saintz_lucifer
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Caitlyn,
So how is ur detailed scan? Expecting BOy or Ger?
So how is ur detailed scan? Expecting BOy or Ger?
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saintz_lucifer
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Hmmm...
Ur hubby going with u to the scan? Well, when i went for my time, i was rather regret that i didn't record the process down with my camera phone..!
Did actual realise that hb is a tiny more ti tie lor.. hehe.
Ur hubby going with u to the scan? Well, when i went for my time, i was rather regret that i didn't record the process down with my camera phone..!
Did actual realise that hb is a tiny more ti tie lor.. hehe.
saintz_lucifer
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He was like 3.068kg at birth. 37 weeks of gestation. He was a bit too early and i haven't even finish preparing!
saintz_lucifer
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Lucky you! My hb was busy working most of the time cos he got project on hand. Mostly i went alone for check up den later go shopping!
ting,
hee... ya loh, all got personal thinking.
xiaomei,
thanks.
i also got read alot, but no practical. so afraid that i cant cope.
my hb also wan to go along so that he can prepare himself for the whole process and know what is going to happen. hee..
me into my 12 weeks. CL just cfm yesterday.
caitlyn,
thanks for the info. i will call TMC and check.
dun worry, everything will be fine.
hee... ya loh, all got personal thinking.
xiaomei,
thanks.
i also got read alot, but no practical. so afraid that i cant cope.
my hb also wan to go along so that he can prepare himself for the whole process and know what is going to happen. hee..
me into my 12 weeks. CL just cfm yesterday.
caitlyn,
thanks for the info. i will call TMC and check.
dun worry, everything will be fine.
linda - no prob.. but u gott book early as TMC is very popular for e antenatal class.. tt's y i gotta go wed class coz sat classes fully booked! i very lazy so dun really read alot.. also, e instructor advised tt when we read, must take w a pinch of salt.. and v v impt is tt books sld not be more than THREE years old as e info will be outdated
saintz_lucifer
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Ting~ Here's my story, hope u all dun mind me sharing a bit to the MTBs!
I sleep until in the middle of the night, almost 3am. Suddenly feel like 'leaking' water. At first stil thought is b cos i can't contain my urine, (pregnant woman oftenly have full bladder). Then after go toilet liao, still got leak lei. So it suddenly occured to me that my waterbag might be ruptured. but i thought, ' now only 37 weeks lei, so early meh?'
Not wanting to risk giving birth at home, i woke my hb up and told him that i dun feel right. We took a cab and rush to KKH.
During the taxi ride, my contraction was very mild, but when i checked into the delivery suite, it was getting worse. The nurse checked and said i was 4 cm dilated already. I asked for the injection for pain relieve, but she say it was a bit too late.
Having contractions in the birthing room for abt another 8 hours, no improvements. Morning abt 9am, they decided to induce me by drip.
Following the drip, the contractions was getting
painful!!!! No epidural, cos i wanted it more au natural. So bear the pain, keep crying lor. Not those terrible wailing though. Tears just keep flowing out of my eyes while i grab on to the railing with all my might.
At abt 12pm, i was 9 cm already, they said i should start pushing. I was so tired already, give up pushing many times, lucky the midwife was very very patient with me. She n my hb keep on cheering me that they could see a bit of baby's head already, all i need was to keep pushing with all my might. But still, i found it very painful when the contractions came and i was extremely tired!
Baby's head was already in the birth canal already. I keep convincing myself to push it all out. Cos i very painful, baby also very distress. Might as well just try EVEN harder to push.
Cayden was out soon past 2pm. As i was really tired, i couldn't really bond with him immediately. I just watch him with all my emotions numbed. I just want some food and water!
HB was the one carrying baby and keeping watch. I just 'looked'.
Well,.. This getting a bit long. I just stop abruptly here.
I sleep until in the middle of the night, almost 3am. Suddenly feel like 'leaking' water. At first stil thought is b cos i can't contain my urine, (pregnant woman oftenly have full bladder). Then after go toilet liao, still got leak lei. So it suddenly occured to me that my waterbag might be ruptured. but i thought, ' now only 37 weeks lei, so early meh?'
Not wanting to risk giving birth at home, i woke my hb up and told him that i dun feel right. We took a cab and rush to KKH.
During the taxi ride, my contraction was very mild, but when i checked into the delivery suite, it was getting worse. The nurse checked and said i was 4 cm dilated already. I asked for the injection for pain relieve, but she say it was a bit too late.
Having contractions in the birthing room for abt another 8 hours, no improvements. Morning abt 9am, they decided to induce me by drip.
Following the drip, the contractions was getting
painful!!!! No epidural, cos i wanted it more au natural. So bear the pain, keep crying lor. Not those terrible wailing though. Tears just keep flowing out of my eyes while i grab on to the railing with all my might.
At abt 12pm, i was 9 cm already, they said i should start pushing. I was so tired already, give up pushing many times, lucky the midwife was very very patient with me. She n my hb keep on cheering me that they could see a bit of baby's head already, all i need was to keep pushing with all my might. But still, i found it very painful when the contractions came and i was extremely tired!
Baby's head was already in the birth canal already. I keep convincing myself to push it all out. Cos i very painful, baby also very distress. Might as well just try EVEN harder to push.
Cayden was out soon past 2pm. As i was really tired, i couldn't really bond with him immediately. I just watch him with all my emotions numbed. I just want some food and water!
HB was the one carrying baby and keeping watch. I just 'looked'.
Well,.. This getting a bit long. I just stop abruptly here.
saintz_lucifer
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Ger2~
Hello~~
Going back to work after CNY. Got to lok for new job, cos i was on contract basis previously. So, dun even have maternity leave..
Still not quite use being at home all day. I missed my old life, but know that it'll never be the same again..
Hello~~
Going back to work after CNY. Got to lok for new job, cos i was on contract basis previously. So, dun even have maternity leave..
Still not quite use being at home all day. I missed my old life, but know that it'll never be the same again..
saintz_lucifer
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Ting~ , Linda~
Hehe.. Thanks! No choice la, cos many of my fens advise me against epidural cos of the bad effect it has on the lower back.
Most importantly must thank HB for his encouragement lor. Although feel like slapping him when i'm in very bad contactions. Haha!!
Nope, didn't manage to breastfeed although i wanted so much to. Cos no milk. I didn't even have once of the 'engorment' thing! So sorry to my baby ..
Hehe.. Thanks! No choice la, cos many of my fens advise me against epidural cos of the bad effect it has on the lower back.
Most importantly must thank HB for his encouragement lor. Although feel like slapping him when i'm in very bad contactions. Haha!!
Nope, didn't manage to breastfeed although i wanted so much to. Cos no milk. I didn't even have once of the 'engorment' thing! So sorry to my baby ..
saintz_lucifer
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Ger2~
After i got pregnant, my relationship with my mother improved tremendously! We weren't close before...
Seriously, i own many thanks to my mummy...
After i got pregnant, my relationship with my mother improved tremendously! We weren't close before...
Seriously, i own many thanks to my mummy...
saintz_lucifer
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Linda.
Since u got intention, stick to it no matter wat!!! Good Luck to u..
Since u got intention, stick to it no matter wat!!! Good Luck to u..
morning all,
xiaomei,
i will "jian chi dao di". hehehe...
caitlyn,
congrat congrat that your bb is growing well and active. your bb so cute, open big big let you all see. hahah... maybe he knows that mummy and daddy very eager to know the gender bah. hee..
newbbi,
take care leh.
rest more.
xiaomei,
i will "jian chi dao di". hehehe...
caitlyn,
congrat congrat that your bb is growing well and active. your bb so cute, open big big let you all see. hahah... maybe he knows that mummy and daddy very eager to know the gender bah. hee..
newbbi,
take care leh.
rest more.
ting/linda/newbbi - thanks.. hee.. i think my bb wants us to start buying his clothes liao so make sure we can see cfm is boi.. coz altho one mth back we actually already saw his thingy we still no action.. so he "angry" liao! now no excuse tt we not sure then dun buy mah! haa
caitlyn, haha i always tell my hb scarli spouses r allowed but u don let mi go cos muz b wanna to do something bad behind mi!! cos the co retreat is cum half day courses loh so spouses not allow to go! but at least his co gd loh pay f their trip anyway is compulsory wan loh!
ting, yaloh spent wkend @ home & do hsewk loh...actually f mi CNY oso v sian i don hv a habit to visit relatives wan loh...but now married liow bo bian PIL wanna to go here & there but can siam i siam wan loh cos tend to ask abt bb issue wan loh & somemore their relatives i oso dunno go there sit there dumb dumb like dat v sian wan!
linda, my mom quite modern wan so wat ever color is fine loh...but my FIL don like those dull color like red color wan cos i remember during my wedding my FIL asked hb not to wear black color jacket cos during happy occasion black is not gd loh muz wear those colorful wan loh..so when i go my IL plc will try to wear more colorful wan loh!
ting/jam,
i kind of like CNY, cos maybe i very close to my relatives. as for hb side, still got talk to some of his relatives lah. so still ok!
jam,
think my FIl also dun like dull colour one, but nobody cares, cos my MIL will tell him off when he tell us y, wear until like that! hahahaha... my MIL quite modern also, so is my dad.
i kind of like CNY, cos maybe i very close to my relatives. as for hb side, still got talk to some of his relatives lah. so still ok!
jam,
think my FIl also dun like dull colour one, but nobody cares, cos my MIL will tell him off when he tell us y, wear until like that! hahahaha... my MIL quite modern also, so is my dad.