(2005) Brides of year 2005


janf- sekali say only! haha... we got learn in the marriage cos tat once married, our spouse shd be the 1st priority in everythin tat we do.
 
actually i ever told hb that as long as he is faithful to me, he will also be the top priority / luff in my life cos to me, once children grow up, my partner is all I have cos children will have their own life to lead...
 
daphne- she din say anythin but tink she wil feel sad lor. oopz. i din expect him to say tat also! but he got say this is wat we learned at the marriage cos lo
 
Jenn,
hehe....its $3.35 per pack lor. I forgot to add the price lor..keke...

I will arrange the delivery to be on 26th May, their delivery timing bery bad one, frm 11am - 4pm so ocne they send to my hse liao, will sms those who ordered frm me lor...

So anyone interested?? If not, will post the option to my colleagues liao...tehy crazy over these...keke
 
ting.... if i'm the mum, i confirmed upset one and likef janf say, i will think i brought up the son for nothing! haha..... but of cos if i didn't hear it, then i can't be bothered....
 
daphne - agree with wat u say.. =)

btw, just wondering if u gals ever discuss with ur hb, if suay suay, during delivery, can only save 1 - mummy or bb - who to choose? hee.. tt time when i first got preggy, i told him he must choose bb, coz i wun be able to live knowing tt bb had to go coz of me.. he v v v reluctant.. but now i start to realize y.. wat wld u gals want ur hb to do?
 
ting,
u so xinfu leh..I ever asked my hb this question also, he said he duno if his mum neo how to swin lor, but he will look for life jacket or something that can float to his mum, then then save me 1st...hee
 
caitlyn, i leave it to hb.... but i think he will save me rather than bb cos we can still have bb another time but if save bb and no mum, then the bb will not have a complete family...... that's what he told me.
 
daphne - my hb wld also choose to save me.. same rationale.. but he scared i will never forgive him coz of wat i said abt having to save bb!
 
hmm.. regarding caitlyn's qns, i no ask hub b4 but i tink he will save me coz bb can try again.. the most is childless whole life but at least i will acc him till old age..
 
just curious, for those of u with ur own hse, do u give a set of keys to ur parents and PILs? for those without, do u intend to when u get ur own place?
 
caitlyn - tink i will give my ILs and pama a pair of keys bah.. juz in case of emergency.. my ma wun be so eng to come to my hse sit sit when i at work bah..
 
caitlyn,
if I am in the situation, i tink hb will save me and let bb go, becos if save me liao, at least I can still try for another bb with hb, of cos there will be heartpain and sadness, but I am sure bb will understand..

But if save bb 1st, and I had to go, I feel hb will remarried in order to let my bb have a complete family. If this is the case,I am bery worried that my bb will suffer at the hands of the Stepmother...rather than bb suffer, I will rather him/her to go....
 
caitlyn, def i give mi parents a set since they are close by, ILs most likely lor, but hopefully mi MIL is not the go to mi house and dun knock kind. i dun thk she will la.
 
caitlyn, when i get my own house, i will give them a set lor but i'll also ask them to ring me before they come. I know my mum will want a set of the keys lah.... so will give both side.

janf, i agree with you.
 
actually if i ever hv kids, i dun expect them to Yang me when i old.. even the mgrs in my dept, they oso say the same thg.. they say kids nowadays hv their own mindset and tinking.. dun hv the Yang parents kind of tinking liao..
 
janf - hahaha.. no lah, my hb passed a set to his parents ytday, then i a bit pissed coz initially we agreed we wun.. i just scared they come unannounced.. esp now tt there'll be a little one there.. then they surely will come often.. n u noe abt how we had to buy a queen sized bed coz they said they wanted it? now i dun have a room to put like those display cabinets for hb's toys and all which i already very sore abt.. then hb is those fillial son type lah.. say his parents wld expect e keys, if dun give they'll be hurt.. if dun buy e bed, they'll be sad.. hiyah.. sometimes i wish we just continued to stay put.. my new hse not exactly my hse..
 
ya lor, even in mi case, mi parents already dun have that thking of mi 'yang' them, they got their own savings.
so end up we will prob thk the same way. whereas mi ILs are very diff, they will expect their son to yang them. dun have proper finances so that's our biggest headache now.
 
how how how?? i really starting to build up quite a bit of resentment towards my PILs.. i really hope it's just preggy hormones.. coz they seriously are ok ppl.. think other ppl will think i very xiao qi.. sighz..
 
caitlyn- my ILs has a set of our hse keys. when we did a new gate early this yr, i was askin my hb nid to pass them a set anot? he says no nid lah. my parents dun hv a set thou
 
caitlyn - so u still going ahead to buy a queen mattress?? where got money?! tell them chinchai zzz TiLam can liao lah..

well, juz tink on the bright side tat if anythg emergency, at least they can run to ur pl fast enuff.. if they really appear unexpectedly for no apparent reason, juz hv to get ur hub to subtly tell them liao..
 
caitlyn, it's like this one.... that's why they say marriage is not about 2 person but 2 families!

janf, i ever asked hb next time what if kids don't want us how? he said we spent the $$ for our retirement and let children earn their own $$....... and if one of us left already, then check into a home.
 
caitlyn, wah u really bought the queen size mattress? ya lor, ask them sleep on mattress can mah. so ex...they will really sleep over all the time meh?
 
i got this coli who stays 2 floors above her PILs thn hor her mil (a hsewife) wil cm by anytime she likes, dun call or knock even! she was reali pissed n told her hb to tell his mum nicely to at least call or wat. the recent case was ultimate, her mil brot sm cousins to see their flat while both of them stil wrkg! n didnt tell them until few days later!
 
ting - my parents have a set of our current hse keys coz basically it's their hse mah.. haha.. but they nvr come over.. if they want to, they call n ask first..

janf - gotta buy lah.. e bed frame also buy liao.. so farnee if no mattress.. sometimes i feel my hb 'fu yan' me abt certain things related to his parents but coz he does so many other things for me, i dun want to ji jiao with him.. =) n i look on e bright side tt he fillial means he'll take good care of our family
 
caitlyn, just give them the keys lor but for the bed, i think u can just leave it for now cos that should not be the top priority.. and without the queen size bed, perhaps they won't sleep over so much?
 
daphne - my hub oso said the same thingy as ur hub too.. coz we really dun expect our kids to yang us lor..

why i hv this mentality is probably coz my pama provided for my education till my poly. even during my poly days, i had to temp in order to earn pocket $ coz the pocket $ my ma gave me really barely enuff to survive.. and i had to work part-time during uni days to pay for my fees and scrimp and save..
 
ting, that one really too much liao. the mil really treat the house as her house. so irritating.

caitlyn, hopefully they wont really sleep over lor even with the bed there,
 
ting, i think my mil is not like that..... she respects privacy one and dislike pp invading hers so i trust she won't come unannounced. i think i'm more worried about my mum coming unannounced! haha..... but so far she does knock on my room door whenever we are home..... keke.... last time she just open and come in one....
 
pierced - tt's wat hb's bro asked also! he was like 'pama will sleep over meh? y u all go n buy e bed?" hahaha.. but if they actually say n we dun do it, it's very bad rite?

i feel that my PILs will prob call before they come, but they wun ask.. they'll just say they're coming n i can't say no.. tt's wat irks me.. coz i guess there are times when i just want to be alone?
 
janf, wah..... for me is my mum provided for my studies till uni and even now she did say she can help out if i really want to get a house but i don't want to depend on her anymore so that's why we have been delaying and taking our time to find our own nest.

but my hb did say next time must teach the kids that $$ doesn't come easy and they have to earn their own pocket money by helping out at home...
 
caitlyn, hee...so farnie ur hb's bro... maybe juz put the bed there since they request but nx time, its for ur bb to roll around on when bigger. keke...

i guess itz not easy esp when hb's family involved. hopefully they will 'zi dong'
 
daphne/pierced- my coli reali regretted stayin soo near them! but cos her mil is lookin after her bb (she due in oct) so at least is more fang bian, dun hv to travel, jus bring up n dwn niah

janf- for my sisters n i, we all had to pay our poly fees by loan, til nw stil payin!
 
looks like i e only one w all these nitty gritty problems hor.. think i too xiao qi liao.. must see open..

give u gals another example.. hee.. this one really just illustrates how my MIL is easily influenced by aunties lah.. last nite my hb called to tell her we gg over for dinner tonite.. so she asked how's e packign gg and all, and are we cfm moving? so my hb told her we cfm moving our stuff on sunday.. her reply.. 'actually TODAY (meaning ytday) lah, is a better day to move accordign to xxx, sunday not so good'.. hb really scolded her lor.. i mean wat u want us to do?? again, she only drops all these bombshells when things r confirmed.. brngs back really bad memories of my wedding plans i tell u! haha
 


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