(2005) Brides of year 2005

jam- i went cruise in mar liao. ok lah, i feel it's a nice experience thou its a short getaway. basically jus relax n eat n eat! haha.. there are lots of activities lined up so u wun get bored one. my hb joined in one of the games n won the 1st prize (dinner for 2 at the jap restau) haha
 


jam, maybe the wife's friends also give her the wrong ideas etc..... u know sometimes when women get together and compare and sure got some new ideas etc...... so i think as wives, it's important to know that every individual is different and cannot expect husbands to be like someone's husband etc..... cos the grass is always greener on the other side...
 
ting, we plan to go during school holiday...nov or dec ba...any interest??

newbbi, heard my ppl say hailong bay (not sure abt spelling) got nice scenery & gd seafood loh..
 
jam, i think that's really impt lor..... cos comparison is the stepping stone to a marriage breakdown..... and since married liao, don't expect the person to change cos if the person wants to change, he / she will change already... but then i notice that along the way, we all grow and learn so learn to adapt along the way....
 
Jam,
ya lor, or maybe the wife has too many frenz, so everytime need to go out with her frenz etc lor..

But women loves to compare =)...hee

jam,
seafood....yummy..me missing crabs =)..

Cotton,
duno leh...tink mayne RM3 per pair lor =)...
 
daphne, shd we say adapt or ma mu...kekeke..ya loh like wat u say since married liow got to adapt along the way is hardly can ask a person to change as wat u wan loh...
 
like yesterday, hb was discussing some issues on work with me and about his intention to move on to another role etc ..... given my nature in the past, i would have hounded him for details and ask what's his next moves etc cos i need to have a secure answer on what's coming... and that always irritates him cos i think all he wants is just a listening ear and being supportive of what he wants to do but cos last time he tends to be rash and impatient and i would worry that he would make the wrong decision and i would always end up arguing with him.... but this time round, like he was complaining to me 2 days about and i sort of ask him to just think of it in another way cos i feared it's another rash decision and true enough he ended up being unhappy the whole nite.... so i just kept my mouth shut (though it's tough) and then i didn't ask him about it again and suddenly he opened up again yesterday about the same topic and told me his decision. THis time i told him that it's his career and as long as he knows what he is doing, i'm ok. Then he told me that he don't make any rash decision as with more commitments now (bb and house searching etc), he needs to plan his moves more carefully and actually told me his plans... which surprises me cos i didn't intend to ask in the first place... so thru this, i see that he has grown up in his thoughts and have learnt to see things in a bigger picture.... and i've learnt that sometimes we should really give them some space to breathe and just be there and that's all they need.... so thru this, we all learn how to accommodate to each other better...
 
Newbbi,
i dont think the mittens n booties are cheaper than spore leh..in fact,most of the bb things in spore is cheaper than there..
i dont remember seeing disney items so cheap...
 
jenn, yesterday we win loh...according to MOM we are still not paid to wat we suppose to get as other trading is getting 4 - 5% increment & our managnment is giving us ard 5% niah...so they tell my managment they shd give us compared to other trading they r giving us lesser.
 
jenn, but hor...2dae my coll on half day leave she still dress up nicely tink she is going f an interview cos i saw her bring a folder usually she half day she wear v causal unlike 2dae..hmm don dare to tink if she really resign we got to take her work again....sigh!!
 
daphne, tink sometimes we shd give hb same space f them to decide wat they wan...my hb sometimes ask mi something which i give my opinion end up we will hv some agrument so soemtimes is better to let them decide wat they wan...
 
jam true lor.... last time when hb ask me for opinion, we will end up arguing cos i will push for him to follow my opinion..... so now what i do is i just tell him what i think and the pros and cons and let him decide lor.... but i will also hint that don't be rash in deciding lor...
 
Daphne,
Agreed with you lor, men also needs space to sort out their thoughts...Really hor, sometimes its good to be abit more patience =).

Cotton,
ic...so sun will u be at home? cos maybe I can dropby your place when I on my way to my fenz bb shower at around 1pm like that lor...I can bring the CN stool to show u if u wan...
 
Daphne,
Ur hb and my hb the same, thinking of switching job cos he is not happy with his current coy !!!! I only be a listening ear lor...cos my concern is son is coming out anytime and need a job to secure $$ first....
 
Daphne,
No lah, me not buying the shawl cos i know i wouldnt use it..if i bring my bb out, i will definitely feed him with FM..not BM lor...too troublsome liew.
 
Jenn,Daphne,
my hb also wan to change job lor, he unhappy here...Yest super bad mood lor so i left him alone int he living wtching his favourite sports channel while i watched my DVDs in my room...hee

But he said he will ren cos end of the yr getting bonus liao..so wan to tong til next yr then see how lor...
 
Newbbi
Ya lor, my hb the same.... but now, he have to hang on first (no matter what), as we are in need of $$ now !!!!

So i oso advise him to tong till next year, unless can afford dun want that 2 mths bonus... not worth it, right ????
 
hi all,

went for my check up yesterday.
gynae said that i most prob will pop ard the 23rd that week. so i am starting my ML from 23rd but will take my annual leave on 19 and 20th. praying and hoping that bb will want to come out on 21st.

caitlyn,
be strong. hope everything will smooth for you down the road.
 
linda - thanx for e ang bao.. din have a chance to see u online! wow.. ur turn real soon huh.. jia you! will ur hb be taking leave? who's gonna help u w bb?
 
looks like alot of our hbs wana change job. mine also tinkin too but he waitin for the big payout nxt yr end so goten dong til thn!

caitlyn- tink cos they got promotion tat time. when u plan to go?
 
ting - i thinking of gg in sept.. after e sep skl hols coz i will be on no pay leave mah..

jenn - hahahaa.. dun worry lah.. with epi, e pain is seriously minimal!
 
caitlyn- maybe u can wait til nxt mth thn book since u goin durin non-peak period. sm times they got last min promo. i rem tat time i book less thn 1 mth away.
 
Jenn,
ya lor, ask him ren ren ren lor.... now bb coming out liao, need more $$$ lor..

Caitlyn,
had lunch? ya lor, so now is cotton, Jenn, Daphne,Linda hor....so excited for the 4 of them =)...
 
hi ladies, i just had lunch, may I check with all of you, is it normal to get hungry faster than before?

As for career, i am always in the same stationary place. my my hubby is the one who will job hop. but i think for guys they like to venture out. cos they need to try around before to see what suits them best...
 
ting - now ey supposedly having early bird promo leh.. but still so exp! hmmm.. where did ur sis book her cruise from ah?

newbbi - yupperz, just had lunch.. gg for a nap soon.. always eat then sleep tt's y my tummy not gg away.. haha..

winnie - yuppers.. ur metabolic rate is increasing mah! eat as much as u can.. coz u never noe if morning sickness will strike u.. if it does, u wun be able to eat much n it's very tong ku! so eat, eat, eat!
 
caitlyn, thanks, no wonder, i can eat one meal then by 3 hours is up, i will get hungry leh, so i thot why i keep snacking... my nausea is here already.... if i get too hungry i will start thinking of puking... or some othe time of the day.... but if i keep munching, then i wont get the siap siap taste in my mouth... then i will feel ok.

i worry if i keep eat eat eat, i will put on too much weight leh... cos i am towards the bigger size...
 
winnie - it doesn't matter one.. it's not good to go hungry when preggie.. u snack healthily lor.. hee.. i was terrible + horrible when i was preggie n indulged in chocolates, ice cream etc.. n pt on 20+kg! hee.. but i lost abt 14kg liao.. dun worry abt e wt gain lah.. can worry abt it after birth.. tt's wat i did lah.. hee.. tt time during first tri, toilet bowl was my best fren.. also tis increase in appetite wun last throughout preg one.. so dun worry!
 
caityln, the prob is healthy snack dont attract me leh hee, i snack on snickers heee, can take icecream??? i have desire for it, but i held back not sure if too much sugar or not....

you are so slim, a bit of extra weight no impact heee.

i feel like puking but no puke "touch wood"

may i know when do you tell your boss? i have not told my boss yet, so on monday i was on site, i need to stand the whole morning, then my stomach felt overly stretched....
 
Newbbi,
we arrange on sunday can?
no,3 cents is for 2 way.I paid in total plus taxes is around $250 for both person...
cheap hor...u can consider to go there n stock up ur hk.keke
 
winnie - i din really watch my diet.. just ate watever i wanted coz i was told during confinement cannot eat alot of stuff mah.. haha.. wat's more when preg progresses, u'll feel very hot all e time.. so i eat ice cream n drank cold drinks basically everyday! haha.. i told my boss once i fd out coz i have PCOS n PCOS-er preg tend to be a bit more risky.. so i told him early to prepare him for all e mc i wld be taking during e first tri.. if ur job quite strenuous, good to tell ur boss early as first tri is e most risky period.. dun play play
 
caitlyn, me not likely to cut queue leh... cos gynae said not in the next 2 wks.... or rather next 1.5 wks at least..... but i'm experiencing cramps liao...... so i think braxton hicks is starting to kick in to prepare me for labour liao....
 
daphne - dun be too trusting of gynae's words on delivery.. not always accurate..my thread had a gal whose gynae told her not within e next 1.5 weeks.. the next day, she went to deliver liao! it's bb timing lor.. like me, gynae also din expect action then bb also choose to try to come out
 
Cotton,
I check the fares liao...ya lor, cost abt $240 for 2 pax if fly in Jan lor...but hor, still a long way to go, moreover, if i preggie by then, cannot go liao lor, hopefully...haahaa...

but its still another 6mths to go so hb and i won't be booking yet...During my trip in april, we paid $250+ for 2 pax lor...

Most likely april then they have new series lor..hee

So we cfm on sunday huh? Most likely at 12.30-1pm I go over to you rplace there lor...Meet u at the ropund about lor..will cfm with you the timing again tmr hor =)...

so u wan the CN stool?

Winnie,
hihi..how u doing?
 
caityln, thanks for the advise, yes, after returning to work, i find it more tedious to keep up. I think it is because I find myself tired easily... intially i thot i was bad to keep feeling hungry, so i keep feeding myself with fruits...

hi newbbi! today is still quite ok... maybe cos it is friday hee
 


winnie - first tri n 3rd tri will feel tired very easily.. 2nd tri is e honeymoon period.. keke..

okies, am gg for my nap nw after preparing isaiah's milk for my dad to feed him.. keke..
 
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