Recent content by Hope4me

Hi iccy, Thanks! ;) Hi ooosh, Situation has improved a lot i would say, we are a lot closer than compared to 1 weeks before and she has cut down the messaging somewhat as well, at least there are no more 2-4am smses. She is appreciative of my support and respecting her private space and I...

uglydude, I think your comment is uncalled for. You are free to express your opinion in my thread but that doesn't give you a right to flame me and certainly not that way about my wife, you don't know a thing about us and what we had been through. If you have not love someone more than...

Dear orangepie, Thanks for your kind words, I agree with you fully that she is currently blinded and cannot see and think clearly, hence the reason why I don't want to force her nor rush into a divorce situation, its not fair to both parties. I do believe that this guy will not leave his...

It seems like there are many guys sharing or shared my plight? On surface its seems that wife has stopped loving me. But on a deeper level, I am not sure if she simply stop loving me or she is confused at the moment and doesn't know her own feeling, and she need time to sort things out? She is...

Dear Ezekiel, We have almost identical situation!!! Am glad you emerged from a 3 years wait, frankly speaking I won't last 3 years....I did not tell anyone of this for the same reason that I don't want any of my friends or family to judge her, before nor after this incident, its my way of...

Hi iccy No, she didn't go out last night as she was too tired from the previous night out. We are all not young anymore, wife is in late 40s and the guy is early 50s.....that's why i say physical attraction might not be the reason, i might be wrong i know, but that is what i am holding on right...

Dear sadman2009, Thanks, I take your well wishes with appreciation :) Hi rofthelper She didn't do this everyday, just once or sometime twice weekly for past few weeks (since late oct or early nov). But each time will be after 2am minimum. She can't drink more than half bottle of beer, hence...

Dear caution, Thanks for your sharing bro, for better or worst, am sure life goes on and I will walk out of this, either to be a better husband or a better single. So it does look like you are still on talking terms with your ex after divorce? Its already hard to get back together during the...

Dear sadman2009, Perhaps I am in the state of denial, we all go through that? I really hope you are wrong about her, though I have no way to prove anything now, but i really do hope you are wrong this time bro......I appreciate you trying to knock some senses into me....I do....but i feel i...

Dear sadman2009, Thanks for sharing your story with me, I can connect with you on this level..... I don't think they have gone physically, perhaps not yet because I know my wife. I trust her in this aspect but at the same time, am afraid to ask her, am afraid she will prove me wrong. Therefore...

Hi iccy, Thanks for reading and took the effort to reply. You have been right on spot about certain things, of some reasons she mentioned these 2 days, among them are: 1. She cannot stand my folks. She feels suffocated by them, always wanting a family style outing, dinner, tours etc etc. She...

I don't even know where or how to begin....am very confused now. Just found out wife is having EA because she sent a wrong message to me which wasn't intended for me at all, she was addressing the other guy "my love". I was searching for a nice place to dine with her on my hp when i saw the...