Hi stars,
i wil hav my T ceremony at new house and my mum's house, wil skip husband house.My mum in law and me share same sentiments, mess up 2 houses instead of 3 better, she wil help to tidy the new house after the buffet. Morever usualy T ceremony muz be infront of ancestors / guan yin altar. As MIL's house did not pray, we agreed its fine if we didnt go in law house on AD. Dont stress out abt this arrangment, i quoted wat Mrs wee mentioned : No need to take everyone's word for it, listen to your own heart & parents.