Recent content by RnS

Buddhabar, on one end I agreed with you... I know all of us should have the choice on how to live our lives, fulfil our own dreams... our situation had made her unable to do so... I should consider to let her go... On the other end, I too made sacrifice coz for this home... our home... probably...

I am trying my best to act normally, spending more time and effort with my kids... This morning my wife suddenly tell me that she even consider moving to her friends or sisters with our kids... Though they all rejected... she now is thinking of letting me keep the house but rents from me a...

Trying very hard here... I'm the sort of person that thinks that you should solve today's problem today... But I know I cannot solve this problem this way... This week while traveling for work... I see families together... doing simple things like walking and dining together... it hurts...

She plans to rent out our spare room, use the rental to engage a maid so that she could start to work again... I support her going back to work but yet that means she will leave me... eventually Over the last weekend... She told her sisters about her plans... they never said anything to me...

She was involved on the decision but looking back I feel she wasn't really given a choice... for the sake of our young family... Over these few days, she shared a lot more with me... I want to make up to her... But she doesn't want that coz she feels there's no point... She is now focusing on...

She feels pretending to love me is the cause of her depression... She thinks by removing me from her life she will be cure... She doesn't have someone outside but probably someone was always inside but wasn't me...

2 of her close friends are going through difficult times with their spouse as well... All her decision is driven by negative emotion... She says she's making the decision herself and not influence by others... But she blew up this episode because she started having gathering with her friends...

I admit I probably could do better on the "sweet things" but I'm not sure would she even accept such actions now... She even don't let me hold her hands now... I don't want to upset her further... any kind hearted ladies could tell me what to do here... How to show love and yet not turn off...

I suggested marriage therapy but she says no point for us or her but she suggested I should go myself to overcome this separation... She previously had this similar episode with me before where she insist I commit adultery which was totally unfounded... She also suffered depression...

We go out on dates leaving our kids with my parents... We watch movies, KTV, dining, trips as a family and just both of us as well over the years... We do have sex weekly, biweekly sometimes longer... That's why I thought everything was fine...

She has been a housewife for 10 years... She started to share plans of how she intend to move forward with the kids without me... She insist that we both will be better off apart... that I can find someone better... ... How do we tell our kids if we really... She insist I'm still their father...

I use to think she love me... Now I don't know... I'm afraid to know... Would anyone stay together for 10 years w/o any bit of love...

Kids are ours... But both 1st and the 2nd were not planned... Ours was a shotgun marriage I never cheated her in anyway throughout our entire marriage

I need a place for me to share my feelings coz i am going crazy... I am a guy in his thirties, married with 2 children... I don't know where to start... I'm just lost and without anyone to talk to... My wife says she never loved me... after 10 years of marriage She says she wants a divorce...