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ya, my gynea also ask me need mc or not when i go chk-up. but tis yr too much leave to clear liao so will take leave go check-up. my boss also hint me..'so u can plan yr leave on those days tat u need to go check-up, o/w u can't finish clearing yr leave' ...

caitlyn, how big is the antenatal class?.. i plan to sign up when go check up next mth.
 


caitlyn, our boss oso dun like we take so many mc wan....my preggie coll in dis mth already taken 4 days mc from last thur till this tue liow...my boss used to to hint us dat we r v weak alitte than mc loh...so u noe wat they mean loh!
 
for the antenatal class, do we have to take it from the hospital where we are delivering? i saw one at Raffles Hospital so not sure to take or not.
 
watashi - the class quite big.. the first 3 sessions got exercise the whole room (rm not tt big also) will be filled with mats.. sometimes cannot see mrs wong coz got pillar but she'l get us to gather round to watch lor.. =) as for how many ppl, i dunno.. i heard next class will be in another bigger room.. w/out pillar so sld be better..

jam - ur boss also super one kind.. like my HOD like dat hor.. preg really not tt easy for some pp lor! i cn come to work, but i wun be able to do much. wat's e pt rite?
 
caitlyn,
i know that, i read in some magazine.
i will try. thanks.

jam,
my gynae clinic close at 5pm, so normally i go during weekday afternoon or sometime i ask them to put me at the last person.
 
daphne - not necc to take at hospital where u're delivring.. can take anywhere.. but usu hospitals will charge those who deliver there cheaper rates.
 
daphne - i taking at TMC.. weekday class.. think they charge ard 168 for those delivering there.. plus i got e FBI card.. so i think i paid ard 150+? cannot rem.. 6 sessions..
 
caitlyn, sometimes oso can't blame on bosses loh cos my coll here today v gd tomorrow called in say MC not say boss huai yi loh other coll oso huai yi whether is gen wan or not...sometimes they bcome v regular wan almost every mth 1 or 2 days mc wan!
 
Jam, yr co dun allow yr collg to pay back the hr by doing OT meh?.. very niah leh, take time off also deduct $.

caitlyn, all the mtbs will have hb accompany them to the class huh?.. my hb can't attend all lessons wif me coz of his shift work leh. Scared will be very odd & lonely if i go alone.
 
watashi - almost 90% will hv hb with them.. i think for my class, only 2 didn't have hb with them.. coz need hb's assistance during exercise.. mrs wong also teaches them how to massage us sometimes..
 
Hi morning gals,
today is a busy morning for me .
me had mee hoon just now.share with my colleague.
me cannot finish..
Caitlyn,
thanks for the contact u pass to Jenn n she pass to me.
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Last nite,i had confirm my CL liao...at least now one load ease off..
Watashi,
me now is 13w1day.
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cottoncandy - no prob! =) congrats on ur pregnancy! =)

jam - do u intend to stay on in ur company? isn't it very de-motivating to work in such a company?
 
Daphne,Jam,
I dunno lei, but i always take time off... i dun take leave..cos my colleague oso take time off... my co practise tt.

Watashi, Daphne, carilyn, Linda
I had signed up the antental class @ KKH, is 10 lesson for $150 for weekend, my class is starting on 23 feb ... and they allow maximum 2 make up.. if hb cant accompany you, ur mum is allow to come as well...
 
caitlyn, although sian to work in such co but i lazy to look f a new job & got to start all over again leh...somemore if ppl noe u married liow & planning f bb not much chances they will wan u loh...dis is my 1st job aft i left my school leh so hv been working here f more than 10yrs liow!
 
jenn, since yr co got such practice then is ok to take time off loh our jap boss v niah wan lah so take leave beter loh if not they will say u!
 
daphne, haha mayb yi chuan fm my family members loh cos all work f 1 co f v v v long wan...if co is there will continue to work loh if kenna retrench then bo bian loh!
 
Hi Cottoncandy,
Congrats! =). How are you doing?

jam,
wow, u work there for 10yrs liao? thought i worked here 6yrs bery long liao...keekee...ya lor, once they know we palnning for bb, most likely they won't employ one..unless after maternity then u go for interview lor =)...
 
ting & newbbi, once u reach certain age & u stay wif a co f too long u will feel lazy to move on wan & i'm not those aggressive type of person loh so i juz stay on loh...my nieces juz started work last year & she is moving to another job nx fri tink is oso her 3rd or 4th job liow & her pay is getting more & more!
 
Jam,
ha ha, u know my daddy oso can win long time svs reward liew, he worked for his company for 30 years liew... and me keep changing job, now is my 4th co and i am here for 3 years liew.
 
jam, u need to move in order to get increment in pay... if wait for company's annual increment, can wait till the cows come home....

jenn, for me friday cannot leh cos hb will not be free as he got to teach his tkd.
 
Daphne,
They got class available from 23 feb (friday), 27 feb (tues) and 28 feb (wed)... u chose the day whereby he is free !!!

Cos the antenatal class can only start when u are in ur week 16 or week 20.. and maximum they take 8 couples only..so if you interested, must sign up soon !!!

My colleague who is delivering in raffles hospital recommended me to take this programme in KKH, cos RH only got 6 lessons and more expensive whereas KKH is more informative and cheaper as well.
 
jam- nwadays ppl change jobs cos of the higher pay but w higher pay comes w more responsibility n stress also! tink for us nw, married n plannin for kids, cant afford to be in too stressful jobs..

jenn- my mum also long svc award.. close to 30 yrs too in her current company, older thn me! she waitin for her company to retrench her n w the big fat package, she can retire liao! haha
 
8 couples per class is a good size.. the TMC i think takes ard 20 couples.. but sometimes ppl make up class here n therre tt's y my class super packed e past 2 sessions
 
jenn,
thanks.
i might be signing up also. i need to check my hb's shift 1st.

jam,
me also like newbbi work in this co for 6 years leow. tot v long. you are longer.
 
jam,
true lor...but hor, if stay on, pay nv move, then no good lor...Got a fren also change abt 5 jobs liao, same age as me also...Position climbing higher, pay higher too..we were so envy of her..
 
Hi Newbbi,
dont knoe if u remember me ? i saw ur pics before in the HM taiwan forum.
Jenn,
KKH too far liao..cause me like Watashi also working in tampines.i think i will source for during weekend.cause weekday hb not free to go with me.
 
Cottoncandy,
U stay in fernvale, right ??? Maybe you can opt to go to the weekend class, every sat for $180.00, is the same 10 lessons.
 
Linda,
I managed to find a malay massage lady lao, who was my frend's hb colleague. She oso charge $45 per session, she laughed at me lei cos she said tt i had called too early.. I should call her only after i give birth..

For malay massage, the stitch must heal first, for natural birth, the massage can start after 1 week, for c-section, the massage can start only after 5 week.. and she said 4-5 times will be good enough.
 
Tata janf..

Cotoncandy,
YUP, of cos i rem you lor...keekee =D...

Ask u hor, so now that you are preggie hor, your boss or colleagues got say anything?cos just change job and preggi? Cos i did told the gers here I thought of changing job tis yr, but at the sametime trying for bb, worried that new company might not accept tis...
 
jenn,
but hor, my aunty gave birth to my 2 cousins, naturally, when she give birth she called the massage lady and once she discharge the next day she do the massage leow.

this is what that Malay massage lady that i engage told me also leh.

dunno leh!
 
Linda,
I oso dun noe lei, cos she mentioned if the stitches are not heal, it will be very painful to do the massage, so she tell me to call her only after i deliver...
 
Actually hor, before your EDD 1 month u call massage lady, just kindly inform her that want to book her after u give birth. Den when give birth liao, just call her and let her know lor.

My massage lady is always so fully booked that she have to decline some customer. But i think she really worth it. If not for her, i might have post natal blues already!
 


juz now lunch time my coll was discussing abt housework hor...they say their hse v messy so don dare to invite ppl to come over their hse so i ask them now CNY is coming soon loh y not clean up but my coll say now u will say dat but once u got kids no time to do hse work...wonder izzit an excuses to escape fm doing hse work?? kekeke
 

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