(2005) Brides of year 2005

janf - now no more such good subsidies liao.. if go kk, will just be cheaper if i go under subsidised care like other patients lor.. civil servants got no more such good benefits lor! tt's y i wanna go watashi's company! haha..

linda - i think my combined salary haven't hit 5k also..
 


last yr i spent $1K+ on a facial pkg and pay thru the nose thru instalments for 12mths! really kena screamed from my hub. haha.
 
All,

My hb and I salary also din hit 6k lor, dun even hit 5k lor..guess i am the poorest here/ heehee,..


DAphne,
so is yours consider positive? i blur liao..

As for my expenses, as follows:-

Allowance for my mum : $700
HP bill : $120
CC Bill : $1000+ for te past 2mths cos went too many holidays liao..haiz..
Insurance : $120
Food + outing : $200

Spent alot these few mths...haiz....really difficult to save up...

Sometimes hb have to help me pay my bills...hee
 
Ha ha,
Me oso signed up a slimming package with sensualite for $2.7K just one month before my AD, and now still paying for installment, i opt for 24mths...and now oso stopped going there for slimming lao, hb not aware, he tot i keep going cos of the unused package which i signed in 2004.
 
ting, ya i share with him lor cos now i'm actually earning more than my hb cos he started working later than me by 2 - 3 years so i have to help co-share the car .... but i think somehow my spending for the last 2 - 3 mths is a lot and he has been paying alone so sometimes, i'll tt the $$ to him when i remember.... haha..... but he ok lah, never complain to me.
 
oic caitlyn.. my MIL is still under the scheme where all her medical bills are paid for till the day she conk off.. and she luvs going to hospitals for chk-ups! every mth she will go polyclinic duno chk wat, then every qtr will go SGH and every yr will go KK for duno wat again.. she juz went for a sleeping test last mon which cost $1300 alone! but all fully paid for lah so she juz go lor.. my FIL oways make fun of her say hospitals is her 2nd home..
 
looks like everyone's expenditure very high hor.. like dat how to save? some more i like to eat good foodn take cabs.. sighz.. must learn to be more controlled liao!
 
newbbi, can consider me as still no have cos the cheapo kit is not reliable at all..... so clearblue still says -ve as of now..... will test again these few days.... and if still -ve, then i will go and see doc to see why menses haven't arrived.
 
janf - yah lor.. last time e benefits very good.. at least u dun have to worry abt ur PILs medical bills in future if they ever fall ill.. me n hb very very worried abt tt in e future..

daphne - u're wrong tt cheapo not reliable.. if not so sensitive still can pick up sth.. means sld be high chance! stay positive.. plus i think u left e clearblue for too long tt's y..
 
caitlyn, me also like to eat good food esp jap food.... but sometimes hb will say, this mth expenses is very high so go to my mum's place to eat and save $$.... he will always use save $$ to buy house to stop me of any temptations..... see lah, we haven't even included the house thingy yet leh already 2k for myself..... sometimes i wonder if hb will be too stressed out or not.... heng, he got his monthly income from his martial class so that alone can cover his side for the car loan and petrol.
 
ting,
thanks.
i also hope that you will be the next one.
we shall pray together to strike.
Last week, just went for my hb's friend bb's 1st mth. his friend, also tried for very long then the wife preggie.
before we left, his friend asked us when is our turn, then my hb look at me and i look at him! then told his friend, "trying v hard! really not easily leh!"

hahahaha... after this 2 mths of trying, my hb is getting more gan chong than me leow!
 
Daphne,
ic...dun give up ya....jia you =). Maybe over stressed at work thats y menses delayed? Mine ended today...

Caitlyn,
I also like to eat good food lor...I loved crabs too...hb also can't stand me..keke..

Ya lor, expenses are alot leh...hmm...now i must fan xin3 liao =)...cos hb paying for the hse things like bills etc...so sometimes he will ang at me if I buy too many hello kitty things..hee

All,
Anyone has lobang of jobs like working in starhub, M1 or singtel those backend jobs or work in HP shop? cos my bro looking for job now...Next mth then he going for his checkup =).

He has not been working for 9mths liao so he say he wants to work again lor...

I told my hb that next time we can pay by instal for our holidays, he is against it..sayin gthat after we enjoy, then come bk got to pay debts, bery kelian one...hee...
 
daphne- icic.. my hb sm times wil complain tat i dun help to pay for the car thn i jus act blur! haha

caitlyn- me v v worried abt my parents' medical bills too. both of them no insurance n savings! i dread to tink abt the future!

yes yes linda! hope u, me, daphne strike soon thn all our bbs wil be the same age!! keke
 
caitlyn, we are still looking but i think i have sort of decided to find somewhere nearer to town so gotta see all over again.... reason is for the past 1 week, i need to go work early and we end up sleeping over at my mum's place.... then for the other days, the AYE is getting more and more jammed esp when we leave the house slightly late.... so getting a bit fed up liao.... so i told hb, cannot be next time we got house in Jurong but still go my mum's place to sleep if either of us needs to go work earlier mah..... so we or i decide to look for those flats at redhill area.... but it will be a much older flat like 15 - 25 years old flat and maybe 4rm instead cos 5 yr old flats are really beyond budget right now. but if really preggie, then i guess the two things will come at the same time but will only move in after bb is born cos my mum is very pantang one.... cannot move when preggie and before bb is 1 mth.... but if this month really not preggie then i will step up in my efforts for the house liao....
 
linda - must tell ur hb.. 2 mths only.. not considered alot!! hee..

newbbi - haha.. can imagine lah.. he work hard to pay bills then everyday come home one new hello kitty looking at him! hahah

ting - yah lor.. i super worried abt tt.. my parents have some insurance but my PIL dun have..

daphne - oic.. my mil also pantang so i intend to move in after birth.. i wish to settle all renos before giving birth.. then e 3 of us can have our own place.. hee.. was jokng tt bb wanted to stay new hse tt's y play hide n seek until we decided to buy one! haha
 
ting, i am heng that my mum is very pro insurance so i no need worry about her medical bills ... actually i think i'm like overinsured cos i'm only paying partially for my insurance.... my mum is paying for the other half....
 
wah lao.. all mentioning abt hsehold bills and expenditure

anyway went to kl for the seminar.. now on the road to $ freedom kekeke.. so hope done deal and elimination of complaints on bills from 08' onwards :D
 
daphne - hee.. actually if u looking for matured estates, u'll be surprised tt 5-rm may be more affordable cash-wise.. coz 4-rm flats more in demand so owners tend to ask for more cash... as opposed to 5-rmers.. dun think too much.. go get e test kit i rec later then test tmr first thing in e morning.. n READ E INSTRUCTIONS! haha
 
caitlyn, ok will go and buy the recommended kit later in the evening.... i think hb sure gonna shake his head again... saying how many times do i need to test..... one min tell him got chance and one min tell him no chance.... until he also sian already..... say wait till doc confirm then he consider +ve...
ya, so now i'm doing my homework on the specific areas that i am aiming and will pass the list to my agent..... i think he gonna kill me too for wasting his time the last 5 mths looking at jurong flats... haha.....
 
daphne - tt time i first tested positive.. it was super farnee.. coz it was my CD47 liao.. which is one day shorter than the longest cycle.. so i told hb, just let me test and thn i'll stop thinking i'm preggy and can stop wandering.. the min a faint line cme, screamed and shouted for hb to come to e room! hahaha.. hands shaking, eyes tearing lor! darned drama!
 
ting,
hahahaha... good luck to all of us.

caitlyn,
initially, b4 trying i already tell him that i will not be so easy. not as if you try only have. he choose not to believe me loh. now after 2mths of trying, he strongly agree that its not easy at all. hahaha.. so from very relax to a bit gan chong leow.



jenn/ting,
for us, all household expenses are from our joint a/c. since now got car, hb contribute a bit lesser to joint a/c to pay for installment and petrol. so other personnal expenses at own cost.
 
sdl - hi.. thot u run away liao! haha

daphne - soon soon.. maybe it's tmr morning! hahaha...

linda - hee.. think my hb was very realistic.. he nvr gan cheong leh.. or maybe he dun gan cheong in front of me lah.. hee
 
hehe Ting.. yep.. why? miss me ar? keke..

Ting.. still wanna share with u and hb lor.. can seriously cut some of your expenses and transport, at same time earn like no other co. like others blindly claimed
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sdl - keke.. run far far away! hee

ting - haha.. used to be tt i think it's very easy coz ard us always hear abt accidents mah! haha.. i very silly one.. dunno abt O period and all.. i thot dun use condom means can preggy liao! even if only bond once a week! silly hor!
 
caitlyn,
at least you bond once a week, got chance lor...me bond twice a mth got chance meh? haiz..

SDL,
Just to keep you updated...berry can be discharged today liao...her bb so cute..

Watahsi is preggie too lor =).
 
highness - how abt u? hee..

newbbi - hee.. once a week.. sometimes can be once a mth k.. my hb very poor thing.. haha.. coz now is ZERO..haha
 
ting - hee.. he diy lor.. i dun dare to bond now.. hee.. ever since i noe i preggy.. haha.. also no mood coz every nite will giddy, bloated, pukey, sleepy.. dun even want him to touch me at all.. will actully feel it hurts.. lke when he wants to sayang me i dun want! haha
 
me? still lidat lor.. no plan for baby yet.. hb got other plans so baby gotta wait bah..

O ya.. CONGRATS to caitlyn n watashi!
good luck to all too..
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caitlyn,
i know he is gan cheong from his action and speech. hahaha... sometime i will sound him out also loh. hee..

ting,
hahha...think all guys think the same.

newbbi,
actually this mth, i rather relax. not really thinking of it. its my hb! hahaaha..

got bb's photo to post here! wanna see the bb's cute face.

sdl,
y, you wanna run away from us?
we so bad meh?
 
Daphne,
the problem is, I dun like to keep track lor..like bery troublesome cos got to keep track all the time...Already told my hb, if in 2mths time we going to bond only twice a mth, if relatives and others ask why so long haven got bb, I will tell them nv even bond, how to have bb...kee...I mean sometimes I get frustrated lor..really...

Maybe we are too busy or hb has no mood...He told me he gana stressed by me ...cos i always told him how come bonding so fast one...so I guess i got to remind myself not to mention any time factor as this will stress him and his performance *wink*

All,
ask u all hor, dun mind ya...how long can you all bond? 30mins? 1hr? Just curious lor...

cailtyn,
Got bb liao, can bond but try not to lor...

Maybe you can help him diy lor...bo bianz leh cos he sure got needs one...

SDL,
okie...
 
caitlyn,
tink stil can bond from 2nd trimster onwards rite? My hb told me cannot bond once preggi liao so I told him up to him lor...

Tink should be able to bond also hor? Will it hurt the bb...hmm..so curious leh...
 


newbbi, aiyo, technically u only need 4 mins and all can be settled..... that's quickie. but of cos there will be days when it's longer session lah but not all the time.... where got so much time..... sometimes i also just want to chopchop and get it done cos quite tiring leh. those simi few hours one hor, i think only applies to those new couples in r/s or really in a relax mood like in hols or if not, then will be in those porno shows and story books ba.....
 
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