morning ladies...
i been to see Dr Adrian, cannot see the BB through tummy scan, he did not do V scan for me. maybe cos he know i am afraid. But urine test shows positive
so he just prescribed me with folic acid and multvitamins, will see him in 2 weeks time again.
I like to check with all of you if his package is fine. It is 550 for the regular consultation, not inclusive of those detailed scanning.
And may I know, is there a list of food i should take and what should i avoid? Is there anything I should take note for the first few weeks? Sometimes i do feel a pull in my tummy area or even cramp, so i will quickly sit down.
i broke the news already to my mum. Frankly, intially she is very very worried, she asked me if I did not think it is too fast..... thus, i think she is quite surprised esp i just wrap up my studies.... thus, she is quite shocked.... but now she sort of accepted it and told me it is fine, since we are getting older already, come one more year i will pass 30 already... but i cant help feeling a bit sad, i think i have given her a shock.... actually not that we have planned.... it is all the gynae fault, say i may have problem conceiving, so we just try and thot it wont be so fast.....
my hubby broke the news to my IL, but i tried to be away, cos my bet is that my MIL sure says boy better. so i dont want to be around to hear that, else i think i will get very unbalanced....
Thinking of who to take care of the BB.... my mum and dad working. my MIL and FIL too old... my aunts all occupied with their own lives.... left my hubby aunt only.... but she is in US now.... if we ask her to come back to look after BB, I must be prepared to give up my freedom to let her stay with us.... and it means stayingy permanently... i am very worried about it, as you know conflict will sure arise. My mum on other hand supported the idea, she says it is a matter of give and take.... having someone you can trust to take care means no need to rush to nanny place before and after work, no need to worry about hanky panky maids etc.... and still can concentrate on career....thus, i am very lost about this, but i know i have no choice ultimately. What about you all? anyone engage private nanny? i thot of infant care, but it seems a bad idea to my hubby.
now it is too early to prepare anything right???