(2005) Brides of year 2005

Watashi,
Ya lor, i agreed must tvl before bb is born. If not, have to wait for many years before can 3 pax go holiday go together.

Further the europe trip is arranged and book before i knew tt i was pregnant... & we had already put aside budget for the tvl expenses.

My gyane oleidi give me a letter indicating tt i am safe to travel from now till 30 April, which includes my Japan trip on 11 April... he mentioned tt wa, you are so active, keep travelling huh.... ha ha ha
 


Daphne,
What is cleft lips ???

As far as i know, the details scan is to final determine the bb's gender, any anormalties, see whether their heart on the correct left side, can see their bladder, and whether the spine bone straight or not... all these information were provided by my colleague... kee kee.. cos she overheard me talking to the nurses confirming the date and timing.
 
cleft lips is when the lips merged with the nose lor...... cos sometimes 2D scan cannot see leh so i want to know if this is also being checked for the detail scanning.... was thinking of going for 3D if 2D cannot scan this.
 
Daphne,
Oh i see, hmm, i am not so sure lei, but dun think tt much lor, ur bb will be oki wan...

3D scanning is not cheap, as i heard !!!
 
i think 3D is additional 100+.... aiyo, u dunno how many stories i heard over CNY on all these and now making me paranoid..... so i rather spent a bit more on all these and have a worryless pregnancy....
 
i have faith but i also don't want a rude shock on the day of birth so after talking to my hb, we decide to go for 3D if 2D scan cannot detect all these..... becos it happens to friends that I know so i just want to be more prepared.... but if the 2D scan can detect all these, then of cos i won't spent more $$.
 
Daphne,
Ya lor, call the nurse to make enquiry and see if you need to proceed with 3D scan,
u mentioned until i am oso scared liew... but shld see after to do the 2D scan first.
 
haha, jenn, no lah, don't be scared lah.... cos i am more paranoid by nature and i like to be mentally prepared so i rather do all these extra stuff....
 
Daphne,
So far, ppl around me, didnt encourage 3D scanning... until you mentioned tt it had happened to your friends, then came a rising worry...
 
jenn, the nurse at Raffles Hosp also don't encourage 3D cos they say not worth it... but if 2D scan cannot detect for cleft lips then i'll go for 3D cos this definitely can lor...
 
Daphne,
Hmm, then u decide after you go for your 2nd scan... okie ????

Meanwhile, just relax yourself and rest well... dun think too much.. if not, bb oso stress.
 
jenn, ya i think i'll do the 2D scan first and see what gynae says... cos 3D scan is best done after 24 wks anyway.... i surfed the net and it's mentioned that 2D scan can detect the abnormality but it's difficult while 3D scan is 100% detection.
 
jenn, me not going for KKH antenetal class liao cos sat is full liao...... so i may either go back to Raffles or try TMC instead but i think TMC is more exp leh...
 
Daphne,
No problem, for KKH antenetal class, i register since early jan, me very kiasu as my colleague mentioned tt the class full very easily....
 
Daphne,
BTW, i had asked my colleague, she said the cleft lips is part of the DS, so since our oscar test result is oki, the bb should be okie..

2D scan wouldnt be able to see the bb face at all.

Hope the information can ease your worries !!!
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jenn, no lah, cleft lip is not part of DS. I have a maid who is normal but with cleft lips (which is why pp are pantang on cutting on the bed).
never mind, i'll just stay positive and check with gynae with i see her again. will ask the sonographer to do a thorough check on this if possible.
 
Daphne,
huh... me really puzzled.. perharps you check with your Dr Thong and see what she say lah...

Meanwhile, really remain positive, okie !!!!
 
hi all..

daphne - most insurance dun cover once u're preggie.. only ntuc icome has a plan called i maternity which u can sign up for when u're preggie.. e premium not very high but coverage is also not much.. i bot after i fd out i was preggie.. but gotta act fast coz i think can only buy before dunno bb is how many weeks.. also detailed scan will be also be checking for cleft lips.. so dun worry ya
 
SDL
Yap, once JC knew tt she is pregnant, must faster buy the insurance.. cos from 2nd trimester onwards, hard to find an insurance policy tt can cover maternity liew.
 
anyway, my hb is still asking his IFAs friends to look out for such policy and i think his friend is passing him one today so will see if still applicable.
 
Daphne,
Nmind lor , as 1st time mum, lots of things we are not sure and unknown wan... so if your hb's frenz pass him the brochure, do let me know too.

Thanks
 
Newbbi,
Is like tt wan lor... as 1st time mum, definitely dun know lots of things... have to gather information here and there.

No plans for weekend yet, just want to sleep late.. kee kee


Daphne,
Thanks.
 
Jenn, ya lor.. I know alot of insurance dont cover maternity lor. but have to find out more about it. JC is ntuc member so hopefully they can explain in detail the premiums and all that.

newbbi, Happy LNY! :D
 
sdl, actually there are some that do cover maternity but it's tied to life insurance..... manulife got one and uob lady premire also got one.
 
Happy New Year to all!
How’s all mummies to be?
I started work last week… so busy!!
Daphne dun be so paranoid… must stay happy then u will have a happy baby… our thread mostly boys hor?
Too bad my boy will be 1 year earlier than u all…
So the gathering at jam’s place next wk confirm?
 
SDL,
hee....so busy with work?u going Jam's plc next wk?

Hi berry,
Hows your cny?

Jenn,
ya lor, its okie lor, cos there is always the 1st time mah...
 
daphne, heard u mentioned abt 3D / 2D scan v scary leh...during preggie really many things cannot do on yr bed or even at yr hse...my fren paint her hse when she preggie & when her bb gal come out her face got 1 patch red brith mark...heard my other fren say bcos she paint the hse loh!
 


Jam,
U saw my earlier posting, on 3/mar, i can come to ur hse abt 3pm as my antental class end at 2pm @ KKH

So ur frenz bb gal red birth mark can be removed boh ??? I heard some went to pray, do some ceremony and the red mark will slowly fade wan.
 

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