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I am afraid of he will leave me, leave the family, so I choose to forgive him. But clinging on doesn't seems like having any better. Surface we are ok, but we didn't talk much as before, things are like changed

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I found out my husband was cheated on me few months back. He returned home, felt remorseful and wanted to start all over again. We tried, but we found it very hard. I will have mood swing, become suspicious and has low trust on him. My feelings towards him changed. Same goes to him. We tried but...

Dong: what happen to your husband family? do you mind to share more?

Dong: life is never been easy for me after all these. i tend to cling on the relationship yet it seems a bit meaningless actually. like what blissful has had mentioned, if im looking for a marriage with love, i should take the initiative to leave. im like dragging it days by days... probably...

i am happy for u that u found ur husband is innocent. enjoy ur pregnancy

thank you all. i guess time will be my best friend now. time will tell...

sigh. how i wish this is not happen on me or i can bang my head on the wall and forget everything that has happened recently. life never been easy after the affair was found out. although i kept it inside and dun want to know more about it, but i just can't help to be sad.

sean liew: yes u r absolutely right. they have been very careful for the past 14 months. stupid me! never have notice that he has an affair out there nor the one which is few years back! he did it very carefully. he seems like a very good husband at home after work and during weekends. but...

stardust: to be honest, every woman will want their husband to love them, let them shower us with love and care. thats y i am skeptical. i dunno whether i am able to live with the situation like this. if i have fear to lose him and live on my own, then i will have to accept what it is now. but...

thanks sm and milo. i think i am kinda scared of losing him. i am not a pretty lady. few months back he did mention to his friend that his love to me has fading away slowly. he never proposed to me 8 yrs back and he mentioned to his friend that i agreed to marry him myself, he dun have to do...

sm: I have spoken to him and make things clear. he agreed and so far so good, they have zero contact now. i knew that he already stop talking or sms her already. Both of them have agreed to break up as well.

yes. not only sex. he has feelings with the girl and the girl loves him. if not, they will not last so long. 14 months is not short period of time. is just that they seldom meet, but they email and sms each other everyday. till that i found out, then he stop everything with her and no...

I asked him. do u still love me? immediately he said yes. i asked him, u have affair out there and u admitted. do u wan a divorce? he said no i dun wan. i cannot afford to lose my family. i will not leave u. i will cut all the communication immediately. but 1 week later, i found out that he is...

i have no strength and courage to leave. just carry on like this but doesn't seems like the relationship is working out although surface we seems ok. he looks very tired and sorry about his past and he is immersing himself in his work. i am still very angry and sad in what he has done. i dunno...

stardust: i dunno whether i am consider brave to do so or coward to know the truth and fear to lose him. 8 years of marriage, how we build our home together, how we spent our sweet time together. i dun wan to lose everything just like this. i can see that he is truly sorry for his past actions...

stardust: i din ask why he stray. i dunno whether i am too scared to know the truth or i dun even wan to know the details about his stories with those girls. i asked who is she, he kept quiet. but just replied he will cut all the communication from that day onwards. and for the past 1 month, he...

thank you stardust. i dunno how long would it take for me to forget about all this. he seems like a stranger to me now. like u said, i see him regret and sorry in what he has done. but when i think of this affair is not the first time and he admitted it, it really breaks my heart. he is having...

stardust, this is not too much to ask. for me, one couple should be transparent to each other. at least, no lie and fidelity. i was pretty tired in my marriage also if u do read my post. i also dunno whether i choose the right path and will this work out eventually.

littlewoman: sometimes i feel weird when he hold my hand. he is like a stranger. but i din refuse. i think if i want to work things out, i have to let him do something