(2005) Brides of year 2005


cotton, so cute the pics...haha
yup, cheese hotdog i like too...

ya lor, too bad cheese fattening. but still healthy like what berry said.keke
 
Pierced,
keke.my fav also cheese hot dog.
Jenn,
no problem,good things must share
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cotton - the pics so cute!!

winnie - JiaYou on ttc.. dun stress ya.. its not an ezy process but as long ur hub is supportive, u shd be hapi..

caitlyn - i wun be going for bb I's 1mth but rest of gals, pls incl me in the gift hor..
 
hi gals..

long time didnt post here...

caitlyn,
<font color="0000ff">CONGRATS on the arrival of your baby boy!</font> he is super cute... can i link my boy's blog to urs??
abt bf issue, dun stress too much... i also stop bf already... most impt is still ur care &amp; concern to ur boy...ya... come to think of it, last time both my hubby's mum &amp; my mum also nvr bf us..but we still grow up fine... so dun stress dun stress...

berry,
how r u?? did u go the dec mum gathering the other time? i didnt go as cant make it... sad...
i hope able to meet up with u gals one day...
hehe...

daphne, cottoncandy, jenn, linda, who else have i missed out?
wish u all a smooth smooth delivery!
 
Hi Newbbi, oh i am in 207 hehee

Berry, nope I am back to the same position, no promo involved in the terms....

Ladies, wont be able to respond tomorrow, going to my mum place to study for my exams and then cook a nice dinner.
 
Morning ladies!

Finally its tues liao...=)..

All,
We still have 1 more carton of swiss roll with no takers yet lor...I will have to place order by tmr or thurs latest liao lor...Hiaz...Anyone interested in the roll? ;p...if still no takers, maybe got to postphone liao....I will ask my coll later lor cos some of them ordered frm me the other time, their swiss rolls and eclair still in their freezer....hee
 
morning all..

hubby gone to work liao.. miss him like crazy.. cry like nobody's busines.. now still tearing lor.. sighz.. dun want him to worry but cldn't ctrl my tears..

nana - hi hi.. thx for e comforting words.. just feel bad tt i gave up bf within a week.. my boy keeps regurgitating his milk.. getting worried.. sure u can link ur boy's blog.. i still dunno how to do such things! haha.. =)
 
Hi Daphne and Jenn,
ya lor, suddenly like this forum empty...heehee

So fast hor, one by one the MTBs EDD around the corner liao....so fast...

Wonder when Ting is back lor...
 
jenn, u looking forward to your edd? yesterday i asked hb if he ready to be daddy in about a month's plus time..... he said dunno cos mixed feelings...... me now starting to be scared of the pain liao leh.....
 
Hey Ladies,

Long time never come it chat liao, although i have been following the thread silently.

Can feel the excited feelings of the MTBs here.

Caitlyn~
Please do not feel guilty at all about not able to BF. Before i give birth, i was also very sure that i could BF until Cayden was at least 6 months. I had read up so many books on BF and thought its not gonna be a problem at all. But when Cay was born, my milk supply did not come and i had to fed with FM. When it came a few days later,(miserable supply) Cay didn't even want to latch. I kept trying to pump and eat/drink more nutritious food for my milk supply. Nothing helped and milk supply diminished after 2 weeks Cay was born. My MIL even laughed at me. I felt so insulted.

Was on the verge of depression if not for my massage lady. We didn't even hire a CL cos MIL said not necessary, the $ can give to her instead.

Now Cay is coming 7 months old liao and i'm still not allowed to go back to work. My hubby and MIL wants me to look after Cay myself. At times, i felt so angry and sad that i have lost all my freedom, after this marriage, after this baby. Who would look up to a SAHM (Stay at home mum) ? No income and all efforts put in are not appreciated.

Now i only live day-by-day and watch my son grow. Wait at home while my hubby comes back after work. Nothing i can afford to enjoy...
 
xiao mei, it's not easy to be a SAHM..... i think being a SAHM is more weida cos you need to sacrifice all your freedom just for the kid. Maybe when your child is older, you can put him at some childcare and you can do some part-time work or find work that allows you to do home based? That's what my sil is doing now. she is doing some home-based work for a events company. Prior to that, she's also a SAHM.
 
Daphne~
Dun worry so much about the pain. Try to enjoy the process instead. I didn't have epi, (by order of my hubby, cos he heard so much stories abt how epi gonna leave you with back-aches later). And when i wanted to take the pethidine shot, the MISSY said already too late cos i more den 4cm dilated already. So i'm only stuck with the gas. Take it or leave it!!

At one point, or many many point, the pain was so bad that i kept cursing my hubby (in my mind only, of cos !) for putting me thru this.

Now, so many months after the delivery, if u ask me how the pain, i think.... Ok la.. I'm still alive.

Anyway, i tried to find home-based jobs like you mentioned, mostly sounds like fraud to me one leh. Cos got to put in some money etc.. And i hate cold callings.. I wonder if ur SIL can recommend more abt the doing for events company one??
 
xiao mei, most home based jobs are either data entry kind or cold callings kind i think. for the events company, i think she gotta do sales calls too..... but i'll ask her when i see her cos sometimes she does look for housewives to do some work at home... but mostly callings lor....
 
Daphne,
true lor...just jiayou ya...U , watashi,Jenn,pierced must Jiayou lor..

xiaomei,
hihi.... can understand how u feel lor..Actually last time my dream was to be a SAHM, everyday take care of my kids and hb and of cos my hse...But as I grow older, realised that this won't work lor...
 
Daphne,
ha ha, me looking 4ward for EDD but oso afraid lor, scared that i cant handle my newborn bb...his crying, he dun latch on... &amp; etc.....

Me scared that i might get depression meh cos of the bb crying !!!!
 
Newbbi,
ha ha, me never tot of become a SAHM, cos i cant imagine me not working... although will miss the bb growing, but our finance cannot depend on 1 person only lor...
 
Daphne~
Thanks.

Newbbi~
Mayb it might work if you dun stay with MIL.

Jenn~
Naturally a mother's instict to handle thier baby. Meanwhile, enjoy ur pregnancy. Thats the part i missed most!!
 
Xiao Mei,
ha ha, ya, its true, but hor, i have to wait until my bb is out first, then instict will do the job...

Meanwhile, now approaching EDD, heart and brain think differently meh....so i am rather scared lor.
 
me also never tot of becoming a full time SAHM cos i cannot see myself staying home just looking after kids...... i rather go out and work and have my own financial freedom..... and also it's siong to have only one person feeding the family.... if given a choice, i would rather have my own home based biz or something along that line....
 
jenn, ya lor..... my ex colleague also preggie now at 5 mths..... haha.... so many piglets.... but then this means when next time sure competition when it comes to schooling...
 
Daphne,
ya lor, next time when we enroll our children for schooling, have to fight liew.... further just among friends and colleagues, have so many preggie woman giving piglet bb..... how abt those ppl tt we dun know wan......
 
Jenn,
true lor...heehe...can understand also...hmm...but hor, your mum will help u take care of bb hor?so u will do your confinement at SK?

xiao mei,
understooded lor, its beter to stay on your own hor...
 
Newbbi,
No lei, i will be doing my confinement in depot road...cos i got engaged a CL, my mum will only help me to take care of my bb after my ML, when i return to work.
 
aiyo, now dunno if i'm having braxton hicks or just baby moving...... very tightening at one area but it went off after a few secs...... and sometimes it like protudes leh.....
 
Daphne,
To be frank, i do not know how to differante between braxton hicks or just bb moving...as long it does not hurt, i dun really bother lei....
 
Cotton,
Finally saw you log in. So how is ur day till so far ???

Just now, my colleague drove us out to eat botak jones... so big portion, eat until want to puke meh.
 
jenn, it doesn't hurt but i can feel the tightening lor but dunno if it tighten due to bb pushing her legs on my tummy or wat..... this morning i woke up looking like a camel! i saw this lump right in the middle of my tummy and i touch and realized that it's her legs pushing out.... wanted to take a pic but i scared that once i moved, she will moved too cos i'm lying flat. after a while of touching the lump, she really shifted position.....
 
Daphne,
So cute, u can see the lump which is ur bb's legs...for me, i cant see at all lor, so sad .....

Wondering how is caitlyn's coping withoug her hb, hope she is oki lor.

So how, on 30 Jun, u will be going for her bb 's shower mth ?
 
jenn, should be ok for me lor...... but i need to ask my mum if she pantang or not... but i think ok lah cos i also visited her at hospital anyway.... haha...
 


Daphne,
ha ha, me too will be going bah...
So lets have a vote, wanna to buy vouchers from &amp; how much to contribute ?
1) kiddy Palace
2) NTUC
3) Giant
4) Carrefour
5) Mothercare
 

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