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    Unreasonable Dowry

    I think no need to further explain anymore, he ask to call off everything and the root cause is actually the gifts that they are not happy about.
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    Yes, I did explain but they say the request for the items are too much. I even go thru the list with him but he still say that is the fault of my parents and me.
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    My HTB is a police
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    My HTB is a police
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    They are very well to do , meaning his dad is earning like 10K per month, his Mom is a house Wife, his siblings are doing well as well, either Dentist or lawyer. But all of them are every sensitive with money. My parents and I only earned like $3k per person a month.
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    Need advice for 提亲 with future in laws

    For my case. I'm paying the tables on my own and the hongbao will be used to pay for it. I'm a bride
  7. K

    Unreasonable Dowry

    His parents are not going to give up, they want us to go to their house and apologies and now want us to foot the bill for their 6 tables!!! They are selling their Son?
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    I agree with this too. And now HTB ask me to apologise to my future in laws for being so 不懂事. Like seriously, they want my parents to go down and apologies too
  9. K

    Unreasonable Dowry

    Well , for the Pinjin is just for show, ultimately they are taking it back on the same day...
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    Too be honest, I feel that none of it is over demand... And also , we are only taking the oranges, cans of pig trotter and 四点金, which my future MIL say die die must give to me... Then his Mother when around the Neighbourhood and say that my parents are selling their daughter for the stupid...
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    I think I did not mention one point is, the guy side only need 6 tables n he is only paying for those tables, they want us to take the remaining, which are 10 tables. So we are actually helping them. They are not happy because they need to give those 四点金,6 oranges, cans of pig trotter and pin...
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    Estimated $1600 +++ per table and I'm paying 10 tables on my own.
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    My parents just met my future in laws to discuss about Pin Jin of $3,888 and others 过大礼stuff. My HTB requested to be for a solid gold gifts from my parents which they did agree. Everything turned out to be fine after the meet up. Then towards evening, I received nasty messages from HTB and he...
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    My parents just met my future in laws to discuss about Pin Jin of $3,888 and others 过大礼stuff. My HTB requested to be for a solid gold gifts from my parents which they did agree. Everything turned out to be fine after the meet up. Then towards evening, I received nasty messages from HTB and he...
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    I can't take it anymore. Please save me.

    You should move on. He will just make you more inferior and this is not good for your mental health. And it seems that he is taking you for granted. You are still young, just move on.

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