(2005) Brides of year 2005
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just to share lah.. tt time when i just started TTC.. i was a bit kan cheong and all.. hee.. then coz i had a bit of prob w intercourse, we din do it very often and i kept thinkng i was not able to conceive.. later realised it's coz i wasn't even considered as trying coz only like BD once a week or less..
then coz of my irregular menses, came abt once every 2 weeks for abt 3 mths after my marriage, i went to see a dr to check.. was told tt everything looks okie..
finally went to see a gynae, told tt i have PCOS, hormonal imbalance, and near impossible to get preggy.. tt was in june.. also ard tt time tt i learn abt OPKs and all.. so i count june as e mth tt i really TTC.. who noes, despite wat all e docs say abt me not being able to conceive, i did after 2 mths (coz only 2 cycles in tt 3 mths) i did.. so moral of story is.. dun be too kan cheong like me.. and if i can also conceive despite all e med reports sying otherwise.. all of u can too..
sorry i so lor sor.. but sometimes i think of e roller coaster ride i went thru.. i hope no one will have to go thru it.. imagine one of e docs i saw told me my results werre worse than tt of a MENOPAUSAL woman.. i really cry like shit tt day!
then coz of my irregular menses, came abt once every 2 weeks for abt 3 mths after my marriage, i went to see a dr to check.. was told tt everything looks okie..
finally went to see a gynae, told tt i have PCOS, hormonal imbalance, and near impossible to get preggy.. tt was in june.. also ard tt time tt i learn abt OPKs and all.. so i count june as e mth tt i really TTC.. who noes, despite wat all e docs say abt me not being able to conceive, i did after 2 mths (coz only 2 cycles in tt 3 mths) i did.. so moral of story is.. dun be too kan cheong like me.. and if i can also conceive despite all e med reports sying otherwise.. all of u can too..
sorry i so lor sor.. but sometimes i think of e roller coaster ride i went thru.. i hope no one will have to go thru it.. imagine one of e docs i saw told me my results werre worse than tt of a MENOPAUSAL woman.. i really cry like shit tt day!
jenn,
for me,i lay on bed for abt 5 mins with pillow below then just go toilet wash up.
caitlyn,
like dat, then no choice have to do loh. but if you need help, ask our coll or students to help loh. dun strain yourself.
ting,
good luck, hope you will have good news for us.
me trying hard too, hope next mth got result.
was asking my hb whether he is disappointed that last mth my AF reported, he actually told me "YES, A BIT". i always tot he would take it rather easy, din know he was like me, will feel disappointed! hee..
daphne,
dun be sad, he will understand after start to try.
my mil, siblings, friends, coll and relatives all asking y i still not planning to give birth. hai... told them, not that i dun wan, told them, its easier said than done. haiz...
but most importantly, dun be too stress and try to relax when bonding.
for me,i lay on bed for abt 5 mins with pillow below then just go toilet wash up.
caitlyn,
like dat, then no choice have to do loh. but if you need help, ask our coll or students to help loh. dun strain yourself.
ting,
good luck, hope you will have good news for us.
me trying hard too, hope next mth got result.
was asking my hb whether he is disappointed that last mth my AF reported, he actually told me "YES, A BIT". i always tot he would take it rather easy, din know he was like me, will feel disappointed! hee..
daphne,
dun be sad, he will understand after start to try.
my mil, siblings, friends, coll and relatives all asking y i still not planning to give birth. hai... told them, not that i dun wan, told them, its easier said than done. haiz...
but most importantly, dun be too stress and try to relax when bonding.
caitlyn- guess ur hb must be beamin w joy now!
u went thru so much but yet emerge victorious!
daphne- i agree w wat caitlyn says. cannot let ur hb feel u BD only cos of bb. when i started ttc in sep, my hb said the same thing too, sad tat he's jus a sperm contributor thn i realised this bb thing was consumin me! so i decided cannot be lidat n last mth we r relaxed, jus BD when we wan to =)
daphne- i agree w wat caitlyn says. cannot let ur hb feel u BD only cos of bb. when i started ttc in sep, my hb said the same thing too, sad tat he's jus a sperm contributor thn i realised this bb thing was consumin me! so i decided cannot be lidat n last mth we r relaxed, jus BD when we wan to =)
ting/daphne,
2 mths ago when we start to try, my hb told me that getting preg so difficult meh! tot 1 or 2 time of trying can kena leow, i was like, that's what you think loh! then now after trying for 2 mths and my AF reported, then he finally realised that its not easy as what he think and start to get a bit of disappointed when my AF reported! so now he will try to help me to put pillow under my bottom and will lay down with me ard 5 mins and wait for me wash up then fall asleep.
2 mths ago when we start to try, my hb told me that getting preg so difficult meh! tot 1 or 2 time of trying can kena leow, i was like, that's what you think loh! then now after trying for 2 mths and my AF reported, then he finally realised that its not easy as what he think and start to get a bit of disappointed when my AF reported! so now he will try to help me to put pillow under my bottom and will lay down with me ard 5 mins and wait for me wash up then fall asleep.
actually i quite upset today.. haiz. was chatting wif my ma yday nite on fone then she started her 'quick hv bb' thingy again.. she said she 60 liao, only another 20yrs the max and hope can hv grandkid soon to carry.. be it boy or gal nvm as long healthy can liao..
its not somethg i hv not heard from her b4 but juz abit upset (not upset wif her but wif myself).. like im useless lor..
then hub away in US for biz trip this wk and i no one to talk to. so put the fone then i started weesping to myself in the room.. haiz. damn chiam.. tink this bb thingy really making me kuku soon..
its not somethg i hv not heard from her b4 but juz abit upset (not upset wif her but wif myself).. like im useless lor..
then hub away in US for biz trip this wk and i no one to talk to. so put the fone then i started weesping to myself in the room.. haiz. damn chiam.. tink this bb thingy really making me kuku soon..
daphne - basically, if u BD 2 - 3 times a week, u'll catch e O! hee.. tt's wat doc said.. hee..
janf - poor thing.. y u feel u useless?? u not trying yet ah? dun be too affected by wat others say.. if not ready to have bb, then force urself to just becoz of other ppl, how to take good care of urself n bb rite?
janf - poor thing.. y u feel u useless?? u not trying yet ah? dun be too affected by wat others say.. if not ready to have bb, then force urself to just becoz of other ppl, how to take good care of urself n bb rite?
compared to some of u, think i was lucky my parents and PIL were really understanding.. altho my PIL wanted kids, keep saying never mind when i told them i cldn't conceive and keep saying dun rush into things.. try talking to ur mama.. am sure they'll understand lor.. they went thru it before rite?
the_sd_spirit
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caitlyn.. actually dunno what to write and today super moody day haha.. wish can prolong my vacation and celebrate my birthday lor keke..
daphne - just stick to e 2 - 3 times a week (spread out over e week lah, not 3 days in a row type).. sld be safe.. coz spermie can stay up till 5 days.. =) dun give urself too much pressure k..
sdl -keke.. u also will run out of things to say ah? =) can understand ur moodiness lah.. me also super moody today! hee..
sdl -keke.. u also will run out of things to say ah? =) can understand ur moodiness lah.. me also super moody today! hee..
the_sd_spirit
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Caitlyn/Jenn, ya lor.. so restless..
daphne,
i never use "O" kit b4 leh. i monitor my "O" period myself. during that period, we will try to bond more often loh.
janf,
hug hug you!!!
dun be too sad, let your hb knows what your ma have told you and see what he says loh.
if both of you are ready, just try and see how loh. dun be too stress!
whenever i go my gpa house, my aunt also keep telling me that, my gpa health not very good leow, and i am the 1st grand daughter to get married and hope he can live to carry his 1st great-grandchild.
sdl,
today y you so moody?
ting,
we are the same as you too, dun have then next time try harder loh.
all,
next monday and friday, i will be on leave.
monday having my TP test, hopefuly this time can make it. friday, gg for a short getaway in Genting!
i never use "O" kit b4 leh. i monitor my "O" period myself. during that period, we will try to bond more often loh.
janf,
hug hug you!!!
dun be too sad, let your hb knows what your ma have told you and see what he says loh.
if both of you are ready, just try and see how loh. dun be too stress!
whenever i go my gpa house, my aunt also keep telling me that, my gpa health not very good leow, and i am the 1st grand daughter to get married and hope he can live to carry his 1st great-grandchild.
sdl,
today y you so moody?
ting,
we are the same as you too, dun have then next time try harder loh.
all,
next monday and friday, i will be on leave.
monday having my TP test, hopefuly this time can make it. friday, gg for a short getaway in Genting!
the_sd_spirit
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haha Linda, dun need monitor lah.. just make out every night can liao 
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Jam, we mainly go there to relax and shop for a few stuff lor.. got more of the patra stuff last time they out of stock..
the_sd_spirit
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She got a pair of undergarments and one pair for our friend lor..
the_sd_spirit
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Jam.. dining ware PP
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