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    Is this revenge?

    If u revenge n u divorce...all these will surface ugily in court n you might end up the lossing one. Think twice n dun let your emotions ran high. My ex tried ..and i caught him n proof it to court everything. So..for the benefit of everyone here reading, dun play tit for tat, it doesnt get you...
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    Wife cheated on me...

    Autumnrain Sorry to hear this... stay positive cos there are better man outside. But immediate now is you hv to let him go..no point fighting to keep the relationship. For divorce..i can offer you my assistant as i fought my own n hv now made alot of legal acquaintanences .. this will take...
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    separation - divorce questions

    Not necessary ..court will let you divorce so long as both agrees Unreasonable Behaviour so as to push the case to settle Ancillaries ...yep no reason court disallow when its btw both of u ...PM me should u need further assistance ..heresay will always u so confuse. Yes..i self represented n...
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    Is this revenge?

    Hi Roxie88 I tried but he wasnt sincere n i found there were other women. I became a single married mum...i can only sugguest you make sure you are financially strong enough to weather it. Life_is Court is always fair...you didnt gave much detail but u may contest and throw out her hidden...
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    Transitioning from girlfriend to wife

    Phyris .. who is "mentally" prep to be a wive then become a "mum cum wife" then after that " mum cum wive cum tuition teacher" n then after that " mum cum wife cum teacher cum house cleaner " .... u see ..we all learn as we go along ..give each other time to adapt ...franky, if u call it quits...
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    Views on affair with a common friend

    Yep ... Ting2.1 ... just be prepare for that rainy day ..safe guard yourself n your kids ...buy insurance n save $
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    Is this revenge?

    Yes...that excuse was totally lame but for the sake of the kids who were in K1 & K2 .. i gave him a chance...now looking back, i shud hv walked out yet again .. i live now with clear consious
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    Is this revenge?

    Hi Ting2.1 Its always easy for ppl to say dun revenge, think of kids, you will regret dun this ..dun that ... but when you see his face, everything comes back in n your emotions ran high. Speaking from experience ...done all of that n more. Broken mirrors will always reveal the cracks. What...
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    Forgive or not forgive?

    Frog in a frying pan .. the frog thought it isnt hot so its not dangerous ...slowly the heat goes up little by little ... smoking isnt bad ..u dun die instantly ... heroine isnt bad, small amount dun kill so long as control, who hold the controls, the one smoking ....addictions arent bad so long...
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    separation - divorce questions

    It depends on her full case of divorce n dept of complication ...no divorce case is so simple ...i done my own divorce ..meaning i self represented ...have u?
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    Adulterly

    Sms evidence is admissible in court but ...u hv to get it printed out but on yr Hp ...photos depending cos it can be manipulated so if yr pic are from a licence PI ..yes it admissble ....yet it is arugmentive ...hope this helps
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    Anyone with same experience? Husband visits prostitutes

    Then pray hard gal ...not casustic but thats what i did also..i prayed n prayed
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    Affairs of heart :(

    It is always easy to type "go ahead divorce" ...i remembered my sis n bro sent me ... thought i got their support since my ex had numerous affairs, when i was in Status Conf ...then i really kbow who my real family are.. Divorce is easy " IF" u dun hv kids ... and is easy "IF" yr ex is...
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    Anyone with same experience? Husband visits prostitutes

    Hi Carousell You have to close both eyes n have a big heart to stay on ... after my divorce.. i keep myself busy with work n activities n help ppl ...by helping ppl i help myself
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    Forgive or not forgive?

    Its impossible to annul but if both parties agree...it can be annul ..no freaking lawyer in the world will tell u this cos they want u to go thru the whole divorce process.where they can rip you $30-50k For porno addicts hubby...really nothing to say cos i did encountered some n they need to...
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    Anyone with same experience? Husband visits prostitutes

    A leopard never change its spots .... my ex was introduce to vice by his "buddies" ..goody buddies...one lead to another ...one darinly confronted me n another from the net n then he decided to upgrade...fly them in...wtf...i endured cos my kids were so young ...thats was bad decision .i should...
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    Forgive or not forgive?

    My friend got his annulment after 7yrs of marriage ...not everything is what it seems
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    for the sake of my son and my parents

    Hi Rhea Reading your sharing is like playing back my sad history ... well ...in a nutshell, like u sarcifice for the sake of our kids even though he admitted adultery not once.but many.times... i thought .. i thought now the kids are old enough (22 n 22) .. we just sell house n divorce amicably...
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    He visited prostitutes but still proposed to me

    Everyone here encourages you to leave him n move on and so do I ...as you unfold pieces of your relationship ... you will surely loose out if he divorce u in future should u decide to marry him ...futhermore, did it occure to you he may have an motive n you are just part of his bigger...
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    Deciding if I should proceed with a divorce

    Hi wolf Kytheon's point is valid ..the older the kids,the more they question n the more they try to justify the morebthe blame u n ususally their justification is loopsided ...on the other hand..hv u consider may b she's OCD ..hmm...Excessive Compassive sydrome??

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