi ya...so happy for u cos now can go shop for ger ger stuff liao...hee...

Jam,
u got my sms which I helped Linda to forward ?
 
Newbbi,
I agreed with jam, hb wouldnt dun like kids wan...cos is his own son/daughter mah...when see the physical bb is out, mentality will definitely changed...

Last time, i oso dun feel that bond with jayden when he is still in my womb....ever since he was born, my mentality changed as well...same for my hb.
 
newbbi, yup yup i rcvd if u din tell mi i oso dunno mi got sms..kekekek...

hahaha...my hb wanna to play wif caitlyn's bb so he wanna to go linda's bb shower...aiyo u c caitlyn's bb mei li wu fa dang...
 
Hi jenn, was it painful?? ouch! howz everything now?

newbbi, hee.... ya i've been looking at BPs all the time. but will try not to buy too many stuff yet till later on. very lazy to shop too. anyway, now so convenient so juz get mi mum to buy if really need to. for mi oso not too much since dun have own house yet so no nursery for bb. still wondering whether need to buy cot not.
 
Newbbi,
Basically i didnt do much for this week, as the first 2 weeks, hv to rest as much as possible...

My daily routine is to eat, sleep, watch tv and pump breast milk for my bb, as he refused to latch on...so far, everytime i can pump abt 100ml of breakmilk, have to pump 3 - 4 times per day depends on breast engorgment.....

As he still have slight jaundice, have to bring bb down for in direct sunbath for 10 min @ 9am daily !!!!

However, just last sunday, we bot bb to KKH 24-hr children emergency as my bb have difficulty in breadthing as his nose were strunk with muclers !!!! Went to KKH abt 12am and return home at 3am....the KKH damn slow, they didnt even have priority for a 7 days old infant...... and we waited for more than 1 hour !!!!! the nurse managed to helped him pump some of the muclers...and now he is ok... have to monitor his temperature lor, just in case he caught a cold and fever !!!
 
jam- haha.. we also leh! most of the hsehold things all by instl. wil finish by yr end, left the tv =D

newbbi- oh ya.. i suddenly forgot =D she jus sent me the proposal. nt bad =) most likely engagin her.
i got the sms regardin linda's full mth =)

hey jenn! =)
 
jenn, u still suffer pain huh?? cos u mentioned more painkiller f u loh...so scary...dat dae at watashi's bb shower ting show mi yr bb photo dat photo yr boy realli like his dad...can say photo copy out wan leh...hahhaha
 
Pierced,
ha ha, remove stitches is not painful at all lah, compared to contraction !!!!! kee kee

However, due to the long epi, i am now suffering with some side effects, at times, i cant control my pee, the pee just release against my will.... and for poo poo, i dun have the pain pain feel @ my tummy, everytime when i have the feel, the poo was at the custom liew...so now have to do some control exercise as advised by my gyane...

As for the pain killers which my gyane gave to me was for the tail bone as till now, my tail bone still pain whenever i sit down and sleep !!!!! Need time to heal lor.
 
Ting,
Me oso most of the elect and furniture are by installment, will be finishing by this year Oct... finally can give a break liew..... but i will have to increase the allow to my mum liew..so back to the square wan lah..but at least, clear of debts... kee kee

Jam,
ya lor, now my butt tail bone still pain pain lah.... but this round, gyane gave me stronger painkillers, cos he know i am very scared of pain lah.... kee kee

Ha ha, ya meh, my boy boy really look like hb lor, but he got my nose lah... kee kee... well, bb features do change as they grow up, so hope he will grow to assemble abit like me bah, after all, i carrying him for the last 10mths... kee kee
 
jam, ya, so cute rite..muz 'ren' if not later too many stuff. esp bb grow so fast

hee, jenn, oh ya definitely not painful if compared. now i dunno mi turn how....scared to have epi coz of side effect but thk if i have to be in labour for so long, sigh, sure scream for it. mi mum still can say her time dun even have epi. she dun really like the idea of mi having epi coz say later no feel to push.
 
jenn, hope yr tail bone get receoverd soon loh...cos i noe the pain can realli mk us suffer loh...u don like yr boy to look like yr hb huh?? he is a boy so resemble yr hb is ok wat...my mom oso say bb will change their feature when they grow loh so nx time round when we c him might b diff liow..
 
Jam,
ha ha, being parents really not easy but whenever u see ur bb, will find that is worth it lor...

Can imagine last sunday, when my CL told me tt need to bring bb to hospital, hb simply jumped out from the bed, me just gaped bb's birth certificate and health book, didnt even care image and run out of the house liew....wahahaha
 
jenn, but yr bb better rite?? i dunno when mi bcome mom will hv the same feeling boh?? ppl always say mu qin zhen wei da....dunno mi can bcome wei da mom or not...tink of all the pain going suffer f labour pain so scary loh...
 
jenn, tru true now then we understand how our parents cope with us in the past. i cannot imagine handling a bb all by miself. mi mum previously dun even have CL to help, juz her mum and only to help wash clothes and go market. mi mum did her own cooking. pengz!
 
jenn, cannot control pee is cos after delivery our bladder control loosen liao... not epi effects....me also like this.... so i keep doing kegal exercises now.... but when sneeze, still leak the pee lor.....
btw, you still bleeding? mine like ending leh.... how long do we bleed usually?
 
Pierced,
Actually if u can tahan the pain, then dun opt for epi, must at least know what is contaction feeling, ha ha ha.....

Ya lor, really sir-lu our mothers and grandmum when their times, dun have epi, they ren ren ren to give birth to us !!!! Really very wei da !!!!
 
btw, me bb shower is confirmed to be at mil's place liao..... so now i need to look for catering...
might want to order the eclair and swiss roll... how much in advance do we order? anyone else wanna order? then when u all come, can also collect at the same time.... keke...
 
pierced, i tried with no epi and i failed.... haha.... the pain at 6cm dilation is a killer! it's pain beyond description.... cannot imagine if at full dilation... my hb was looking at the chart and he will prompt me each time he sees the peak coming so that i can be prepared but still cannot in the end.... then at full dilation, he was shocked by the chart! it's volatile - macham stock mkt!
 
Jam,
Thanks, i hope i can recover soon too, just took some pain killers, hope will be better, my CL was advising me to see a chinese saieh if still not recovering.....

As for bb's look, ha ha, of cos, i hope he can have some of my features lah, cos i am his mummy mah.... cannot copy just like his daddy.... no fair !!!!! kee kee


Pierced,
So u engaging a CL boh ??? Or ur mum gotta to help you ??? So far, my mum come over to my hse every sun, helping out to buy some fish bone, and meat ....... then my MIL will bring my CL to Tiong bahru mkt and buy some vegetable, meat on every sat morning !!!!!
 
Daphne,
Do u shower daily ??? I shower daily, cannot tahan the sweating after each meals (Cos lots of ginger).....

Yap, i still bleeding, heard the bleeding can be until 1 mth....but sometimes, there are some fresh red blood, u encounter the same ???? Btw, u went back to remove ur stitches oleidi ????
 
hee...daphne and jenn, ya will wait and see how man! i think mi pain threshold oso not that wei da! so pain dunno how can push??

think order the eclair muz ask newbbi liao. for mi cannot order already. so fat liao, mi weight gain like crazy, but tummy still very small. think the weight go to mi butt and thighs. sigh...

jenn, for mi, will not be having a CL coz mi mum will help mi. should be no prob la since i still staying wif her. heh! can prevent mi MIL from interfering too. so mean ah!
 
daphne, so u mean if natural birth than can't ctrl bladder huh?? so c-section won't hv such prob? my mom oso say doc told her dat she hv been giving natural birth f too many so bladder not dat gd so she sometimes oso can ctrl if wan than muz go & relief can tahan...
 
daphne,
for the SM $$ hor, i IB the money to u but think due to some prob, the transfer didnt go through. I tried twice but keep bouncing. anyway, will transfer thru atm instead to u.will sms u the ref no when i do so.
 
daphne and jenn, so muz do more pelvic exercises now too? even sometime now when i sneeze, i got leaks too. think coz the bb pressing on the bladder that's why but so irritatin.
 
Piered,
ha ha, not mean lah, but is the best that dun ILs dun interfere lor, if not, ur temper will definitely shot up meh ..... kee kee....

Jam,
i tot the bladder problem was due to epi meh...cos i only experienced tt after given birth....anyway, my nurse told me to do squeezing exercise everyday to stop the pee from leaking !!!! so i will start practise from today ya..... and let u folks know if i have success, now my main problem is the tail bone + my poo poo problem !!! sigh

Jam and others,
My bb shower will be hold on 26 Aug 2007 (Sunday)
at depot road hse.....
Please hor, need not buy any present or gifts ...ur presence is deeply appreciate liew....just come, eat, see and carry my bb lah.... kee kee
 
Daphne,
huh...so good huh... how come i still need to go back and remove stitches wan.... sigh, my gyane is behind time ???? kee kee...anyway, without the stitches, i felt beta too.....

Oh, now i am washing hair every alternate days, my CL oso encourage me to wash hair...if not, hair oily, cannot tahah, but the t&c is i must blow my hair fast lor..... anyway, as long can wash hair, i guai guai oblige lah... kee kee
 
hee, jenn, ya lor... esp mi mil is those uneducated kind, she's nice but sometimes cannot take her suggestions so prevent less conflict better.

luckily bb showers on diff days, will try to make time off for it.
 
Daphne,
for me, i sir-lu u liew, can tahan until 6cm dilate, i start my epi when i was 3cm dilate, when gyane want to break my waterbag...... the induce contaction was oleidi killing liew.

Dear all,
Guess what i am doing now, me pumping out my breast milk while chatting...cos milk leaking !!!! kee kee

Btw, just to share, i have regain back to my pre-preggie weight, however, my hips had expanded, i still cant fit in my office skirt even thru i have resume my weight, sob sob
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wow dis mth onli dis wkend no bb shower & rest of Aug wkend got to attend bb shower...u'll all pak kat to give birth on the same timing huh...kekekke

daphne & jenn, yr bb shd b in the afternoon bah?? will try to mk it actualli going f hotel stay check in 25 & check out 26 leh...will talk to hb & try to arrange our timing so dat we can go to both of yr bb shower loh...
 

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