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Meimei, Thanks for replying. Yeah, I do agree with you that its definitely not easy to be with an expat. And its even difficult when I know nothing about his background. I want to know him deeper for sure and I wanna do it slow as do not wish to make him feel that I am interrogating him. I do...

Sharing a lil about myself, I just got out from my marriage since last aug and had went thru a bad ideal struggling with all the pain my ex hb had brought to me. I had nv looked back, nor have any feelings for him anymore... whats left behind was bits n pieces of great pain that I doubt I will...

Hi Adelene and hows everyone doing? Hope everyone been doing well. Time flies and its already the 4th month since me and my hb parted. Both of us nv text nor meet up after the last session, even if there's is they are just merely for the divorce procedure. I'm keeping a rational mind towards...

Hi Adamatine Don't worry, I don't intend to meet my next partner from any clubs. Even if I met anyone now, they are just simply friends. I've met a few but seriously, I do not feel anything for anyone. . even to those I've met at non clubbing places. I don't have any intention to start any...

Ayaya, as what Milo has said... I have decided to move on so it doesn't really matters if he has an affair. Nothing will change the facts. A lot of pple been telling me to ask for alimony from him and I do understand where they are coming from. I'm not too sure if its necessary but I don't...

Heyhey!! How's everyone doing? Din come in for long time cox my story here only remind me the bad days.. still trying to move on well but there are days whereby I can be quite emo... guess all just the journey to recovery, I'm sure all these just temporary. Missus Wong, I had went for my...

Yeah, I love to go for some classes as well to make myself fitter and healthier but sometimes gg alone can be less motivating. I have videos from Shaun t and another trainer - insanity, hip hop, turbo jam and turbo fire but just couldn't keep myself working out long enuff. I'm quite interested...

Missus_Wong, what happened to you? R you moving on well? I do hope things get better for you real soon. For me and the new guy is kinda impossible due to our age gap. He is so much younger where most guys at his age (slightly above mid 20s) should focus more on fun and his career. Whereas for...

Hi Missus_ Wong, thanks for your encouragement. I'm someone who actually likes to keep everything as memories although looking thru them hurts a lot. I usually just chuck them one side, and perhaps the next time when I dare to look at them again may be years later. I still do not have the...

Feeling lousy tonight... really lousy. Was looking for some of my old self photo earlier and saw photos that we took together since we started dating. We were so loving and happy then... everything was just about us, our love and our future. Why did we ended up this way? Really regretted to...

Yeah. I could say I'm moving on through this episode quite well as compared to previous relationships even the pain here is much greater. I've started meeting pple and even went for first date recently. I'm still quite skeptical in getting into another relationship as the fear and pain still...

It was true that I was blaming myself at the beginning and thought everything is my fault. Until a friend threw few qns to me and it woke me up. Since he had complained that I've not done enough, what has he done? I had made sacrifices but has he? He said I've not cooked enough for him, but has...

Thanks for great advices. I'm not thinking of salvaging this marriage anymore coz he's not interested at all. I've stopped contacting him since the day he given me the answer. I didn't even have any slightest thought of sending him any messages nor wanting to keep in touch. I still have not...

Yes. Am glad that i have my family and friends strong support and they have been telling me its nv my fault. They have woke me up and allowed me to know where is the problem. HE only blames me for everything but forgotten that it takes 2 hands to clap. He bear grudges right from the start of...

We had come to a closure days ago. Nothing changed his decisions at the end. Expected the outcome. . Calm I was.. no tears shed.. everything so over now. Today the 3rd day.. but here I m, still no tears. Tried crying out yday but there's isn't much. Those tears that rolled out... were for the...

Yeah. Doing it right nw. Stopped contacting him totally until few days later. Meantime also calming myself to prepare for the worst n stop pinning any hope. Feeling better today and not even looking at his whatapps status. Trying to move on as far as I can.

We finally met up and had a good chat in a calm and casual manner. At the beginning, his thoughts were quite firm but after walking through the session slowly, I managed to convince him and he had looked at things differently, but needed some time to think it through. He is still unsure and...

Thank you everyone who have showed your concern. I'm trying. . I'm trying very hard. Learning to let go and think rationally. I cannot believe the man I marry to can actually just walked out of our home and marriage just like that. I have nv imagined this day will come nor it will happened...

Is there anyone able to tell me why is he still ignoring or avoiding me???

Thanks milo for your encouragement. I'm learning to let go and at same time staying positive. Prepared for the worst had happened as he might already stepped into another new r/s. How things changes so fast right... from a lovely dovey to a betrayal. However these are speculation, but...