(2005) Brides of year 2005


thats why hor.. lucky my parents/PIL not traditional.. even if they traditional I also ear-in-ear-out. Now its my life liao lor.. wun let them influence new gen way of thinking..
 
ya lor... old thinking... but very sad leh... but old pple they have their own kind of thinking too... hard to understand...

if i am the mil, surely feel unfillial like that...
 
hub's gran stay in a 1room flat in amk alone. theres these few blks in amk (oppo bishan park) tats specially cater for elderly. but of coz now she cant be going back to the 1room flat coz how can she cope herself.. its either she come back to my hse (which is my ILs hse) now and stay then when she knows shes abt to go, quickly tell us so tat we can put her in a hospice. coz cancer is not a overnite gone thingy.. its slow death lor..

hub's maternal gran oredi implanted into my MIL's brain eons ago tat pass off in our home is cfm no-no so MIL knows lah.. common understanding..
 
was telling my ma the story few days back and she say she understand too coz her fren oso lidat.. then my family only me and my sis so.... sama sama in future bah.. *choy choy!*
 
Linda,
we also agreed to try end of the year lor..but i worried accident lor..haha....Tink most likely i too stressed up with my bro's things lor...
 
choy daphne!! it really depends on ur MIL lah. if she not pantang then okie lor. for my case coz we got ancestors tablets at home so betta stick to the rules..

paiseh for posting such a heavy topic when berry is expecting.. we shd be talking more happy stuffs.. =P
 
jenn- beta nt lah. later he bish me! haha. since he agrees to plan in sep, shall guai guai listen to him =D

old ppl r lidat lor. their traditional tinking tat sons r beta, daughters wil be married out..
 
me also only child...*CHOY CHOY*
so poor thing... really must follow it meh? so pitiful leh...gonna leave the world liao still must accommodate to the rest...
 
janf..its ok la...
even i'm expecting, my family matters also in a mess...hahaha
my bil issue really neverending...even we dun wan to bother but somehow it still haunts us...
the final thing is my inlaws will move and stay with us... sigh...
 
duh duh duh.. haiz.. why now we talking abt death ar? wah lao..

Berry, my PIL also request to stay with us in new hse within next few yrs.. I say cannot straight away! keke.. they even offered to pay us rent.. siao.. all the more I wun let them..
 
huh sdl, how come got wifey's pama wana stay wif son-in-law one?! i 1st time hear! my pama wun wana stay wif me. they say stay at their yishun flat best!, say now new hses so small. make a turn oso bump into each other.. haha.
 
janf & all,
maybe next time when its our turn, all these old traditional thingy all abolish leow.

berry,
your in laws moving in with you?
bcos of their grandchild? or....

so far think my hb still very guai lah.
 
Linda.. exactly.. our end time is new era liao.. I dun care where I die lor.. my request is simple.. burn me and disperse my ashes in the ocean can liao.. :D
 
my hb did say nxt time maybe his parents wana stay w us after his bro gets married cos no pt 2 ppl stay in condo. my 1st reaction NO WAY!!!

berry- cfm they stayin w u huh??
 
hes terrible... sort of make my inlaws to sell away their hse now... den no choice we got to let them stay with us...
he's aiming their $$$ i think... but my mil adore him...no choice lo...
i dunno what they wanna do also... bil going to renovate their new hse... and move in without my inlaws... which make me SOOOOO surprised...dunno what evil thoughts he having again...
really feel very angry but what i can do??
 
janf, actually my mum wish to stay with me leh..... she hinted many times if i will leave her a room to stay over .... very stressed cos hb says we should also leave room for my mil... so i just told my mum that i'll find a place near to her so she can pop by anytime lor....
 
Janf, ok their hse now is gonna be thrashed out soon, so en-bloc it vy near kallang mrt. they intend to sell it and stay with us. with that reasoning.. I beh gam liao.. I refuse them straightaway..
 
sdl - i still dun see the pt lor.. does JC has any bros? its ok for daphne's ma to make her request since daphne is only child but..

tink daphne's oso headache.. coz if u hv a room for ur ma, ur MIL shd oso hv her own room..

ting - ur reaction so big ah?! haha.

berry - ur MIL cannot see for herself wat her good son has done huh?! how can lidat..

i oso forsee my ILs to stay wif me in future.. prob 15yrs later lah.. coz my ILs still healthy and able now.. and they are the open-minded sort who wun wana bother us now..
 
ya lah berry cool down lah.. dun make me go to you and pour liquid nitrogen :D

hahaha.. actually end 5 yrs we expect it to raise to at least 430k, then I can upgrade liao..
 
Janf, they wanna earn and save $$$ mah.. using us as backbone. even my parents also got their own plc for their retirement liao.
JC is middle of the 2 other siblg.. all bros somemore..

Caitlyn I dunno.. maybe busy lor..
 
sdl,
you lidat say not scare JC angry hor... later pull your ears ah...

berry,
its not the time to get upset and angry. not good for your bb. must also stay happy.
let your hb go settle all these prob.
 
sdl - then ur PIL shd stay wif the sons!! by rite mah, how can by left now?? *jialat, wait JC comes in and see i side sdl wait bish me*
 
ting - ur hub is only son or got other sons?

me no need do hsework coz got maid at home now.. keke. but come next yr siao liao.. coz i dun tink my MIL gona renew the maid's contract.. then i cfm become maid coz she wun ask her daug (my SIL EVERYDAY at my pl one) to do..
 
Linda.. I told JC liao.. I was not pleased lor. JC din say anything, and we convey to PIL liao. I wun keep quiet wan I will say out.

Daphne.. selling it back to resale mkt is already being subj to open mkt prices. so price will increase.
 
talking abt maid hor.. my mum told me my maid reads our mails we threw in my rubbish bin. Stupid idiot, lucky nothing important.. better lock impt stuff properly in presence of maids..
 
janf, he has a younger bro. his mum is cleaniness freak! tats y if stay w her, i sure peng san one!
we only do hse wk once a wk. even washin/ironin of clothes. usu wk days once reach hm, bathe n slp liao. no time at all!
i also nt used to do hsewk cos my mum's plc got maid. no nid to worry at all!
 
sdl - dun scare me leh! i oways tear up my mails b4 throwing into my room's bin. but my goondu hub juz read and throw; dun tear. then i tell him wait maid take it and read then u know. he hahaha. faintz. my ofc no shreader, if not i wld hv bring to ofc shread liao..

my coll's wifey damn scared of maid read her junks so she bot a shreader put at home to shread her mails..!
 
hi hi ladies..
so are we gg for steamboat this time round also? or any other suggestions?

hi hi janice..
u not able to make it ahh..do come along lah..long time no see u leh..
 
Janf, u know.. my mum caught her reading my sis' magazines lying down at sis' bed!!! god knows what else she capable of. Serious lor.. better beware of maids.. our maid is Indo.. Philp lagi worst of the worstest.. scully bring their bf home and "do" there..
 

Berry, learning English I suppose.. she dunno how to read english.. haha. Oh yea.. mum try to test mkt.. left a few coins up to $10 on table and eye on her. she even dare keep it! and when she ask her where the coins.. maid say she dun know!!! win liao..
 
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