daphne - i also similar to u.. but now i've decided tt unpleasant surprise come now, better than later.. at least now gives me a window of time to deal w it.. anyway, most of e time sld be okies one..
ting - yup.. i decided liao.. coz if after check up anything wrong, can stick w the gynae, if nothing wrong, she at least noe my history/background next time when i pregnant then can help better.. keke.. i gg to one tt a gal on forum rec.. see after the first visit.. if i comfy w her, will just stick w her.. =) my hb quite supportive of me gg.. esp after i tell him all e horror stories.. plus my menses so irregualr and all. so better to just check.. =)NO NO to chinese medicine!! i cannot tahan!
i heard also can have blood tests where both hb and wife take to see if anything will be "genetically wrong" w bb.. but this one i not too sure.. anyone noes?