(2005) Brides of year 2005
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mornin all.. had a gd trip =D i sat in the car w my hb in sepang. so scary! i was holdin on to dear life!! he was cornerin at 100km! but reali an experience! keke.. went shoppin at mid valley mall at nite, it was super big!
daphne/linda- do u rem hvg sore boobs few days after u O? so weird leh.. it's pain nw n i am only in 6DPO
daphne/linda- do u rem hvg sore boobs few days after u O? so weird leh.. it's pain nw n i am only in 6DPO
All,
so fast hor, our BBQ is next sat =)...I so excited...
Food - ordered
Pit - booked
Present - bought
Me quarrel with hb yesterday..On cold war now =(.... haiz...dun feel like going home today, want to li jia chu zhou...hee....jokin glah, wan to go back, sit down to have a good talk lor...haiz...
so fast hor, our BBQ is next sat =)...I so excited...
Food - ordered
Pit - booked
Present - bought
Me quarrel with hb yesterday..On cold war now =(.... haiz...dun feel like going home today, want to li jia chu zhou...hee....jokin glah, wan to go back, sit down to have a good talk lor...haiz...
newbbi,
what happen??
no more discharge leow.
crossing my fingers.
so sad, cant attend the BBQ.
daphne,
what about you? discharge stopped?
SWIMMIMG??? think you better wait after your 1st trismester lah. i told my hb also that after 1st trismeter, i am going for my yoga in the gym.
ting,
tml flying leow ah!!
what happen??
no more discharge leow.
crossing my fingers.
so sad, cant attend the BBQ.
daphne,
what about you? discharge stopped?
SWIMMIMG??? think you better wait after your 1st trismester lah. i told my hb also that after 1st trismeter, i am going for my yoga in the gym.
ting,
tml flying leow ah!!
Daphne + suishi,
Cos hb called me at abt 2+Pm to ask me go over his dept to eat some snacks which my colleagues has made. I told him its raining now and I will go over later.Then i put down the phone and do my work.Then my boss,me and my colleague was at a meeting til 4+pm. So after the meeting, I called hb, told him tmr then I eat the snack cos was busy just now.He told me "I expect you to say this liao"! Then I abit pissed off.I was supposed to meet some forum mummies to go dawson's place to shop for HK items, then i told them I not going liao cos wan to settle this with hb.No mood also =(.
So we took the van home, then dabao dinner near my place.throughout the whole nite, we nv talk.He was watching his sports chanel ESPN in the living room while I was watching in my mbr.
Then this morning, he woke up 1st, patted me so hard and said "what time do u still want to sleep until!!", thats it lor, I so angry, told him off...
Then I told him I got limit to my temper lor...me already bery patient and ren liao...so I sms him just now,ask him wat is worng with him and wat he is unhappy about.We have to walk this route for the rest of our life, if he is going to be like that, how to we walk down this road together.
He replied me, said he not in good mood, dun wan to start a quarel with me. I tol dhim i din start this quarel lor, its him who start it...Just becos I nv go over to eat the snacks and let him wait for so long, he get angry...The more I tink of it, the more "huo" i am...Seriously din wan to go home tonite...But i wan to settle this thing and not escape from it lor...haiz...so fan...duno wats wrong lor...Sometime tink its good not to have bb yet...anything happens, no kids will be involved.....
Cos hb called me at abt 2+Pm to ask me go over his dept to eat some snacks which my colleagues has made. I told him its raining now and I will go over later.Then i put down the phone and do my work.Then my boss,me and my colleague was at a meeting til 4+pm. So after the meeting, I called hb, told him tmr then I eat the snack cos was busy just now.He told me "I expect you to say this liao"! Then I abit pissed off.I was supposed to meet some forum mummies to go dawson's place to shop for HK items, then i told them I not going liao cos wan to settle this with hb.No mood also =(.
So we took the van home, then dabao dinner near my place.throughout the whole nite, we nv talk.He was watching his sports chanel ESPN in the living room while I was watching in my mbr.
Then this morning, he woke up 1st, patted me so hard and said "what time do u still want to sleep until!!", thats it lor, I so angry, told him off...
Then I told him I got limit to my temper lor...me already bery patient and ren liao...so I sms him just now,ask him wat is worng with him and wat he is unhappy about.We have to walk this route for the rest of our life, if he is going to be like that, how to we walk down this road together.
He replied me, said he not in good mood, dun wan to start a quarel with me. I tol dhim i din start this quarel lor, its him who start it...Just becos I nv go over to eat the snacks and let him wait for so long, he get angry...The more I tink of it, the more "huo" i am...Seriously din wan to go home tonite...But i wan to settle this thing and not escape from it lor...haiz...so fan...duno wats wrong lor...Sometime tink its good not to have bb yet...anything happens, no kids will be involved.....
newbbi- i also cold war w hb on sat nite when we were in KL. we were in adidas shop n saw this shirt v nice so ask him to buy thn he kept sayin dun wan dun wan. thn duno y i jus retorted, 'wah lao can u jus buy 1 new shirt instead of keep wearin ur 'lok kok' tees!' wah thn he buey song liao, n pushed me! n angrily said, i dun like u to shame me in public! thn i realised i was in the wrong so apologised to him. but he stil gv me a black face! so tats it. i mean i said sorry alrdy lor! din hew him at all for the rest of the nite!!
newbbi - me not going anywhere aft the trip from KL.. my SIL yday evening told me and hub tat shes holding her xmas party on 23dec and my MIL wan us to go and i was huh?? no choice since i oredi accepted this forum invitation..
dun get angry wif ur hub ya.. prob he woke up from the wrong side of bed and not in a good mood.. aft few days will be ok liao.. me oso often tiff wif hub over little stuffs.. he dun give in, neither do i.. it will be ok aft awhile..
dun get angry wif ur hub ya.. prob he woke up from the wrong side of bed and not in a good mood.. aft few days will be ok liao.. me oso often tiff wif hub over little stuffs.. he dun give in, neither do i.. it will be ok aft awhile..
yup daphne, will still go to bbq.. juz tat ppl in my family will face black black lah.. haha.. well......
i need to look thru past archives to see wat to bring.. forgot wat i need to bring liao.. will be bzy on 23rd coz i hv another nasi lemak lunch party.. wonder how can i eat at bbq..?!
i need to look thru past archives to see wat to bring.. forgot wat i need to bring liao.. will be bzy on 23rd coz i hv another nasi lemak lunch party.. wonder how can i eat at bbq..?!
ting,
haiz....but now okie liao? haiz, menz are like that hor, want face and pride..haiz..
janf,
oh dear, so u told your MIL and SIL that you can't go to their party liao?
haiz..ya lor, but I dunlike the feeling of cold war lor, me is someone who wants to settle this type of thing once and for all, dun like to drag...so tonite I am goign to grill him and make him talk...if tmr u dun see me in this forum, means I cried til too late and then din come to work..haha..
There was one time sometime this year when the world cup started, then we dun have ESPN then, so he always go bk to PIL hse to watch and then leave me alone at home since i dun wan to go over..then one nite i super pissed off...then we quarel til 4am in the morning..i was crying til my eyes swollen so both of us next day din go work...haiz...
I mean i might look gentle on the outside,but i also have my temper one lor...I am already bery patient liao..haiz..maybe guys tend to take fo rgranted lor...i seldom throw temper one lor..haiz...well, ope all this will go away soon =D.
haiz....but now okie liao? haiz, menz are like that hor, want face and pride..haiz..
janf,
oh dear, so u told your MIL and SIL that you can't go to their party liao?
haiz..ya lor, but I dunlike the feeling of cold war lor, me is someone who wants to settle this type of thing once and for all, dun like to drag...so tonite I am goign to grill him and make him talk...if tmr u dun see me in this forum, means I cried til too late and then din come to work..haha..
There was one time sometime this year when the world cup started, then we dun have ESPN then, so he always go bk to PIL hse to watch and then leave me alone at home since i dun wan to go over..then one nite i super pissed off...then we quarel til 4am in the morning..i was crying til my eyes swollen so both of us next day din go work...haiz...
I mean i might look gentle on the outside,but i also have my temper one lor...I am already bery patient liao..haiz..maybe guys tend to take fo rgranted lor...i seldom throw temper one lor..haiz...well, ope all this will go away soon =D.
newbbi, maybe instead of drilling him, u can just write him a note and tell him how u felt and what hurts you? cos sometimes, drilling may make things worse.... it could really be a case of him being in a bad mood and nothing else..... i also don't like to drag one but sometimes, i feel that drilling may not help cos it just makes us dig up more past like "u also did that the other time" etc..... so i tried the approach of writing him a super long email telling him what he has done that hurt me and how i felt and this actually works. (but not all the times lah) cos sometimes, he may know that it's his fault but too proud to admit it and by drilling it, it makes him looks worse so by being the damsel in distress, it may make him feel guilty....
found jenn's old posting liao!
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Sauce
SDL - sambal chilli, margarine, chili sauce, extra sausages (x50)
Newbbi – Ketchup, honey, trash bag, cooked otah (70pcs)
Accessories
Watashi – Forks, spoons, knifes, tongs, cups, large paper plates, curry, agar agar, Japanese fruity jelly
Janf – Large oil brush, serviettes, aluminium tray, aluminimum foil
Others
Daphne - bottles of wine
Jenn - 10pkt (100pcs) chicken hotdogs
Ting - fried bee hoon
Caitlyn - bottles of soft drinks, charcoal and wiremesh and firestarter stuffs
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Sauce
SDL - sambal chilli, margarine, chili sauce, extra sausages (x50)
Newbbi – Ketchup, honey, trash bag, cooked otah (70pcs)
Accessories
Watashi – Forks, spoons, knifes, tongs, cups, large paper plates, curry, agar agar, Japanese fruity jelly
Janf – Large oil brush, serviettes, aluminium tray, aluminimum foil
Others
Daphne - bottles of wine
Jenn - 10pkt (100pcs) chicken hotdogs
Ting - fried bee hoon
Caitlyn - bottles of soft drinks, charcoal and wiremesh and firestarter stuffs
newbbi- ya, ok le. usu he wun be angry w me for too long one. nxt day wil be bk to normal liao =D hv a nice talk w ur hb. stay tog bound to argue over the little things but dun let this affect ur r/s!
suishi- nt yet! haha.. but noe roughly wat to bring liao =D maybe wil start pack sm stuff tonite.. reali lookin fwd! cos maybe the last hol b4 bb cm le...
suishi- nt yet! haha.. but noe roughly wat to bring liao =D maybe wil start pack sm stuff tonite.. reali lookin fwd! cos maybe the last hol b4 bb cm le...
newbbi,
cool down cool down...
in life, there is also ups and downs. quarrel between couple is part and parcel of marriage life.
i agree with daphne that instead of grilling him, you can write to him and tell him how you feel.
this is what i normally does when my hb make me very sad. i would either write a card or sms him to tell him my feeling and how he had hurt me.
but we dun quarrel. when i am upset or angry i will just keep quiet, and hb will knows that he said something or did something that upset me and he will be very scare (most of the time, he will give in, cos always he is the one to cause the problem).
but when i am in the fault, i would apologise loh. he will have black face lah, but we cool off very fast one, next day ok leow. generally, both of us dun like to quarrel and we are rather patient person.
cool down cool down...
in life, there is also ups and downs. quarrel between couple is part and parcel of marriage life.
i agree with daphne that instead of grilling him, you can write to him and tell him how you feel.
this is what i normally does when my hb make me very sad. i would either write a card or sms him to tell him my feeling and how he had hurt me.
but we dun quarrel. when i am upset or angry i will just keep quiet, and hb will knows that he said something or did something that upset me and he will be very scare (most of the time, he will give in, cos always he is the one to cause the problem).
but when i am in the fault, i would apologise loh. he will have black face lah, but we cool off very fast one, next day ok leow. generally, both of us dun like to quarrel and we are rather patient person.
linda, u sama sama as me.... if i am very quiet, then hb will know that either i'm upset or angry liao.... and he will ask me what i'm unhappy about.... but if it's my fault, then of cos he will also black face even after i apologize so what i do is i will leave him alone cos i think he just needs to cool it off..... but i always tell myself that no point being so angry over so trivial stuff lor.....