berry, ya lor..... actually the lady at the temple says i can go to his place earlier but cos the time might clash with me so i will be pek chek at that time so think think better follow 11am. so my schedule will be he come to fetch around 830 or 9, after the games and praying at my place, go out at 10 to take some pics and idle idle until 10.45, go his house, reach around 11am and hopefully settle by 11.30 or 11.45, change to my kua (and grab the rest of the stuff if any) and proceed to my mum's place by 12.30 and finish tea ceremony by 1. i think i'll place most of my stuff for dinner at my mum's place so easier to collect.