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What about buying something equivalent to the engagement ring. What are your views on that??

Both of us are in sales but selling different things, hence the difference. Both of us are in our late 20s, well definitely can wait but will not be long. I guess after reading and considering, it still boils down to how much I want to contribute Vs how much should I contribute.

This sounds good but then the same question again. Do we put it same sum or ratio according to pay. Not that I don't want to put in more. But what I earned is actually mine right? I know I can't get a conclusion out of this but just need some ideas to help to guide me to the right decision

This is my concern, my bf sure can afford. But he will wipe out his entire savings just for this wedding whereas I still have most of my savings for rainy days. But this thought alone make me wonder if it is really okay.

But giving engagement ring is symbolic right?

Dear sisters and maybe brothers out there, Recently I had a brief but deep conversation with my boyfriend regarding our future. Firstly, some background of my boyfriend. He earns quite a lot despite being only 1 year+ in the workforce but I still earns about 2 to 2.5 times more than him. His...