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It all depends on whether you have any extra hands to help you and what kind of materials your MUA is using. Initially, I was also thinking of getting the MUA to stay back to help with touch-ups, gown-changing, etc. Here I was, offering my MUA extra money to stay back for simple tasks, but she...

There is nothing wrong in wanting to save your marriage but you need to remember that it takes both parties to be willing to make an effort - it will not work if only you are willing but your husband isn't. You need two hands to clap. And that seems to be the case here. Ever since he walked out...

So you're the one feeling iffy about your fiancé inviting his ex but what about him? I know you mentioned he invited his ex because you invited yours but does he feel neutral about inviting his ex or is he actually iffy about it as well? Best to have a frank talk with him. Let him know why you...

I'm sorry to hear of what has happened. But this is an affirmation that your husband is dead set in his cheating ways and is not remorseful of his actions. The fact that he claims he now has another girl shows how fickle-minded he can be and if anyone should be angry, disappointed and tired, it...

You're welcome! Relationship isn't a static thing but a dynamic one that requires on-going effort from both parties.. Also, to answer your question re the "face thing", personally for me, no, my hubby doesn't do that to me. Although I'm aware that it's a popular thing in porn (but not...

Everyone's definition of "normal" can vary from one individual to another. But if you're asking if that's how love-making ends for the majority of people, then the answer is "no". Sex was originally designed for both pleasure and procreation, hence the so-called "norm" would be to ejaculate into...

It is not uncommon to get depression during pregnancy so you're not alone. There is always help at hand and I'm glad to hear that you are keen to seek treatment. There are a few ways you can go about this. You can see a GP or a Polyclinic doctor to get a referral to see a Psychiatrist who can...

I am glad to see that you recognized what he did was wrong yet realize some of your issues may have been a contributing factor. Be upfront with him and ask him what he hopes to get out of the affair and why he is not willing to end it. Ask him what he sees in the future of your marriage as well...

Try to find out what is the root problem at hand and his reason(s) for having this affair AND continuing it despite you knowing. Prior to this, how is he as a husband to you and how is he as a father to your kids? You need to get him to come clean otherwise matters will only worsen. There is no...

It seems to me that your family and health problems have become quite a stressor to you to the point that if affects your interactions wih others, hence your husband's comment about you being too emotional. As much as we may sometimes bottle up our feelings or not want to burden others, is there...

Yes, they really need to talk things through.. @cristan , how are things now? Have you had a chance to consider everyone's input here and/or talk things out with your fiance?

Thanks.. I checked JTB's website and sadly, none of their tour dates fit my schedule.. Will have to hunt more..

Hi everyone! Am planning for a family trip to Japan in June but no specific destinations per se. Would prefer a good tour group that does a good job covering must-see places (fluent English tour guide) without too much of rushing around or super early morning starts while being reasonably...

I think she meant that initially he was asking for sex but they have now reached a consensus for no sex before marriage. However, she's still concerned on how to deal with the issue once they get married as it would seem that she will no longer have any form of excuse if she wants to reject his...

They're currently engaged but still not married yet.. Not sure if they're staying together or if they're staying apart, and if it's the latter, how often they spend the night together..

Hmm, once a week for newlyweds wouldn't fall into the "high sex drive" category.. In fact, for any couple (even those who have been married for quite a while) with a healthy sexual relationship, sex can take place up to 2-3 times a week and maybe even more.. In your other posts, you mentioned...

Correct me if I'm wrong but your reply gives me the impression that your fiancé is agreeable to not having sex before marriage but feels that once both of you are married, he's "entitled" to sex and you are then "obliged" to comply. If my impression is right, this is potentially very dangerous...

Perhaps it may work better for both of you to have a frank talk with each other about this issue when it isn't nightfall yet. That way, both your minds are still clear - yours from the fatigue of the day and his from the expectation of having sex. Try to come to an understanding and mutual...

What is it that you're stressed about particularly? I don't want to simply assume but is this related to you having a different level of drive compared to him? Or maybe you're concerned about your "performance"? Or you just want to rest at night but knows he's still gonna ask for it but don't...

The food and service were both really great during our banquet but of course, everyone's human and such things are subject to variation so no guarantee... But we really did love it there and have absolutely no regrets choosing HFC.. Maybe you and your fiancé can both head down to HFC to check...