(2005) Brides of year 2005

my mum knows me & hb paying for dinner.. so she say she will not keep all the AP...
if she wanna keep,will let her keep too...
pin jin given by inlaw.. shld be 4 digits but on the low side..
 


berry,
so u tink 4 digit better lah...izzit market rate?? cos i told my hb mi going to chk market rate & ifm him lor..
 
my mum more understanding... coz my hb side help to chip in more for the hse...so cant ask them to pay everything...
u r right..sometimes.. have to tell some white lies...to make everyone happy except ourselves...
theres always no perfect situation one lo...
i think at least 1k looks nicer...think ur mum will also return some...
but... some pple realli have different views on pinjin...sometimes mum say chin chai..but doesnt mean they dun have certain expectations...
dun really have market rate...it can range from anything from few hundreds to few thousands... i got a friend mum asked for 6k...
 
Snowy,
you can dun take 2 albums but topped up for the extra photos to your inital album and change it to mag style rite? cos i did that lor
 
Hi gals..
Yesterday plan the itinerary for HM. realise no time to go Sydney and will fly direct to NZ, Christchurch. We map the route out and need at least 15days.. minus out 2 days of flying left 13 days.. No time to go Sydney liao...
Thanks for the info on Sydney....

Hi wendy
thanks very much for your SIL itinerary. I follow the route and realise it is really good. Except for accomodation. we might change lor...
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But one sad news, as we book too late.. we are still on waitlist on the flight... sob sob.. if no, we maybe go short trip liao...
 
berry same here..mine on fri, urs earlier...so gd, urs much more efficient den mine huh, i still gotta call and ask.

haha...caitlyn, i same here la, juz come in here see wadever and post liao. keke...
 
snowy_casper - din see ya for a long time.. hehe..

my pin jin will be 4 digits.. my parents asked for 10 tables (most likely they keep AB but if we make huge loss, they'll help out)
 
my mum asked 8 tables too... but many boxes cakes...
hope everyone here can break even or make a small loss... i think b4 AD got many things to do... muz pack up for HM too...
 
newbbi,
yup thinking of topped up for the extra photos to inital album and change it to mag style.. comparing which is cheaper lor....

hello caitlyn
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long time no see too....
nw i headache over photos
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everything $$$ here & there.....
 
pinjin is separate from the tables amount isit? i blur liao. or izit the extra AP u put in during GDL??
mi mum got 17 tables hahaha....but we r ok since she not gg to take the APs fr us.
 
Hi Sweet

Remembered your AD is this weekend right! Excited or not? Most things done up? Yar.. also got headache with seating arrangements. My wedding will be 1 week after yours, also done by Eric! let me know how the day went and how u find him ok??

When are u departing for honeymoon?

Hi Mrs Wee

Think your AD also this weekend right? Dun stress, dun stress.. what else u still have outstanding?
 
berry,
all AD drawing soon lor so got more things to do..

i tink most of them giving pin jin in 4 digit so shall tell my hb liow lah...cos my mom oso said chin chai lah but she told me when all my bro married she oso give 4 digit wan...hint mi alreadi hor
 
just back from meeting.. drowned in all the postings.

pierced, pin jing is the $$ your hubby give to your mum as a token for bringing u up & marrying u to him. given during GDL. and its on top of the no. of the tables your mum is taking.
.. hopefully i din explain wrongly.
 
pierced,
pinjin & tables is diff issue lor..pinjin got to give during GDL one...don blur leh...wait yr mom wait for pinjin but dun hv..
 
hi jen

So sorry to hear that!!!!

I din see her since the day of my photo shoot. The next time I see her will be mid october for final fitting b4 wedding
 
haha...bye caitlyn...

oic...now i know...the one she take wadever she want then give back the rest rite.
hee...jam, mi mum never say at all, infact she wanted to do away with GDL. can 2 digit figure not??
 
a.. wah.. selection of PS pics ar.. getting my album @ mid Oct.. but me no soft copy leh.. top up 1.1k from a "screw" album to mag album but not digital pics hor, it's full page mag style, haha..

about JB trip.. pierced confirm driving in oso hah?? then i think i can join in, keke..

pierced, so u got lobang for printing in JB?? can help me ask if they print postcard?? me looking at 200pcs, 4C*1C, 250gsm.

er.. regarding pin jin hor.. there's another AP to give ur parents which they no need to return leh.. it's something like for the nappies.. but dunno how much to give leh..
 
pierced, 2 digit ah? like a bit low rite? it's to thank your mum for bringing you up leh.... i tell my FH must give 4 digit ah cos me worth much much more but 4 digit is only yishi yishi for him already..... give huge disc already ah.... :p
 
highness ya, my mum also got ask for that.... it's the milk powder money / nappy money .... that one she will keep all and no return.... while the pin jin will return some lor... for me, i'll ask my FH to give my mum more on the nappy $$ to make her happier lor.... and then for pin jin, lesser but in total 4 digit lor....
 
yup i will drive lor, but itz mi parents car so can fit in 4 ppl, too bad no longer MPV, otherwise can all go in one car even. keke...

highness, yup i guess so, i havent ask much on that yet so will get mi fren to ask how much to print postcards. coz itz a printing factory and not shop.

wow! another AP! heh heh...mi mum yest nite ask mi to arrange coz she dunno wadever customs. ask mi find out den she will do lor. so i will skip skip skip...kekeke
 
orh...haha...but we dun really bother such things so maybe juz tell him to put in more lor den up to mi mum whether she wana take. kekeke...write blank cheque can not??
 
my mum also skip alot things for custom things...she say now new age...and she dunno such customs..imagine the new generation nxt time.. simi also can liao...
so nappy AP also 4 digits or what? nvr heard such thing...but mum need to pay for shoes for son-in-law...
my mum will give a AP to give my hb to buy shoes...dunno what custom...juz listen...my hb happi got free shoes..haha
 
pierced,
lucky 4 u lor...skip everything but tink yi shi yi shi for pin jin (mayb 3 digit lor)...but wat nappy $$ than i m not sure lor cos my mom din asked leh..
 
u all confirmed going to JB ah? not sure if my FH wants to drive or not leh cos he never drove in before and thus not familiar..... if not, then i join u all can?
 
berry, ya lor...mi mum oso same thing lei...i even have to tell her wad other ppl do. she afraid later do too many things, mixed up somemore and do wrongly etc..so skip many things better.

hee we act already tot dun wana hold banquet. sekali nx time mi daughter say cohabit can liao....*pengz*
 
berry, u hb got free shoes ar?? nvr heard of that.. my mum say need to give son-in-law a gold ring when jin cha leh.. but if my FH dun wan then she convert to AP loh..
my mum buying 2 sets of bedsheets for us.. ask me go buy myself then give me the $$.. and pyjamas loh.. but prefer t-shirts n shorts to Zzz leh, keke..
my mum oso dunno much abt the custom but lots of san gu lui po all here say a bit there say a bit.. so tao yan..
 
hahaha...berry...TKK arh...if only mi hb will give blank cheque. he only say 'gd enuf i marrying u lei...' TMD...
ya lor...eh u go too la, kpo kpo lor...den can go buy secret recipe...yum yum...choc banana....
 
i tot itz free pants???? the one put on the pig??
highness, that's the worse part...like mi maternal granny too suggest this and that, mi mum oso dun bother she say maternal no need to listen. wahaha...
heh...i psychoing mi mum to buy mi new sheridan bedsheets...kekeke
 
hahaha....*confused look*
dun wanna hear anymore...like longer and longer list of things...hiak hiak...

gg to prepare for nite class liao...thk i gona zzz inside.
 
daphne- if ur fh wana drive, can follow our car, we r quite su w JB, often went there ;p wah not bad ah, the outcome to JB. we gg on nxt sat (8 oct)
 
blurz leh.. how come now got more and more customs and pattern coming out ??.. shoes? pants?
nappy ang pao.. my mum din mention leh.. better keep quiet and act blur.

so our 8Oct JB trip confirm isist?..
our thread really power leh, organise trip overseas. i wan go eat seafood ok?!
 


ting, i check with him if he wanna drive or not and if he free or not lor..... he won't let me drive one cos he scared i scratch the car ... hehe... if he not driving and going, can i join u all? got space or not ah?
 

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