(2005) Brides of year 2005


wah caitlyn!, abit too qiao rite?!?!

but now i oso dare not talk abt my ILs in forum coz of same reason as u.. not convenient to talk here but tell u world v small one..
 
caitlyn, u scared of so many pests ah? haha... for me, i only extremely scared of lizards.... the rest are tolerable for me...... cat i also scared but as long as not beside me or wat i'm ok.... else u will see me stand on the chair liao.... haha.... me also scared of dogs leh but this one is on case by case kind.
 
yalor daphne.. as long ppl do a search on our nick and read back our postings, tats it liao.. but heng we oredi choked up thousands of postings.. who will be in sound mind to read every single one haha..

but still play safe not to talk abt it..
 
caitlyn, btw on the keys issue, my mum has proven my point. she was telling me that her friend got depression cos her son refused to give her keys to her house and my mum told me next time i better not be like that.... keke...... so u see? i definitely got to give to both side of the parents esp since my mum has taken it for granted that she will get one set.
 
daphne - last time i also scared of dogs.. but then my parents bot one for my sis a feww yrs back mah.. so now not so scared.. hee.. but scared of stray dogs.. hee.. as for e keys thing, i okies liao.. coz i told hb i hv e rite to say dun come over if i feel tired.. hee.. i tihnk most impt is our parents must zi dong n not just assume tt they can come over as n when thye like bah.. guess for me, e sore pt is still e queen bed lah.. coz now hb n i no room for storage or to be a games/work room (which i agreed before).. my parents also not happy with my in-laws apparently.. they feel tt my ILs are selfish.. sighz.. but they only tell me lah.. then tell me must learn to say no to certain things
 
daphne - see how lah.. sometimes e frustration directde at hb.. haha.. feel tt sometimes he fu yan me lor.. but see open lah.. just feel bad tt my parents feel tt way abt my ILs lah.. then keep telling me tt my ILs cannot just 'chope' e room coz my dad is e one takign care of isaiah n wld need somewhere to rest.. so i assure them tt we're telling my ILs tt it's a guest room, n not their room lor..

for those getting parents to help to take care of bb, how much more allowance will u be giving them? today my dad hint hint liao leh.. altho he says no need to give more.. but my mum says i sld coz it's only rite..
 
my feet n toes super swollen today.. toes feeling very stiff.. find they look quite cute though! haha.. fat fat short short.. hb says i siao
 
caitlyn, i will give additional to my mum lor.... but for bb's stuff, i'll be the one buying still.... i'm already giving her $350 per month now and once andrea is out, i'll top it up to $600 i think. so additional $250?
 
daphne - okies.. thanks.. coz initially hb n i thot may not increase as we very tight.. but my mum says we sld lah.. so was thinking of giving additional 200.. now we give him $300.. so top up to $500.. n bb stuff we still buy.. but scared i not enuff.. hmm.. coz we got to pay e reno loan also
 
cottoncandy - i cannot buy bibs liao.. i bot abt like 15 bibs.. n my parents bot another 9 more from US! haha..

ting - i give my dad 300.. then my mum i give 100.. coz she still working.. hee.. u leh?
 
ting - keke.. coz for us, my dad used to work from home.. now he more or less retired liao.. so he's e one tt cooks n all.. hee..

my parents keep tellign me not to buy too many bb clothes as they grow real fast.. they bot sooo many from US.. not cheap some more.. i think isaiah really too many liao.. today my dad still ask me how to make passport for isaiah.. maybe can bring him for a short trip when he turns 1?! aiyo..
 
oh, i only gave to my mum but not my dad cos my dad is not in sg... keke....
caitlyn, maybe you can give additional $150 to your dad? cos he would understand that you also need to pay for your reno loans rite?
 
daphne - actually think my dad is okies w any amt.. maybe will discuss w hb and see how.. just wanted to noe wat's e mkt rate like lor
 
*Just back fm lunch @ harbour city, the local tour guide who guide us in japan is in our office*

Yawning zzzzzzzzzzzz, cos is rainy noon time, aiyo, is time to sleep...
 
ting - actually my parents also very tight financially.. coz only depending on my mum's income.. they got ZERO savings so quite scary.. at least ur parents hv savings rite? hee..

cottoncandy - hee. yah hor.. sld get tt n make it a set! hee
 
caitlyn- no hv!! tats y i reali worried for them. they stil got hse n car loans. in arrears in their mthly debts also. i scared nxt time when i stop wrkg, cant gv them allowance, wil be v jia lat for them =(
 
ting - guess our parents e same.. e never wei yu chou mou type.. got money then spend lor.. tt's y i cannot consider totally stop working.. anyway my hb also cannot afford.. e scary thing is my hb's parents also no $$.. they low income mah.. then now hb n i also not saving much.. u n ur hb save a gd amt every mth in case?? last time, hb n i will save $800 - $1k per mth.. now savings wiped to 0.. and with hse n bb, no way we can save for at least e next few yrs.. so quite worrying lor
 
Ting,
Wa, u can eat tt much... i cant really eat tt much, sometime, a plate of chua kway tiao make me very full liew, wouldnt have any side dish wan... kee kee
 
caitlyn- yalor. lucky my ILs got savings, hb dun hv to worry abt them when they retire. we dun save much too.. told hb we goten be disciplined n start liao for bb fund!
i'm wrkg ah... hee, my mum drove me n my sis out for lunch. thn hapened tat my dad was in redhill eatin too so went to meet him lor! hehe
 
caitlyn, my colleagues were commenting that i or bak ka already....... i haven't been sleeping well the last few nights..... cannot sleep leh.... and will wake up very early and be alert....
 
ting - at least urs one side is okies.. mine both side also sama sama.. like a time bomb.. me n hb also no longer saving.. scary lor.. =)
 
daphne - think it's natural not to sleep well when preggers.. i find tt i sleep better in e day than at nite.. my hb is e one now with orh bak ka.. coz he's been doing alot of packing, moving, unpakcing n late nites..
 


Well, for my side, my parents do have savings and my mum open joint acct with me and my brother, so tt in case anything happen, we can get the $$ out.

As for my ILs, they dun have any saving...only MIL still working, so if she stop, then we will have to start giving her $$ liew.
 
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