(2005) Brides of year 2005


me bk too... countin dwn the hrs!!

linda- ppl reali tink its tat easy lor! haiz.. nw thn i understand, takes time.

BISH sdl aka uncle ah huat
 
ting & linda,

actually i hv no plan to start yet, but aft hearing so many ppl say planning is not so easy tink i muz start to do planning aft i hv settled my hm!
 
ting/jam,
really not easily loh.

one of my friend tried or 3 years till now still no news. initially i really tot easy. but since i start to try, then i know what she meant by not easy loh.
 
my SIL oso hv been trying of 1yr liow still no news...so my sis hv been telling mi beter to start planning...is not like dat easi dat u plan then will hv it wan loh...
 
actually over the wkend mi hv hb hv a causal tok abt bb...if we hv bb who r going to help us look aft our bb....f mi of course i prefer my mom but hb wan his parents to take care loh...so give got bb oso headache who to take care!
 
jam- ya no harm to start plannin earlier. i regretted startin only last mth! tot can strike thn swee swee gv birth nxt jun hols.. but it's not meant to be. haiz
 
i got a fren who only started plannin after 4 yrs of marriage. tried for 1 yr n stil no news. also mainly cos they not that young le, my fren in her mid thirties n her hb alrdy late thirties le...
 
actually not tat easy… not all try 1st time can strike…dun give up hope lo…still must try..my friend try 3 years then recently got preg…she’s so happy…
u gals jia you ok... i throw all the bb dust to u all la… dun get so stressed up… actually give birth liao who take care also headache…jam I also wan my mum 2 take care…but my mil say she wanna take care…no choice let her take care lo… as long got pple take care I happi liao… if not must engage bbsitter or maid… bu fang xin
 
ting, i got 2 fren oso advice not to wait few years then start planning...they regret oso loh cos they thought er ren shi jie f 1st few years then start who noes 1 of them hv been trying almost 2yrs then got bb the other wan still trying until now still no news yet!!
 
jam- at least u got both sides wana help to take care! mine is no one lor! my mum said gv birth 1st lah, sure got ppl wan to take care one =_=
 
yup, agree wif berry.. as long got ppl take care good enuff liao.. if not put in infant care oso chiam.. prone to sickness more..

since ur MIL say she wana take care, juz let her be lor.. afterall its a boy, naturally will wana take care of own grandson.. can ustand lah..

for my case, tink my ma wldnt wana take care unless i shove it to her! coz my ma wana enjoy life and not stuck wif a bb everyday.. at our mums' age, taking care of a bb is no joke.. worse than we sit in ofc facing the pc..
 
berry, u oso wanna yr mom to take care huh...cos i tink more easy to tok to our mom rather than MIL loh...now i'm staying near my mom so i tink more fan bian to ask my mom to take care furthermore i juz don like the way my PIL take care of kids...too bao bei!!
 
jam - tats wat i tink so too but sometimes when u KanBuShunYan certain thgs tat old folks do, cannot tick them off leh.. esp for MILs.. if own mothers is different..
 
sdl what u watching?some artistic shows huh?
janf,yalor ask me take care of kid at home,I also dun wan.
jam,of coz own mum betta,if I dun like what she do,I can say her,but I cannot say my inlaws what…I just have to endure…if not sure always quarrel…
 
jam- ya both stil wrkg. mil alrdy indirectly said she dun wan to be bugged dwn w a bb so we get the hint liao. my mum cant quit her job also, lots of financial commitments! she can take care on ad hoc basis but nt everyday affair..
 
actuali, when ILs take care of bb we juz close one eye lor.. they are doing us a favour only..

beery - will u give ur MIL extra $ for taking care of ur bb? somethg like a 'salary'?? my coll give her IL $800/mth.. i hear liao nearly faintz..
 
janf, ya loh...i got tell my hb dat too loh! imagine her niece now pri 1 liow still got to urine at tum pui & bath using the bb basin (those red color 1 when bb bathing use wan)i was like so shock so i tell my hb yr niece so big liow leh i can't stand the way they take care her loh!
 
caitlyn,ya mil doin confinement 4 mi..actually i wanna engage…but she v fast say she will do it for me…so I ok lor…also save $ in a way..but hor I cant complain if the food not nice…
 
janf,will give my mil ard 800 for doing confinement…plus monthly allowance that my hb give her… when I go back work, prob need to give her a sum of $ every mth… she also poor thing…she taking after my nephew my bil nvr give her any $...
no matter how good ur inlaws are…still got times when they dun like u the way u do things den they will either complain 2 ur other relatives or ur hb…
jus close 1 eye…sometimes they complain abt my sil…so I think they will sure complain abt me…I jus endure…think nxt time they move in,I will try not to talk so much or complain too much…complain to own mum betta…
 
janf & berry, i tink if yr mom or yr MIL take care sure muz give them $$$!! even now my hb sometimes go my mom plc f dinner i oso give extra $$
 
berry, cos my PIL plc toilet is squat 1 so i tink dis is the reason bah...stil i can't take it loh...i tell my mom abt it my mom oso faint!!
 
gd news? finally confirm after 6mths of probation.. haha.. consider gd news anot...

so beside berry, on one else becoming mummy soon ar?
 
SDL, u siao ar... i where got preggy, hahahaha...
gonna bluf by my msn msg, hahahaha...
today i married for 10mths liao lah! kekeke..
 


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