Recent content by serf

...and i thought i was the only odd one out who's experiencing situations like these...i know how you feel too

yes, i did that "wife go on strike" thing before...i stopped doing household chores & cooking for a week...and he ended up cooking up a mess and my daughter ended up with a bad case of stomach flu.

You're quite spot-on, I must say...are you, by any chance, a marriage counsellor?

I know I'm no spring chicken as well, but I really appreciate your kind words. It feels good that I can spit out my woes to someone who doesn't judge. I have a couple of friends who renewed their wedding vows on their 20th wedding anniversary and they've asked me how come I'm not keen (they...

I'm already in my late 40s and I think he knows no one new is gonna come along in my life.

Trust me, I've had a heart-to-heart talk with him once and his nonchalent reply to me was "It's not like I'm cheating on you". Well, what else can I say?...

I tried the date thing already...went out brunch with him and guess what?...he'a also got the mahjong app on his mobile, so once he was done with eating and once the utensils are down, his hands would reach for the mobile to resume his mahjong game...i decided we go home after brunch and ditch...

We got married in our 20s and he had that ambitious drive to start his own business after learning all the hands-on skills in the company that he worked in. Somehow, complacency set in and he became too laid-back to do anything else more than is required. And that work attitude applies to his...

Am a copywriter in an advertising firm. Love travelling without a map or itinerary (am the kind of person who goes with the flow and follow my gut feeling). I guess dynamic pretty much sums me up.

Husband (in his early 50s) & I (late 40s) are approaching our 23rd wedding anniversary next month (which he will not remember again). We have a 17-year old daughter whom we truly adore. However, I think our marriage has reached to a point where we have become strangers and probably just...